Chopper
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Did the instructions on blocking people on forums work at least? It worked for David NY.
GAY room should be ABOLISHED
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Did the instructions on blocking people on forums work at least? It worked for David NY.
Heathen2002
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Yes it did, thank you...much more peacful.
Morrigans Hubby
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You guys can pm the mods for technical questions stop trying to steer the thread away from the topic at hand which is gay chat inviting minors to come to a room full of adult content.
Because I am a rational person. I am a minority in a state full of caucasians, i know what discrimination is. Dont assume ive never been in a situation like this. And im saying i was trying to rationalize why there should be another lgbt room, if theres already two. There isnt a "straight" room nor is there a need for one much more than there is a room for pansexuals.
We cant make a room to fit everyones sexuality or gender. Discrimination has nothing to do with your sexuality or gender, it is an individuals choice to discriminate. It does not matter if you make an asexual, pansexual, or rainbowsexual room that is not going to stop discrimination
Because I am a rational person. I am a minority in a state full of caucasians, i know what discrimination is. Dont assume ive never been in a situation like this. And im saying i was trying to rationalize why there should be another lgbt room, if theres already two. There isnt a "straight" room nor is there a need for one much more than there is a room for pansexuals.
We cant make a room to fit everyones sexuality or gender. Discrimination has nothing to do with your sexuality or gender, it is an individuals choice to discriminate. It does not matter if you make an asexual, pansexual, or rainbowsexual room that is not going to stop discrimination
No one is asking for a specific room for pansexuals, asexuals etc. The suggestion was that there could be a more general LGBT+ room.
Anyway. As for the original post of yours - I actually somewhat agree with you. As a Gay chat Mod I know that hardly anyone at all uses the Teen side room, so it would probably make more sense, as someone suggested earlier, to have 2 Gay rooms (or LGBT rooms); one for 18+ and one for Teens.
However, you can't blame the Mods/Admin for what is written in the room description/rules, we don't run the site, we just enforce the rules (Including kicking those underage users who are in the main chat and not the designated side room). Also, bear in mind that it's not Gay Sex Chat, or Gay Adult Chat. It's Gay Chat. It was not created to be a sexual chat, and that's presumably why it isn't specified that it is purely for over 18s.
Should it potentially changed? Quite possibly. Is it likely to happen? Who knows, it's not up to us.
But maybe, if you want to be listened to rather than shot down, you should approach things in a slightly more level-headed manner, rather than blaming the Mods/Admin and calling for a hugely popular room to be shut down.
Indeed. Well said and put I totally agree with everything you said
Hello, Bread.
The LGBT+ would be for every sexuality. Heterosexual included, as it’s a part of that. I didn’t say create a room for each sexuality. 🥲 I don’t know how many times I have to repeat that.
Chopper
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Here here!! :clap:
LateGoodbye
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You say you're a "rational person" and yet you then create this sentence.
There isn't a need for a room for "straight" people because pretty much everywhere caters for straight people.
Honestly this just smacks of those people that complain about Gay Pride because "well, straight people don't get a day to celebrate themselves!!!" when literally every day is Straight Pride Day.
I don't know what you're trying to achieve here, but this really isn't the way to go about it and won't get you heard - it'll just get you shot down and ignored.
Annie and the make 2 gay rooms idea,
This is a good idea, although i believe in something more refined.I dont believe kids should have through navigate through this adult content in order to find a place where they can chat.I also dont believe kids have ANY place in a site that hosts any sort of adult content. I think they should be restricted from the site as a whole, so long as there is adult content.
I dont get to make that choice so the only idea i can come up with is;
Something like having a main gateway at the main url.
>Greeted with a large button that says 18+ only and another button that says age blank to blank or (kids)
>Depending on what you pick you should be redirected to how the main page is now
-If you pick adult tab, then all adult contentrooms should be displayed
-If you pick "kids" tab, then only rooms with child friendly content should be displayed.
Kids are kids so curiosity will probably get the best of them. They will inevitably, probably click the adult button regardless and be exposed to this content. Thats why I believe kids have no place here.
Admins can make suggestions with more authority and change rules.
Mods can bring up issues to their admins
I don't know how long the rules have been set like that or how no mod or admin has seen it.
Don't act like you are helpless you can choose not to moderate a chatroom being ran by paedos and take no part of it.
Or
You can continue reaping the benefits and control of being mod while being aware that gay chat is inviting minors to look at adult content.
This is a good idea, although i believe in something more refined.I dont believe kids should have through navigate through this adult content in order to find a place where they can chat.I also dont believe kids have ANY place in a site that hosts any sort of adult content. I think they should be restricted from the site as a whole, so long as there is adult content.
I dont get to make that choice so the only idea i can come up with is;
Something like having a main gateway at the main url.
