Almost 32 years old and still a virgin. Do you think I should just pay to lose it?

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For a while I been thinking of just hiring a escort now especially at my age, I'm so curious and anxious to know what sex is like. Unfortunately for me living in the San Francisco Bay Area where men outnumber women at 5 to 1 and not a good looking guy my odds of getting laid is very slim. Sometime I get grump and have mood swings and it does come from not being able to have sex with anyone. I asked because I know there is a stigma attached to paying escorts for sex but I'm curious to what your guys thoughts are on this. Would you guys go to a escort or not?
 
I agree, move and see what happens. Though, I do know someone who lost their virginity that way, and it wasn't a big deal. They ended up paying for sex a few times, but after a while it got old.
 
Idk, I'm ugly and don't have trouble. It's all about confidence. But I'd try moving if you're looking for a life partner or looking to get laid on the regular. Doesn't Los Angeles have a better ratio?
 
Just go to the bar and wait for last call ..wait for the house lights to come and look for the woman wobbling at the end of the bar with an unlit cigarette stuck to he bottom lip ..there's your supper :lol: All the attractive people have already paired off and we have reached the segment of the night where everyone has lowered their standards just so they dont have to go home alone. 😀 on the plus side you wont even have to buy here a drink because she's already past the legal limit..be careful feeding them unless your a fan of cleaning vomit out of your clothes or someone trying to kiss you with puke breath 😱 try to going to her place or hotel makes the early morning escape much easier.The silver lining for you is she will probably be so drunk she wont remember how awful you were :lol: you'll just be a vague memory and a stain on the sheets 😀 Just keep practicing ..you'll be fine 😱k:
 
It is everyone's choice to use escorts or not. Personally, I don't see anything bad in it, especially if there is a problem with sex.
 
I frankly don't know how a male with normal urges could remain a virgin at that age. I was painfully shy when I was young yet managed to lose mine at the tender age of 14, granted she was an older gal of 15. I think there is never a reason to pay for sex, unless you mean buying your girlfriend or wife nice gifts for her birthday, anniversaries etc.
 
Those who pay for sex are those who promote what 20.9 Million girls throughout the world are victimized from: "Human Trafficking." Perhaps we should refer it to it's real title: "Modern Slavery." Naive, vulnerable girls at a very young age tricked by Pimps and Johns that they'll be cared for. But they are forced to be on the streets to trade cash for sexual pleasures.

The girl you are paying sex for does not want to partake nor does not make the money you pay out. I do not support Prostitution in any country!
 
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Just go to the bar and wait for last call ..wait for the house lights to come and look for the woman wobbling at the end of the bar with an unlit cigarette stuck to he bottom lip ..there's your supper :lol: All the attractive people have already paired off and we have reached the segment of the night where everyone has lowered their standards just so they dont have to go home alone. 😀 on the plus side you wont even have to buy here a drink because she's already past the legal limit..be careful feeding them unless your a fan of cleaning vomit out of your clothes or someone trying to kiss you with puke breath 😱 try to going to her place or hotel makes the early morning escape much easier.The silver lining for you is she will probably be so drunk she wont remember how awful you were :lol: you'll just be a vague memory and a stain on the sheets 😀 Just keep practicing ..you'll be fine 😱k:
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roflmao ..... i love it
 
Experienced much

Experienced much

Are we speaking from experience here??? Way too much detail 😉


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Just go to the bar and wait for last call ..wait for the house lights to come and look for the woman wobbling at the end of the bar with an unlit cigarette stuck to he bottom lip ..there's your supper :lol: All the attractive people have already paired off and we have reached the segment of the night where everyone has lowered their standards just so they dont have to go home alone. 😀 on the plus side you wont even have to buy here a drink because she's already past the legal limit..be careful feeding them unless your a fan of cleaning vomit out of your clothes or someone trying to kiss you with puke breath 😱 try to going to her place or hotel makes the early morning escape much easier.The silver lining for you is she will probably be so drunk she wont remember how awful you were :lol: you'll just be a vague memory and a stain on the sheets 😀 Just keep practicing ..you'll be fine 😱k:
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Just think if you need it. And just raise your lazy ass and see what you have become and enjoy yourself. It should be a motivation, not an incomprehensible thing!
 
