I disagree, but I am so glad you were able to open a dictionary to show that both nouns perfectly describe you. While you have the dictionary open, consider the proper use of contractions such 'I'm' instead of "im" and the proper spelling of 'definition'.
It is my understanding that you were not kicked for creating a side room for men only, but because you named your side room with the same name that another VIP used in creating her side room. Impersonating another VIP is what got you kicked, not bigotry or sexism so stop your whining.
Nevertheless, the point of this thread has to do with "... a permanent side room in Girls Chat that is for members only and possibly girls only. Or possibly two one for girls 13-18 and one for 18 plus." That's the topic we should keep in focus.
I totally support a side room for Girls Only. Or, a side room for girls, ages 13 to 17, and another for ages 18 and up. VIPs would have the option to create a side room(s) where different ages can mingle, provided the main rules are followed of course.