>Greeted with a large button that says 18+ only and another button that says age blank to blank or (kids)
>Depending on what you pick you should be redirected to how the main page is now
-If you pick adult tab, then all adult contentrooms should be displayed
-If you pick "kids" tab, then only rooms with child friendly content should be displayed.
Kids are kids so curiosity will probably get the best of them. They will inevitably, probably click the adult button regardless and be exposed to this content. Thats why I believe kids have no place here.
But they do.
Admins can make suggestions with more authority and change rules.
Mods can bring up issues to their admins
I don't know how long the rules have been set like that or how no mod or admin has seen it.
Don't act like you are helpless you can choose not to moderate a chatroom being ran by paedos and take no part of it.
Or
You can continue reaping the benefits and control of being mod while being aware that gay chat is inviting minors to look at adult content.
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jenni31
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Unfortunately, being online and due to the internet being full of unregistered sex offenders, pretty much whatever room you create will be filled with filth unless it doesn't allow pics to be posted.
That'd be the key way to reduce the issue, don't allow uploads to main channel.
That'd be the key way to reduce the issue, don't allow uploads to main channel.
Heathen2002
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Actually, they key way would be to allow the admin and the mods the ability to do their job properly and stop micro managing mod and admin behaviours because they impact on the bottom line.
the issue is not paedos having a presence online or being able to upload pictures. The issue is the mods/admins/rules for gay chat are openly inviting minors to enter a chatroom for adults with adult content.
Definitely take "mods/admins" out of that post. I've never once asked ANYONE to come into the chat, least of all minors. I spend most of my time kicking minors out.
Also, just to clarify, you don't have an issue with paedophiles being online or posting pictures?
jenni31
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I'd say the paedo's being able to enter and post is a very big issue. I'm yet yo see a mod of any channel openly invite minors to join, with the except of teen and kids chat obviously.
Belgianfeet
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Just as Jackobeem said, we spend most of our time kicking the minors, pedos and all the other people who break the rules.
There are pedos everywhere, even on Facebook or other social media so how would u prevent them to enter the room?
Just asking the question 'Are you a pedo?' before they enter won't work.
There are pedos everywhere, even on Facebook or other social media so how would u prevent them to enter the room?
Just asking the question 'Are you a pedo?' before they enter won't work.
Dont put words in my mouth. I said the topic is not about paedos being online or being able to upload pictures. It is about children being invited to view a room with adult content. We can make an effort to protect children not paedos.
Paedos are a big issue, not them entering a room with adult content. There is no way of telling who is a paedo and who is not just by looking at them.
Its called guilt by association, the mods are just as guilty as the rules they uphold because they do not seem to oppose the rule that is inviting 15 year olds to their adult chatroom. That invitation is as predatory as the paedos that enter the room.
I dont oppose this view, and this is a good response to @jenni31 even if it was a response to me. Like ive said before there is no way for paedos to cease to exist. However inviting children to a gay room with exorbitant amount of adult content as directed by the current rules is wrong. I havent seen one mod in here talk about the rules needing to be changed as much as i have seen them talk about how well they moderate. The admin oversees and upholds the rules and so far his response was "you aint gon change **** about my room so **** off"
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Except we're literally not 'as guilty as the rules' because - and I literally don't know how to make this any clearer to you - we kick ALL minors. And, at the risk of repeating myself and others: mods do not have ANY control over the rules of the room. Honestly, by kicking all minors we're actually in CONTRADICTION of our own room's rules, and if all of this doesn't show that we are opposed to this rule, nothing will convince you.
Oop- I will answer this with a quote or two from one of my OWN (that is, ME, a Gay Chat Mod) posts. (See below for the hard of thinking/reading)
Feel free to go back and read my whole post again as I did state that I would love to see an under 18 Gay Chat and an over 18 Gay Chat, which I believe (correct me if I'm wrong and I'm sure you will) shows that I don't want adults and minors mixing. Not that separate rooms would really stop it but it would at least stop you complaining, right? And I think we can ALL agree that less complaining is good, right?
I would like to see that rule changed. (see that? I actually said it because I believe it. Apparently implying it isn't enough.) For me, though, it would have to be on the condition that there was an alternative place for gay teens to feel like they can come and chat.
90 percent of gay chat users want to see dicks everywhere thats why they go there hahahaha the owner condones and profits off this hahahaha the mods are just unpaid volunteers who have no stake in whether this relic of the internet stays immorally unscreened to sustain more ad traffic hahahahahh
Chopper
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Okay so...the rule has been updated and the side room is gone from within gay chat. ANYONE found to be under 18 will be removed on sight and directed to either teen or boys chats. (Sorry @reeebsss & @KVN & @Rocksingerfan)
Let that be an end to it. @ Forum mods do whatever you wish with this. Thanks.
Let that be an end to it. @ Forum mods do whatever you wish with this. Thanks.
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