Still miss and have feelings for my former roommate

twigoa99

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So I lived with a roommate for about 3 years, with just the two of us in the apartment. I guess I always had a crush on her, but I never have and never will act on it, as the relationship would be ruined if my feeling were not reciprocated.

Anyway, due to the apartment being put up for sale, we both had to move out 2 months ago. I found a new place and so did she, we don't live togetehr anymore. But I still do miss her and think about her. We have phonecalls 2/3 weeks or so and I see her in passing in oru city, but we don't really share the shame social circle. When we lived together, we would see each other every day and spend time together.

I just don't know how to get over thinking about her. I know I want things to go back to how they were, but that's not going to happen. Any suggestions?
 
So I lived with a roommate for about 3 years, with just the two of us in the apartment. I guess I always had a crush on her, but I never have and never will act on it, as the relationship would be ruined if my feeling were not reciprocated.

Anyway, due to the apartment being put up for sale, we both had to move out 2 months ago. I found a new place and so did she, we don't live togetehr anymore. But I still do miss her and think about her. We have phonecalls 2/3 weeks or so and I see her in passing in oru city, but we don't really share the shame social circle. When we lived together, we would see each other every day and spend time together.

I just don't know how to get over thinking about her. I know I want things to go back to how they were, but that's not going to happen. Any suggestions?
ACT on your feelings for her and spill the beans . From what you are saying it's tearing you up inside NOW so Just jump all in ahd tell her . You never will know unless she tells you otherwise . Just my 2cents .
 
100% agree with MrBlunt, take your shot. Fortune favours the bold as they say and even if it doesn't go your way its still better than living in punishing limbo. You can heal and move on with life. Wish you the best tho!
 
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