Kicked for putting (*)s in Lesbian Chat. Because I'm not VIP.

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TheJessica

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I didn't use any swear words. But I was kicked for 2 hours anyways. I just want to hang out with friends and have fun but the mods lack any sense of humor. Any and all jokes I make are taken by them as personal attacks. Moreover VIPs are given special treatment. They are allowed to use swear words and go unpunished. The word filter doesn't effect them and they can say anything to anyone without punishment. But even the use of the (*) symbol by a non VIP member is grounds for punishment. This is unfair and unequal treatment. Am I to understand that a person with VIP is above the Rules? That they can simply pay for the privilege to be above reproach? That VIPs are held to a lower standard because they pay your bills?

I haven't broken any rules yet I am punished by being kicked because I don't pay you money.

Having read other responses to inquiries in regards poor actions by the mods. I guess I should just expect a bunch of people to jump in, laugh at me, troll me, then lock my post. Does this entire sub forum just exist for people to troll anyone looking for help?
 
I think the only ever time I've been kicked was for trying to post a You Tube song and got a one hour kick. Yet VIPs can post You Tube clips all day. Just another example of unequal treatment.

Pinky said:
@flame_song please assist thanks
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Thank You, but From what I've caught in chat, FlameSong is hardly ever online.
 
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I’ve tagged the room admin, please wait for her to respond. As we are all volunteers and we have lives outside this forum and chat, you need to wait for someone to respond from Lesbian Chat to assist.
 
I heard those with VIPS can send teddy bears to minors in one chat room. I think this user brings up a great point in how the same standards do not apply to regular users and those that pay for this service. I personally think anyone posting constant ******* links should be banned. And if you kick one person for a fake swear like f*** *ou H.* you should kick the VIPS for cursing as well.
 
TheJessica said:
I think the only ever time I've been kicked was for trying to post a You Tube song and got a one hour kick. Yet VIPs can post You Tube clips all day. Just another example of unequal treatment.
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As @Pinky correctly said, the admin has been tagged and is the one who can address this. I just wanted to point out that one of the perks of VIP is the ability to post YT links.
 
TheDifference said:
As @Pinky correctly said, the admin has been tagged and is the one who can address this. I just wanted to point out that one of the perks of VIP is the ability to post YT links.
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Thank you for explaining. I just feel so bad. I never wanted to brake any rules. I just wanted to make people happy.
 
TheJessica said:
Thank you for explaining. I just feel so bad. I never wanted to brake any rules. I just wanted to make people happy.
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You’re welcome. I know it’s hard but just be patient till the admin logs in and I’m sure they can resolve this for you 😊
 
TheDifference said:
As @Pinky correctly said, the admin has been tagged and is the one who can address this. I just wanted to point out that one of the perks of VIP is the ability to post YT links.
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What would you say to her second point the use of * being kicked whereas VIPS can type all the dam.n curse words they want? That is a load of poop.
 
BlackLivesMatter said:
What would you say to her second point the use of * being kicked whereas VIPS can type all the dam.n curse words they want? That is a load of poop.
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Since I’m neither a mod or admin in Lesbian Chat and I have no knowledge of this particular situation, I wouldn’t say anything. I’d wait till the Admin addressed it.
 
I didn't mean for this to be a place for everyone to complain and swear. I just want to know if VIPs get more leeway. I'm sorry that these other unrelated people feel the need to spam their responses.

It must be highly stressful for anyone trying to moderate these forums.

I guess I can try to talk to FlameSong next time I see her in chat. I don't want to get anyone in any trouble. I just have questions about the specific manner in which VIPs are treated compared with Non VIP members.

I see now my original post was too inflammatory for this crowd.

Please kindly disregard this thread.
 
TheJessica said:
I didn't mean for this to be a place for everyone to complain and swear. I just want to know if VIPs get more leeway. I'm sorry that these other unrelated people feel the need to spam their responses.

It must be highly stressful for anyone trying to moderate these forums.

I guess I can try to talk to FlameSong next time I see her in chat. I don't want to get anyone in any trouble. I just have questions about the specific manner in which VIPs are treated compared with Non VIP members.

I see now my original post was too inflammatory for this crowd.

Please kindly disregard this thread.
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No. You did the right thing by appealing. Just ignore everyone else and let the admin address it. It might take some time but they will.
 
TheJessica said:
I think the only ever time I've been kicked was for trying to post a You Tube song and got a one hour kick. Yet VIPs can post You Tube clips all day. Just another example of unequal treatment.
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You have been kicked 6x in total. For various reasons of breaking rules. You forgot to mention I told the VIPs to stop saying “peacock” continuously because you all (as a whole ) was turning it into a game of saying words you shouldn’t & You were kicked for what looked like cussing to me as it was directed to me you said “
Chelly ******* u*****f***********ing*******************************qq**********gtr

25/03 22:03

” Flame can message me if she has an issue
 
Ceci said:
You have been kicked 6x in total. For various reasons of breaking rules. You forgot to mention I told the VIPs to stop saying “peacock” continuously because you all (as a whole ) was turning it into a game of saying words you shouldn’t & You were kicked for what looked like cussing to me as it was directed to me you said “
Chelly ******* u*****f***********ing*******************************qq**********gtr

25/03 22:03

” Flame can message me if she has an issue
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Does this mean I'll be banned? I just met a girl CanadianKatie and I love her. I don't want to lose her.
 
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TheJessica said:
6? For what else have I been kicked?
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O wait, one of them was for reporting people who were sending me sexual requests and I was kicked simply for reporting them. I think another one was because I was depressed and said I didn't want to live anymore. Something like that.

So that's pretty poor reasons to be kicked, a depressed statement or two, a couple poorly received jokes, once for reporting people who were harassing me. That makes 5. I think the 6th was something about my profile saying the word Dominant, a thing which multiple VIPs are allowed to do.

VIPs can say dominant, VIPs can say anything they want, VIPs can report without getting kicked.

So moral of this, if I was a VIP I'd never have been kicked at all.
 
This is what my profile says now.
I have met a wonderful woman. I love her more than the sun and stars, more than life, more than all of existence. On here her name is CanadianKatie. Shes 24 and I'm 29, we are perfect for eachother. More perfect than any of God's creations. We are one. My Katie is more beautiful than any flower, sweeter than any candy, warmer than the sunshine. She brightens my life as the sun lights the earth. My love for her is stronger than any metal, burning hotter than any flame.

I don't want to lose her and if I'm banned, that's what will happen. This isn't fair. I will marry her if I have the chance. I want to spend my life with her. If I lose all contact with her, I won't live though it.
 
If you were getting banned I’m sure it would already have happened. The mod @Ceci did not seem to suggest what u did was worth a ban but more of normal kicks to ease pressure that built in the room. Typically Bans are reserved for Spam,advertising,bots and sexual/offensive behaviour in rooms where minors are present. I don’t believe you need to worry about a ban for your current history but the admin can reassure u of this if you’re still concerned.
 
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