I don't want to be lonely

astroraiken

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Hi guys... I feel really lonely, most my friends have a relationship but me. It feels horrible because I just want someone to love me.. It espicially hurts because I am gay, and do you know how hard it is to find other gay guys???? not on dating sites! im 16.. Whenever my friend(s) mention their relationships I instantly feel left out.. plus im shy and find it hard to socialise, which makes it like impossible. I dont know what to fucking do!!!!!!!!!
 
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I donโ€™t want to sound patronizing but Iโ€™m sure youโ€™re not ugly! Is there much of a gay youth population where you are? That was my biggest struggle when I was e younger. Not many gay kids and being gay was no where accepted like it is now. I understand what youโ€™re saying in this post though. I didnโ€™t have really any relationships until I was out of high school
 
Recall Robin Williams' death. His films continue to be cherished by people of all ages, but one of his most famous quotes was, "I used to think the worst think in life was to end up all alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make you feel all alone."
Those words come as a painful reminder that a man known for spreading joy could leave behind such a sorrowful message that rings true for billions around the world.
The first thing to remember when you are feeling alone, particularly when you are surrounded by friends, family -or even when you are at church - recall that God never abandons you.

2 Timothy 4:17 says, "But the Lord stood by me and gave me power, so that through me the message might be fully proclaimed for all the gentiles to hear; and so I was saved from the lion's mouth."

Sometimes people who feel left out appear unapproachable. Sometimes it is because of a stony face, uninviting body language or the fact that they are staring at the ground. Most don't even realize they are doing these things.

God doesn't want us to be alone, recall Genesis 2:18, "God said, 'It is not right that the man should be alone. I shall make him a helper.'"

Genesis 2:18 reminds us that God does not want us to be alone. Remember this when you find yourself feeling lonely in the future, then take steps to pull yourself from the lie of the devil whispering that you have no one and nowhere to turn.
 
I don't think so, only came across 1 other gay boy in my school. He seemed interested in me and I like him aswell but he doesn't seem to be responding to my texts yet. I am in college now.
Iโ€™m shocked but it sounds like where I was raised. We had 3 gay kids. One including me. There were plenty of straight boys wanting a gay experience but no chance of a relationship there ๐Ÿ˜ฎโ€๐Ÿ’จ. Yea I didnโ€™t really meet people until I started going out to bars and other social stuff. I was able to broaden my social circle and find more gay people.
 
I imagine it's hard well heck I don't even imagine I know . I think navigating the dating scene in this day and age is somewhat hard . I mean you have so many apps but there's only so much you can find out about a person through those apps (in my personal opinion ) . I moved from Philly down to where I am now and it's a little more vacant as far as the ability to socialize in the community . I think that sometimes it just takes patience and time to find a connection in that sense (as cliche as it sounds ). I sometimes take a drive an hour or two away to go the nearest lgbtq+ friendly city but at the same time I've become less of an interested person in being out in massive crowds since covid and how people just seem to be kind of in general . I don't know if you have any cafe's near you or ever use meetup . I will say when I moved to philly I used it and found groups within the community to do things like hikes or ultimate frisbee games and have the ability to interact. Keep your head up and things will work out :) .
 
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