Room Disruption?

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So what im about to say comes from a viewpoint of situations as a whole, not this one in particular or any others. This is not a direct reply to anyone in this thread either.

With that, I will say there seems to be an issue with some who argue, name call, and jump all over people regardless if they are in the room or not, this needs to come to an end. There are a select few who will refuse at all costs to block a person whom they cant stand. Usually the reply I get when I ask why not block is "So I can see if they are talking crap about me". In my eyes, this isnt a valid reason to avoid the block.

I do this moderating thing with a few of the others in Girls Chat almost on a nightly basis and I an assure you or anyone, just because you have them blocked and cant see what they say, doesnt mean we will let you, them, or anyone get ran down. That just wont happen.

The block feature needs to be applied and let us handle the rest. I really cant be any more clear. We have a lot more good things going on in the room than to let petty arguments bring down the atmosphere and good vibes we try to build.
Unfortunately I can't block an admin.

I know you said your post isn't directed at anyone in particular; it just seems out of place when this thread had nothing to do with anything that ignore could have resolved. All I did was ask what constitutes a room disruption and got run for it.
 
Unfortunately I can't block an admin.

I know you said your post isn't directed at anyone in particular; it just seems out of place when this thread had nothing to do with anything that ignore could have resolved. All I did was ask what constitutes a room disruption and got run for it.
In your case, you did mention others (I wont name just because I want totally keep it general) so Im not sure if the issue had to do with others but a staff member wouldnt need to get involved unless there was a prior incident taking place. For example, an argument or one person running another down in main. Not accusing you of that whatsoever.
 
In your case, you did mention others (I wont name just because I want totally keep it general) so Im not sure if the issue had to do with others but a staff member wouldnt need to get involved unless there was a prior incident taking place. For example, an argument or one person running another down in main. Not accusing you of that whatsoever.
It seems to me and I’ll bet to you as well that the people who do the most complaining about staff are the ones who cause the most disruption and problems. I’m not saying that Jamie is included in that. Not my call. But I know we can all think of some names that are beyond proven guilty by any doubt.
 
Another general comment here.
Some examples of room disruption are:
- fighting/arguing
- spamming
- posting things that violate the rules
- arguing with moderators

Just a few off the top of my head.
The arguing with mods has to be taken with a caveat. We as ******** have a right to question anything, there are some mods on here that have quick trigger fingers. Hence the thick skinned being needed argument if you’re a mod. You cannot deem it room disruption if a chatter disagrees with something. It constitutes arguing when the mod says enough and it continues.
 
The arguing with mods has to be taken with a caveat. We as ******** have a right to question anything, there are some mods on here that have quick trigger fingers. Hence the thick skinned being needed argument if you’re a mod. You cannot deem it room disruption if a chatter disagrees with something. It constitutes arguing when the mod says enough and it continues.

Seems reasonable.
 
So what im about to say comes from a viewpoint of situations as a whole, not this one in particular or any others. This is not a direct reply to anyone in this thread either.

With that, I will say there seems to be an issue with some who argue, name call, and jump all over people regardless if they are in the room or not, this needs to come to an end. There are a select few who will refuse at all costs to block a person whom they cant stand. Usually the reply I get when I ask why not block is "So I can see if they are talking crap about me". In my eyes, this isnt a valid reason to avoid the block.

I do this moderating thing with a few of the others in Girls Chat almost on a nightly basis and I an assure you or anyone, just because you have them blocked and cant see what they say, doesnt mean we will let you, them, or anyone get ran down. That just wont happen.

The block feature needs to be applied and let us handle the rest. I really cant be any more clear. We have a lot more good things going on in the room than to let petty arguments bring down the atmosphere and good vibes we try to build.
Define petty argument. Disagreement is healthy and one can not be a room nazi and totally nix civil disagreement. In fact, one rule that gets violated daily that nothing is ever done about is mini modding. Many users in GC are guilty of this but nothing is said. But when other ******** point it out, we are attacked as mini modding. It can all be avoided if the mod in the room simply does their job.
 
I said my thoughts above: you are inconsistent on your enforcement of rules and won't even define some of the things you're pulling out. I'm still waiting for a definition of disruption aside from "I don't like what you're doing even though it's not really breaking a rule." When someone was actually being legitimately disruptive and getting reported a few weeks ago, you did nothing because it was against me.
No inconsistancy with my enforcement of the rules, but I have tried to relax them for ******** like you. But, its not getting any better, it's getting worse. I do believe you wait for me to come online and then the comments will start which gets others going also and then I'm side tracked in replying to you instead of dealing with serious infractions.
Am I starting to do it or have I been doing it? Get your thoughts together instead of flying off the handle and try that again.
Sorry for the poorly written reply there, I will correct it. You have been trolling since I know you and as I said above it's been getting steadily worse. This is why I have started to take a zero tolerance approach to your behaviour.

