How Much Do I Have To Put Up With?

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KylieB

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Just wondering how much racism, sexism, and threats of violence are acceptable here. This guy has been banned, but let back on. Maybe it's just me, but I feel like there should be a reasonable expectation safety when you come here and threats against your life (MULTIPLE TIMES) would not be accepted.

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Just wondering how much racism, sexism, and threats of violence are acceptable here. This guy has been banned, but let back on. Maybe it's just me, but I feel like there should be a reasonable expectation safety when you come here and threats against your life (MULTIPLE TIMES) would not be accepted.

Peace & Love
You could always use the ignore function, plus we can’t really gather from what you posted why he was being abusive towards you, we need a little bit more context. That is not to say I approve of his behaviour, on the contrary, but what on earth did you do to provoke his ire? He seems like such a happy little chappy most of the time.
 
I guess the moral of the story is that VIP doesn't have the same benefits when you follow the rules as it does when you break the rules. The silence on this is deafening.
The SS shows that the user isn't VIP so....

That same user has a history in various rooms- I understand OP complaint -moving to SCandF so @Chatmaster can see it (although he is probably aware )

From the General Chat perspective- that kind of behaviour isn't "acceptable". by anyone- but is best handled by not engaging/using ignore/reporting. Pernicious kick evaders are a problem I agree- but until someone lets the site or me know how to close all the holes on the internet- we have to use whatever tools we have in the interest of the room on any given day.
 
The SS shows that the user isn't VIP so....

That same user has a history in various rooms- I understand OP complaint -moving to SCandF so @Chatmaster can see it (although he is probably aware )

From the General Chat perspective- that kind of behaviour isn't "acceptable". by anyone- but is best handled by not engaging/using ignore/reporting. Pernicious kick evaders are a problem I agree- but until someone lets the site or me know how to close all the holes on the internet- we have to use whatever tools we have in the interest of the room on any given day.
Odd that you choose to put acceptable in quotation marks. The answer is to hammer the point that racism is not acceptable and instructing your mods to mute , kick when it is observed. However you also think it is fine for people to use Hitler as an avatar so go figure.
 
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Just wondering how much racism, sexism, and threats of violence are acceptable here. This guy has been banned, but let back on. Maybe it's just me, but I feel like there should be a reasonable expectation safety when you come here and threats against your life (MULTIPLE TIMES) would not be accepted.

Peace & Love
I wmk that dude over a thousand times since I been a relief mod. Omg your not the only one that's Fed up with him...
 
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Just wondering how much racism, sexism, and threats of violence are acceptable here. This guy has been banned, but let back on. Maybe it's just me, but I feel like there should be a reasonable expectation safety when you come here and threats against your life (MULTIPLE TIMES) would not be accepted.

Peace & Love
The same guy who spams chat when not getting his own way and continues to threaten and harass mods, ******** and when called out on behaviour threatens the room with HR? Continuous day in day out, apparently he has a deal with HR now he wont be banned or removed if he doesnt spam but this behaviour is acceptable? I guess its the loophole and bandaid fix?
 
The same guy who spams chat when not getting his own way and continues to threaten and harass mods, ******** and when called out on behaviour threatens the room with HR? Continuous day in day out, apparently he has a deal with HR now he wont be banned or removed if he doesnt spam but this behaviour is acceptable? I guess its the loophole and bandaid fix?
Sadly a lot goes unpunished here. Not because mods and admins dont wanna do anything, but their hands are tied by policy. The fact that people can buy VIP and therefore become unable to be held accountable for their actions is pretty deplorable.
 
I’ll be honest I’m so confused about how to feel about this particular topic and I’m extremely scared to even express it because of backlash but here it goes. I do not condone racism in any part of my life but I also can’t condone muting a humans personal opinions. Obviously some stuff fs but it’s not even about race it’s about trying to control what someone says aloud. I mean one day society will have everything socially unexceptable censored freedom of speech will be will be freedom to whisper ur speech. I mean all lives matter (all life) we can’t control what others feel or think we don’t want that there is no way we want that ever. But we can ignore it and get past it. The same freedom they have to speak their bs is the same freedom we have to have our own opinions of them and filter what we take from them. Idk this is my own opinion and it’s probs gonna get backlash even tho I am disgusted by the comments but it’s how I feel.
 
I’ll be honest I’m so confused about how to feel about this particular topic and I’m extremely scared to even express it because of backlash but here it goes. I do not condone racism in any part of my life but I also can’t condone muting a humans personal opinions. Obviously some stuff fs but it’s not even about race it’s about trying to control what someone says aloud. I mean one day society will have everything socially unexceptable censored freedom of speech will be will be freedom to whisper ur speech. I mean all lives matter (all life) we can’t control what others feel or think we don’t want that there is no way we want that ever. But we can ignore it and get past it. The same freedom they have to speak their bs is the same freedom we have to have our own opinions of them and filter what we take from them. Idk this is my own opinion and it’s probs gonna get backlash even tho I am disgusted by the comments but it’s how I feel.
They do have the rights to speak as they wish, to some extent, as everyone else does. However they don't have the rights to infringe on other people's rights by bullying them for simply existing. There has to be balance.

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I’ll be honest I’m so confused about how to feel about this particular topic and I’m extremely scared to even express it because of backlash but here it goes. I do not condone racism in any part of my life but I also can’t condone muting a humans personal opinions. Obviously some stuff fs but it’s not even about race it’s about trying to control what someone says aloud. I mean one day society will have everything socially unexceptable censored freedom of speech will be will be freedom to whisper ur speech. I mean all lives matter (all life) we can’t control what others feel or think we don’t want that there is no way we want that ever. But we can ignore it and get past it. The same freedom they have to speak their bs is the same freedom we have to have our own opinions of them and filter what we take from them. Idk this is my own opinion and it’s probs gonna get backlash even tho I am disgusted by the comments but it’s how I feel.
thing is this isn't just a one off thing. this is all the dickwad does. he was even banned for spamming the room for hours at end with the same type of stuff and worse. but for whatever reason i can't fathom, he's been let back in.
 
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