Just ***** yourself out, it's like, double-pleasure.... money AND sex 😉...... A lot of ugly/fat people, even, sell it.... You'd be surprised.... even if you have low self-esteem, you can sell your body lol.... it's true.... people find it sexy.....
🙂 🙂

****, I'd be a prostitute if I wasn't so picky 🙁
 
I wish I knew you

I wish I knew you

If I was your friend, I'd pay for it without you knowing so the experience is as real as it gets. Ive done this before for a close friend, hired an escort to hangout for an hour with us and I said to my friend this girl finds you cute. And he said no way and then I said yea man, ask her. He didn't ask so I had to break the ice and ask the girl directly and she confirmed it 😉. After that and a few more drinks, she did her thing and my friend took the spare bedroom at my place.

DO I GET AN AWARD OR WHAT!!:clap:
 
locust said:
For a while I been thinking of just hiring a escort now especially at my age, I'm so curious and anxious to know what sex is like. Unfortunately for me living in the San Francisco Bay Area where men outnumber women at 5 to 1 and not a good looking guy my odds of getting laid is very slim. Sometime I get grump and have mood swings and it does come from not being able to have sex with anyone. I asked because I know there is a stigma attached to paying escorts for sex but I'm curious to what your guys thoughts are on this. Would you guys go to a escort or not?
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Oh lordie,

Get some new clothes, brush your teeth, look confident, man up and be trimmed throughout (can't have it all bushy man) and start husslling,

what the hail you thinking about looking at paying an escort, is that how your mama made you? Certainly not, hail come on man, bringing yourself down like that, you wanna get an STD or somethin'?

By the way this was posted at the beginning of 2018, you let it loose yet? If not, message me honey, I'll give ya a few pointers.
 
If you just want sex you may consider paying for it. Don't worry about STD's you can always use a condom. You could date a girl for six months or more, or a year and she won't be comfortable to go all the way yet. This isn't ancient times of the bible. You don't have to wait until your honeymoon to get some action. Most couples are sexually active before they marry.
 
locust said:
For a while I been thinking of just hiring a escort now especially at my age, I'm so curious and anxious to know what sex is like. Unfortunately for me living in the San Francisco Bay Area where men outnumber women at 5 to 1 and not a good looking guy my odds of getting laid is very slim. Sometime I get grump and have mood swings and it does come from not being able to have sex with anyone. I asked because I know there is a stigma attached to paying escorts for sex but I'm curious to what your guys thoughts are on this. Would you guys go to a escort or not?
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Even if you sell your virginity, don't be so sad...you can always earn with your vagina.
I've seen way too many females doing it.
So you won't be the first and certainly not the last one.

Its hard to earn with your penis.

But the penis can be used for something else.
Like in the long battles against races and nationalities.
Over time minorities will beat majorities with their penis cause they multiply well.
 
splat said:
Just go to the bar and wait for last call ..wait for the house lights to come and look for the woman wobbling at the end of the bar with an unlit cigarette stuck to he bottom lip ..there's your supper :lol: All the attractive people have already paired off and we have reached the segment of the night where everyone has lowered their standards just so they dont have to go home alone. 😀 on the plus side you wont even have to buy here a drink because she's already past the legal limit..be careful feeding them unless your a fan of cleaning vomit out of your clothes or someone trying to kiss you with puke breath 😱 try to going to her place or hotel makes the early morning escape much easier.The silver lining for you is she will probably be so drunk she wont remember how awful you were :lol: you'll just be a vague memory and a stain on the sheets 😀 Just keep practicing ..you'll be fine 😱k:
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Just use Tinder 🙂
 
locust said:
For a while I been thinking of just hiring a escort now especially at my age, I'm so curious and anxious to know what sex is like. Unfortunately for me living in the San Francisco Bay Area where men outnumber women at 5 to 1 and not a good looking guy my odds of getting laid is very slim. Sometime I get grump and have mood swings and it does come from not being able to have sex with anyone. I asked because I know there is a stigma attached to paying escorts for sex but I'm curious to what your guys thoughts are on this. Would you guys go to a escort or not?
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I have never been with a female escort but I definitely would go with one if I had the money for sure.
 
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