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well this was funny lmao
Seems to me it was more a case of another attention-starved genius boosting their ego by tearing someone else down.

As to the “substance” of your attention seeking the wonderful Miriam Margolyes says it best

 
For a while now I have been unable to report many of the abusive messages I receive on here. Whenever I try to I receive the red banded message, 'An error has occurred'. I know this happens if one ignores the person before reporting them, so I think it also happens if *they* ignore *you* before you report them. This is what I think may have happened earlier today.

What compounds things isn't just this error, but the inexplicable and systemic failure of mods to do anything about it and how their responses to my concerns aggravate things rather than lead them to a satisfactory and just end. Today, I raised the issue of not being unable to report to 'RodeoMT' and I was met with passive aggressive gaslighting. When I explained to him why I *think* I may not be able to report someone, he launched into an accusatory attack about how I allegedly did something 'last time' (without any explanation or evidence) - as if this somehow undermines and cancels out my present complaint about the racial abuse I have received. Wtf?

The abuse of a racial nature clearly violates Chat Avenues rules, and yet without even showing the slightest interest in what it was or who said it, 'RodeoMT' chose to adopt a combative nature towards me. Even if 'RodeoMT' is unable to help or do his job, is it really so difficult to find a mod that is so unprofessional in how he communicates with people who have been racially abused, and make them out to be the problem? It's clear that this individual has a personal animus towards me.

This sort of thing has been happened for months. I don't come here just to waste my time because I have nothing else to do. Rather, I have to because the aggressive disinterest from the mods is systemic and makes Chat a less safe place, with the exception of 'TheDifference' who seems to be the only one I've met that who genuinely seems earnest about issues on here.

@TheDifference

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As i have already iterated, you're not helpful or relevant to this discussion.

This was you in your first response:
Without the complete story, I can't comment much beyond that
Then you did. Incessantly. Making comments without the faintest clue of what went on.

You're a bad faith actor, interested in drama and piling on rather than treating this as a serious issue.
 
You're a bad faith actor, interested in drama and piling on rather than treating this as a serious issue.
Actually, he’s one of the most decent people you could know and has spoken up against racism and other forms of prejudice on multiple occasions - and was completely fair to you.

You came here for a specific reason. You’ve had a comprehensive reply from TheDifference. Perhaps you missed it when making 4 other posts…

Hello,
I’ll just chime in here with my perspective. The first and very important thing is that (speaking for Mobile and Desktop) we take any type of racism, bigotry, hate speech, etc very seriously. When we get complaints of that nature we always investigate it and if we determine it has occurred, we take action against the perpetrator. Full stop.

In your particular case, you and I have dealt with each other for quite some time now, and you have brought to my attention multiple instances where you feel there have been violations of this type. And I think for the most part you’ve been satisfied with my responses.
We may not always agree on if something is racist or not (because there are grey areas in almost everything). But I feel I have at least explained my reasoning to you so you can understand our position.

In this specific case that you’re raising today there are really two parts. The technical part where you said you were unable to report something and the staff part where you feel you weren’t treated properly. I definitely want to address both parts.

The technical part: I think you already correctly identified the issue in the very beginning of your first post. I have seen cases where two people are in a pm and one of them puts the other on ignore and it renders the other person unable to make a report. Based on what @TheEridianNinja said this may be different for different rooms, maybe if they are on different servers, idk.
But regardless you should be able to report things you feel are violations, so continue to bring them to our attention and we will address them.

One solution others have used is if they are in a pm and they see a violation they report it even before responding to the other person and giving them a chance to put them on ignore. That way the staff can see the violation and deal with it. Just a thought.

The staff part: I’ve read your perspective and I also talked with Rodeo. It’s only fair to both sides that I get as much info as possible. You clearly feel you weren’t treated properly and I’m sorry you feel that way. I’m very hands on with the room mods and we have specific places where we communicate as a team and discuss issues and how things should be handled. This hopefully allows us to be more consistent in how we enforce the rules and also how we interact with room members.

Each staff are individuals and have their own way of operating. And I encourage that because it’s that individuality that makes things interesting and the room fun. As long as it’s done appropriately. In this specific case from everything I’ve seen, the staff tried to address your concern and gave you the proper information and resources you needed. If the way they interacted with you while they did that bothers you, then you have every right to express that.

I hope that since both sides have had a chance to have their side heard, we can move on and both sides can reflect on this situation and ways that will make the next interaction better.
If you want to continue this I’m perfectly fine doing that. It may be more efficient to do it in the room in a real-time pm. It would also be easier for you to show me anything you want to there. But it’s your call.

Thanks
 
Actually, he’s one of the most decent people you could know and has spoken up against racism and other forms of prejudice on multiple occasions - and was completely fair to you.

You came here for a specific reason. You’ve had a comprehensive reply from TheDifference. Perhaps you missed it when making 4 other posts…
I'm not reading any of that.

You're not relevant to this conversation, nor do you know what happened, nor is your opinion worth anything to me.

Go away. The only persons that can deal with this are RodeoMT and TheDifference.
 
You're not relevant to this conversation, nor do you know what happened, nor is your opinion worth anything to me.
What a lovely character you are. You’re right though, I know nothing of this waffle so I’ll tidy the thread up for you. One moment


Edit: to add that off-topic posts after the admin responded have been dumped in random comments
 
@TheDifference is this how you operate this place?

My concerns are either hijacked by trolls, or by individuals who have no clue what happened and are now piling in?

How do you expect me to think you can deal with this seriously when your own chat mods are immature misfits, too petty to stand back and let you deal with things?
 
@TheDifference is this how you operate this place?

My concerns are either hijacked by trolls, or by individuals who have no clue what happened and are now piling in?

How do you expect me to think you can deal with this seriously when your own chat mods are immature misfits, too petty to stand back and let you deal with things?
You were insulting and mischaracterising someone and I responded to it.

You posted on a public forum. If you didn’t want anyone else to comment you should have sent your complaint in a private message. As well as it being common sense, you even get a heads up in the “how to” thread.

Please be aware that Forum threads/posts are public and anyone can comment on a thread/post created in Forums including staff and other users. Do not be surprised if other users express an opinion on your kick/ban if you post your complaint publicly.
 
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