Mayhem gets multiple people to harass me

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melaninwaifu

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Mayhem got online on a different profile called “Kaja” claiming to have messaged me and that “the real girl” replied. She then claimed she’s been chatting with the “real girl” and they’re going to Skype. I don’t even have Skype. There’s a profile on instagram trying to use my likeness. A lot of people have been confused by the wannabe profile and I just assumed she was messaging that page instead of mine. That was until she sent a picture off MY instagram and said “it’s this girl, she just skyped me and told me you’re not her.” COMPLETELY FALSE. I got a message request in August and blocked that profile. Turns out it was Mayhem. At the time she was saying she JUST NOW messaged me, so I didn’t even think her and that page were related. She DMed screenshots that showed messages from August so I recognised it was the profile that I blocked. Then she put a separate screenshot in the main chat to create the illusion that she recently messaged me and I didn’t see the messages because the profile “isn’t me.” Truth is the profile is me, and I blocked her which is why I never replied to her, never skyped her, and never got her more recent messages. I unblocked her and replied, then decided to just unsend the message and leave it alone. I said she’s doing too much out of jealousy cause who the hell lies like that just to claim someone is fake. Some girl named Beccaa987 said to me “why are you mad you’re not even that pretty. no one is jealous of you” and Dess was sitting here laughing her ass off saying “Becca let the hate begin,” instead of actually taking action against the doxx. Even if Mayhem is a mod she was still on a second account that wasn’t even mod profile. Some sort of action should have been taken. Something should have been said.

I remember when Ash was calling me fake and she sent my fäcëbook to the chat. No discipline against her. I asked her if she was the same person who messaged me on faceböök years ago. She lied and said no, so I posted a screenshot the messages and said “dis you?” I got kicked for “doxxing another user.”
I remember when some other girl was sending my ifunny profile saying “the girl in your pic was a meme, that’s not you” (another lie). HR claimed “it’s not doxxing because it’s not you, it’s the girl your pretending to be.” This is a pathetic EXCUSE. Mods just want to use this as a loophole to excuse lack of discipline for their regulars and moderators. At the end of the day it IS ME! At the end of the day I have 8 new message requests on instagram harassing me about general chat because of Mayhem.

Thanks for the profile views and story clicks, I guess, but this is unacceptable from mods & admins of general chat.
 
Bruh. I have been known to wax volubly, but even I want a TL;DR for this one.

EDIT: I’m confused. Do you or don’t you have Skype? Unclear.
 
Supgad said:
EDIT: I’m confused. Do you or don’t you have Skype? Unclear.
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I don’t have Skype. I haven’t had skype since college. Mayhem lied saying she got a message from my instagram willing to skype her, and they proceeded to live chat. But she was lying, I never replied to her & I don’t have skype.
 
melaninwaifu said:
Mayhem got online on a different profile called “Kaja” claiming to have messaged me and that “the real girl” replied. She then claimed she’s been chatting with the “real girl” and they’re going to Skype. I don’t even have Skype. There’s a profile on instagram trying to use my likeness. A lot of people have been confused by the wannabe profile and I just assumed she was messaging that page instead of mine. That was until she sent a picture off MY instagram and said “it’s this girl, she just skyped me and told me you’re not her.” COMPLETELY FALSE. I got a message request in August and blocked that profile. Turns out it was Mayhem. At the time she was saying she JUST NOW messaged me, so I didn’t even think her and that page were related. She DMed screenshots that showed messages from August so I recognised it was the profile that I blocked. Then she put a separate screenshot in the main chat to create the illusion that she recently messaged me and I didn’t see the messages because the profile “isn’t me.” Truth is the profile is me, and I blocked her which is why I never replied to her, never skyped her, and never got her more recent messages. I unblocked her and replied, then decided to just unsend the message and leave it alone. I said she’s doing too much out of jealousy cause who the hell lies like that just to claim someone is fake. Some girl named Beccaa987 said to me “why are you mad you’re not even that pretty. no one is jealous of you” and Dess was sitting here laughing her ass off saying “Becca let the hate begin,” instead of actually taking action against the doxx. Even if Mayhem is a mod she was still on a second account that wasn’t even mod profile. Some sort of action should have been taken. Something should have been said.

