iNeedaTinyToyF
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I'm not saying I'm perfect. Nor am I saying that my profile might not rub a few people the wrong way. I get it, you don't like me or what I like. Cool. I'll be sure to cry over it later. I also get that the moderators and admins have a job to do and don't have time for bullshit from people causing problems. However, I am kinda upset over not being given a legitimate reason for being banned/kicked. Yes, I've been kicked before, and I got some one-word, vague "reason" for being kicked. So, I did what normal people do when not given an actual answer, I assumed one of us pissed off the other somehow, then I ignored it and then I moved on. I didn't even know I could actually complain or write the mod/admin or do anything about it until this latest incident. "Water under the bridge" as they say.
But I do believe there should be a semi-detailed reason for being banned. Maybe an actual sentence? I mean... that screen doesn't even tell you who banned you. It's just "reason you were kicked..." If you're going to have that much power over someone, you should at least use it wisely, possibly be considerate, and at least do some sort of investigation into the matter before you ban someone. Maybe? And that screen should also tell you who banned you as well. I had to go ask a VIP member from another room what I could do about being banned. He pointed me here. And I'm not saying I need a paragraph explaining my "atrocious" behavior. But I think something more than one or two words would be better. The reason for my permanent ban... "Soliciting". And come to find out... it was what I had written in my profile, not what I was saying in the room. To which I questioned @RustyNail about and was given "I don't like your profile or your name" and... "you've been warned (you mean... by kicking me out with a one-word reason that mentioned nothing about my profile?) and kicked before. Hell... he even told me that I got kicked out before by @Summer X, but I can't even find her in the list of admins/mods (maybe I'm not looking in the right place? IDK) for reason of "ped"?? Umm... thanks for judging me based off my profile and not actual evidence. I'm hoping you're kicking those kids out of the Adult/Sex rooms too. And to top it off... he continued his statement to me with "...and you didn't change it". Well, how about saying something like "Look dude, change your profile. It's upsetting me. Or I'll ban you". Maybe that would have worked? Who knows!? He hasn't even told me the other reasons he kicked me. I'm betting those were all one-word reasons too. But if it had been an actual sentence, telling me my profile was offensive, then I would have changed it. Like I told him, I'm not unreasonable, and I've tried to be nice and polite to admins/mods (and well... to everyone else). Oh... and no second chance either, because well... I still don't like you or your name.
I get it... there are rules to follow. And I, like everyone else, don't read the rules. And now, I'm permanently banned. Because of one-word reasons and a clash of personalities. So, no need to help people be better, just ban them all so you don't have to see them. That seems fair.
And I'm not exactly sure about the protocol for such a thread. I don't know if the other admins/mods are copied or will see this. I certainly am not trying to piss anyone off. So, I apologize if you (admins/mods) are getting this multiple times or whatever. But I really think this should be something we could all learn from. I'm not asking @RustyNail to unban me (although, I would be thankful for it AND i would make the appropriate changes), obviously he refuses to give me a second chance because of "reasons". But I do hope that someone will get something out of this.
Thank you.
@Kim @NorCal @xStoned @Lex Luthor @Chopper @H.R. PufnStuf @Enchantress @AA Sanz @flame_song @Chatmaster @Coyo @RustyNail @Kristi @Annie @Ness_eb @Johnny
And also, whoever @Summer X is. My apologies, especially to you, for dragging you into this when I have no real evidence you did anything to me.
But I do believe there should be a semi-detailed reason for being banned. Maybe an actual sentence? I mean... that screen doesn't even tell you who banned you. It's just "reason you were kicked..." If you're going to have that much power over someone, you should at least use it wisely, possibly be considerate, and at least do some sort of investigation into the matter before you ban someone. Maybe? And that screen should also tell you who banned you as well. I had to go ask a VIP member from another room what I could do about being banned. He pointed me here. And I'm not saying I need a paragraph explaining my "atrocious" behavior. But I think something more than one or two words would be better. The reason for my permanent ban... "Soliciting". And come to find out... it was what I had written in my profile, not what I was saying in the room. To which I questioned @RustyNail about and was given "I don't like your profile or your name" and... "you've been warned (you mean... by kicking me out with a one-word reason that mentioned nothing about my profile?) and kicked before. Hell... he even told me that I got kicked out before by @Summer X, but I can't even find her in the list of admins/mods (maybe I'm not looking in the right place? IDK) for reason of "ped"?? Umm... thanks for judging me based off my profile and not actual evidence. I'm hoping you're kicking those kids out of the Adult/Sex rooms too. And to top it off... he continued his statement to me with "...and you didn't change it". Well, how about saying something like "Look dude, change your profile. It's upsetting me. Or I'll ban you". Maybe that would have worked? Who knows!? He hasn't even told me the other reasons he kicked me. I'm betting those were all one-word reasons too. But if it had been an actual sentence, telling me my profile was offensive, then I would have changed it. Like I told him, I'm not unreasonable, and I've tried to be nice and polite to admins/mods (and well... to everyone else). Oh... and no second chance either, because well... I still don't like you or your name.
I get it... there are rules to follow. And I, like everyone else, don't read the rules. And now, I'm permanently banned. Because of one-word reasons and a clash of personalities. So, no need to help people be better, just ban them all so you don't have to see them. That seems fair.
And I'm not exactly sure about the protocol for such a thread. I don't know if the other admins/mods are copied or will see this. I certainly am not trying to piss anyone off. So, I apologize if you (admins/mods) are getting this multiple times or whatever. But I really think this should be something we could all learn from. I'm not asking @RustyNail to unban me (although, I would be thankful for it AND i would make the appropriate changes), obviously he refuses to give me a second chance because of "reasons". But I do hope that someone will get something out of this.
Thank you.
@Kim @NorCal @xStoned @Lex Luthor @Chopper @H.R. PufnStuf @Enchantress @AA Sanz @flame_song @Chatmaster @Coyo @RustyNail @Kristi @Annie @Ness_eb @Johnny
And also, whoever @Summer X is. My apologies, especially to you, for dragging you into this when I have no real evidence you did anything to me.
