Beware of the narcissist

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allykay

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When choosing a partner to date do me a favor. Make sure you are not getting involved with a narcissist. For however long you date them, they will have wasted/destroyed that length of time in your life. I read this recently and it was said perfectly. A narcissist is like a human being that has had its soul ripped out and is functioning like a robot but having to continue to fit in and live around other humans. They have no feelings, no empathy, no love, no remorse, no heart and consequently make it through life by sucking your energy dry by stealing from you the very things they don't have. They take from you and use that stolen goodness to get by but are unable to actually learn from the stolen goodness since they don't think they have a problem. They will continue to taunt you with every narcissistic trick until you are completely depleted leaving them appearing and feeling strong, powerful and in control. I would not wish this type of relationship on anyone EVER. If you do not believe me I have written about my marriage to a narcissist, a malignant narcissist and how it nearly killed me. The relationship with a narcissist is filled with mind games, emotional and mental torture, pathological lies and endless needs of attention to inflate its ego.

If I can help just ONE person it would be worth it to me. My story is a true account of what happened to me by selecting a narcissist as my partner and hopefully I can get the message out to potential future narcissist victims so that they get spared the misery and pain of that relationship.
 
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When choosing a partner to date do me a favor. Make sure you are not getting involved with a narcissist. For however long you date them, they will have wasted/destroyed that length of time in your life. I read this recently and it was said perfectly. A narcissist is like a human being that has had its soul ripped out and is functioning like a robot but having to continue to fit in and live around other humans. They have no feelings, no empathy, no love, no remorse, no heart and consequently make it through life by sucking your energy dry by stealing from you the very things they don't have. They take from you and use that stolen goodness to get by but are unable to actually learn from the stolen goodness since they don't think they have a problem. They will continue to taunt you with every narcissistic trick until you are completely depleted leaving them appearing and feeling strong, powerful and in control. I would not wish this type of relationship on anyone EVER. If you do not believe me I have written about my marriage to a narcissist, a malignant narcissist and how it nearly killed me. The relationship with a narcissist is filled with mind games, emotional and mental torture, pathological lies and endless needs of attention to inflate its ego.

If I can help just ONE person it would be worth it to me. My story is a true account of what happened to me by selecting a narcissist as my partner and hopefully I can get the message out to potential future narcissist victims so that they get spared the misery and pain of that relationship.
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Narcissists are people too they just love differently. :crying:
 
Change the word narcissist in this thread to sociopath as while similar narcissists can put other people they care about first and have empathy

Sociopaths can't, i feel you actually dated a sociopath if that's the stuff they did
 
I dated a narcissist a few years before dating my (now) husband. The thing with narcissists, is that most people figure out they've dated a narcissist after the relationship is over, but how do you know you're dealing with a narcissist...in the beginning? I'd say if anyone tells you that they love you after a few weeks of dating, love bombing, and over texting/calling, you're probably dealing with a narcissist. That all might seem flattering in the beginning, but they do this with everyyyyone. No one can really ''love'' you after a few weeks, and over texting and calling just shows a lack of boundaries, and respect. And also, it shows that they are trying too hard to make you pay attention to them, which is all they ever want, in the end. They do this to get you to trust them, so the abuse can begin.

Narcissists don't really want the love of one, they want to be adored by many.
 
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Beware of the narcissist

Thxs everyone for the props.....Now, if I could only come up with a pill thatll make girls not bitchy while on PMS everything would be perfect.
 
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