I remember when Ash was calling me fake and she sent my fäcëbook to the chat. No discipline against her. I asked her if she was the same person who messaged me on faceböök years ago. She lied and said no, so I posted a screenshot the messages and said “dis you?” I got kicked for “doxxing another user.”
I remember when some other girl was sending my ifunny profile saying “the girl in your pic was a meme, that’s not you” (another lie). HR claimed “it’s not doxxing because it’s not you, it’s the girl your pretending to be.” This is a pathetic EXCUSE. Mods just want to use this as a loophole to excuse lack of discipline for their regulars and moderators. At the end of the day it IS ME! At the end of the day I have 8 new message requests on instagram harassing me about general chat because of Mayhem.

Thanks for the profile views and story clicks, I guess, but this is unacceptable from mods & admins of general chat.
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Your story is a bit all over the place, but I'm going to try and unpack it, and will tag @H.R. PufnStuf as an additional relevant party. Knowing nothing of what's going on other than your story, this is what I gather...

You're catfishing. Someone doxxed your catfish Face Book profile and you got upset, but no action was taken against them because the profile wasn't genuine. You doxxed their Face Book in retaliation and were kicked for it. Additionally, someone talked to the person you're catfishing as and confirmed they weren't you via a picture off your Instagram. You're now getting heat over the situation on and off Chat Avenue. And you're upset that nothing is being done and you claim somehow @Mayhem is involved. Did I get all that right?
 
I have never had a problem with Mayhem. She's one of the best mods on this site.
 
LostCause. said:
Your story is a bit all over the place, but I'm going to try and unpack it, and will tag @H.R. PufnStuf as an additional relevant party. Knowing nothing of what's going on other than your story, this is what I gather...

You're catfishing. Someone doxxed your catfish Face Book profile and you got upset, but no action was taken against them because the profile wasn't genuine. You doxxed their Face Book in retaliation and were kicked for it. Additionally, someone talked to the person you're catfishing as and confirmed they weren't you via a picture off your Instagram. You're now getting heat over the situation on and off Chat Avenue. And you're upset that nothing is being done and you claim somehow @Mayhem is involved. Did I get all that right?
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Completely wrong. I’m not catfishing. Years ago Ash showed my fäceböok profile claiming that is who I’m catfishing as. It was MY PROFILE. I didn’t dox her in retaliation I just screenshot the message she sent me long ago. (If I were catfishing I wouldn’t have access to the message she sent me.)
Then @Mayhem someone lied about having a conversation with me on instagram, and skyping me. None of that happens considering I blocked her in August. The whole thing was fabricated on her end. Now because she’s posted my instagram others are messaging me and harassing me on it.

Once again I’m not catfishing. Please stop using “catfish” as a way to excuse doxxing. My pics are actually me, and the pages these people are posting are my real profiles.
 
You will get a better response by private messaging @H.R. PufnStuf . Click his name and start conversation. H.r. is the only 1 who needs to have an opinion on this.
 
Are people even able to private message Instagram accounts by which they’ve been blocked?

You blocked Mayhem back in August, but you didn’t get the recent messages she was able to send, despite the fact she’s been blocked, because she was blocked?

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Supgad said:
Are people even able to private message Instagram accounts by which they’ve been blocked?

You blocked Mayhem back in August, but you didn’t get the recent messages she was able to send, despite the fact she’s been blocked, because she was blocked?

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Yes, you can send message to an account that has blocked you.
Despite both being owned by meta, facëboök will tell you that you can no longer contact them, while instagram will allow you to send the message, but won’t deliver it to the recipient. So she can send messages all she wants, I wouldn’t have seen them until I unblocked her.
 
melaninwaifu said:
Completely wrong. I’m not catfishing. Years ago Ash showed my fäceböok profile claiming that is who I’m catfishing as. It was MY PROFILE. I didn’t dox her in retaliation I just screenshot the message she sent me long ago. (If I were catfishing I wouldn’t have access to the message she sent me.)
Then @Mayhem someone lied about having a conversation with me on instagram, and skyping me. None of that happens considering I blocked her in August. The whole thing was fabricated on her end. Now because she’s posted my instagram others are messaging me and harassing me on it.

Once again I’m not catfishing. Please stop using “catfish” as a way to excuse doxxing. My pics are actually me, and the pages these people are posting are my real profiles.
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Again, I'm not part of General Chat, I'm just trying to gather the facts. Your post is lengthy and jumbled, and I'm trying to provide a TL;DR version for the handsome @Supgad.

melaninwaifu said:
HR claimed “it’s not doxxing because it’s not you, it’s the girl your pretending to be.” This is a pathetic EXCUSE. Mods just want to use this as a loophole to excuse lack of discipline for their regulars and moderators. At the end of the day it IS ME!
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So you're claiming you're not a catfish, yet you included this part in your original post... That mods are using the fact that your profile is of someone else that is not you as an "excuse" or "loophole" from taking disciplinary action on people doxxing the profile. Surely you can see my confusion here since those two things are directly contradictory of each other. Either the profile is of you or it is not, independent of whether or not it is you who owns the profile.

A lot of this also sounds like a Face Book / Instagram / other social media issue. I haven't quite gathered what involvement, if any, you're claiming the General Chat staff (including @Mayhem) have in it. Can you help clarify that and what exactly you're trying to gain from this post? What sort of resolution are you hoping to achieve?
 
LostCause. said:
Again, I'm not part of General Chat, I'm just trying to gather the facts. Your post is lengthy and jumbled, and I'm trying to provide a TL;DR version for the handsome @Supgad.


So you're claiming you're not a catfish, yet you included this part in your original post... That mods are using the fact that your profile is of someone else that is not you as an "excuse" or "loophole" from taking disciplinary action on people doxxing the profile. Surely you can see my confusion here since those two things are directly contradictory of each other. Either the profile is of you or it is not, independent of whether or not it is you who owns the profile.
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“If I tell everyone the profile is not her everyone will believe me. Then I don’t have to take action if she’s doxxed, I can just say it’s not her profile and protect my regs.” That’s the loophole I’m getting at. If you lie and everyone believes you just because you’re admin is it not a loophole to just do what you want? You can just keep saying false things to excuse not disciplining regular ********.
LostCause. said:
A lot of this also sounds like a Face Book / Instagram / other social media issue. I haven't quite gathered what involvement, if any, you're claiming the General Chat staff (including @Mayhem) have in it. Can you help clarify that and what exactly you're trying to gain from this post? What sort of resolution are you hoping to achieve?
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Mayhem is the mod who just today posted my instagram, claiming she’s been having a conversation with me on insta claiming she skyped me, and other lies just to say i’m fake. None of which took place. Dess laughed the whole time and said nothing about her posting my profiles, that’s the involvement of genchat staff.
 
melaninwaifu said:
“If I tell everyone the profile is not her everyone will believe me. Then I don’t have to take action if she’s doxxed, I can just say it’s not her profile and protect my regs.” That’s the loophole I’m getting at. If you lie and everyone believes you just because you’re admin is it not a loophole to just do what you want? You can just keep saying false things to excuse not disciplining regular ********.
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So your claim is that the profile is not only owned by you, but that the profile is of you. And the reason the General Chat mods are not taking action against you being doxxed is because they do not want to discipline the offenders. Got it.

melaninwaifu said:
Mayhem is the mod who just today posted my instagram, claiming she’s been having a conversation with me on insta claiming she skyped me, and other lies just to say i’m fake. None of which took place. Dess laughed the whole time and said nothing about her posting my profiles, that’s the involvement of genchat staff.
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So you're upset because you claim @Mayhem lied about you being a catfish and that DESS laughed at you. And you also claim @Mayhem doxxed you and you're wanting disciplinary action to be taken against them as a result. Is this correct?
 
LostCause. said:
So you're upset because you claim @Mayhem lied about you being a catfish and that DESS laughed at you. And you also claim @Mayhem doxxed you and you're wanting disciplinary action to be taken against them as a result. Is this correct?
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Correct @Mayhem fabricated stories just to doxx me and @DESS laughed about the ordeal instead of muting, kicking, etc. She should have AT LEAST said something to her about doxxing me. But nothing was said. Nothing was done.
 
Then to reiterate a previous point made by the ever-so-lovely @LostCause., send a private message to @H.R. PufnStuf — or if you feel that you cannot (you’ve intimated at times that maybe he is also party to this alleged mistreatment) you’re always welcome to run your concerns up the flagpole to @Chatmaster himself.

All you invite by making a public spectacle about this is even more derision and ridicule.

EDIT: @Armani2020 was actually the bloke who suggested messaging @H.R. PufnStuf. But @LostCause. is still fabulous, so whatever.
 
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