I haven't gotten any "sidekicks" to go after you. That's just the prevailing feeling about you across the room rearing its head. I'd think you might want to consider that instead of just assuming I somehow have that much power over that many people.
Really? I got several reports/screenshots from mods this evening of the disruption you started yesterday, continuing onto today.

Fact is, you are an absolutely joke of an admin
This is why you troll, here is the reason, you hate me, and because of your hate, you have decided to troll and cuase disrution to the room and get ******** on your side and to make my life difficult. Listen, knowing now you hate me, my tears will soak my pillow tonight.

Meanwhile you are free to insult me and several others in main with us having no recourse against it because the moment we say anything back, bam, we're kicked. But those ones asking for moms over and over get warning after warning after warning. Warnings don't work against people who don't care about the room. Laying the hammer down on people who have been here a long time and actually care about its well-being while letting all that go seems to be an odd way to react.
It is you that does all of the insulting. You get more warnings then neccesary to try to stop you disrupting, but alas they fall on deaf ears because it's always good to serve thy ego in front of a crowd rather than doing the right thing.
But those ones asking for moms over and over get warning after warning after warning. Warnings don't work against people who don't care about the room.
We have a set of rules we all must follow. Repeat offenders are dealt with a maximum kick if they are known repeat offenders.

So in summary, or if you can't be bother reading my above reply, I don't mind you hating me, but I do mind that you disrupt the room because of your hate. It is clouding your judgement and it's getting you in trouble. Put that hatred aside, lifes to short. Offer an olive branch. Would you like me to discuss all of your concerns in pm? We are all on the same page here, we want what's best for the room. But if your ego does not allow you to take my advice, please please hate me quitely in the main room, you are more than welcome to disrupt my pms and hate on me in there.

Define petty argument. Disagreement is healthy and one can not be a room nazi and totally nix civil disagreement. In fact, one rule that gets violated daily that nothing is ever done about is mini modding. Many users in GC are guilty of this but nothing is said. But when other ******** point it out, we are attacked as mini modding. It can all be avoided if the mod in the room simply does their job.
This is not a thread about you and your grievances, please do not hijack it for that.
 
No inconsistancy with my enforcement of the rules, but I have tried to relax them for ******** like you. But, its not getting any better, it's getting worse. I do believe you wait for me to come online and then the comments will start which gets others going also and then I'm side tracked in replying to you instead of dealing with serious infractions.

Sorry for the poorly written reply there, I will correct it. You have been trolling since I know you and as I said above it's been getting steadily worse. This is why I have started to take a zero tolerance approach to your behaviour.


Really? I got several reports/screenshots from mods this evening of the disruption you started yesterday, continuing onto today.


This is why you troll, here is the reason, you hate me, and because of your hate, you have decided to troll and cuase disrution to the room and get ******** on your side and to make my life difficult. Listen, knowing now you hate me, my tears will soak my pillow tonight.


It is you that does all of the insulting. You get more warnings then neccesary to try to stop you disrupting, but alas they fall on deaf ears because it's always good to serve thy ego in front of a crowd rather than doing the right thing.

We have a set of rules we all must follow. Repeat offenders are dealt with a maximum kick if they are known repeat offenders.

So in summary, or if you can't be bother reading my above reply, I don't mind you hating me, but I do mind that you disrupt the room because of your hate. It is clouding your judgement and it's getting you in trouble. Put that hatred aside, lifes to short. Offer an olive branch. Would you like me to discuss all of your concerns in pm? We are all on the same page here, we want what's best for the room. But if your ego does not allow you to take my advice, please please hate me quitely in the main room, you are more than welcome to disrupt my pms and hate on me in there.
Look on the bright side. At least we don’t have the problems of Singles or General Chat. 😆
 
@TheDifference answered this question in post number 26

Thank you TheDifference xxx
24 hours to come up with an answer? And all I got from your right-hand mod earlier today was that none of us need to know what constituted disruption and you can break that out anytime you please.

Besides, I didn't do any of those the times you've kicked me so far. A sarcastic comment is not an argument; a question is not an argument; a comment to a friend that paraphrases what you said yourself is not an argument.

Meanwhile you calling myself and a friend "tweedle-dee and tweedle-dum" is not abusive and insulting? Calling me a bully (which again, only one other person-- a vastly well-known troll-- has ever called me) is not insulting and inaccurate? I stand up for myself and for those around me. That's not bullying.

You know what is bullying? Punching downward.

Abusing your power.

And you have done it repeatedly to myself and plenty of others.
 
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24 hours to come up with an answer? And all I got from your right-hand mod earlier today was that none of us need to know what constituted disruption and you can break that out anytime you please.
I have a job, 9-5, 5 days per week.

Besides, I didn't do any of those the times you've kicked me so far. A sarcastic comment is not an argument; a question is not an argument; a comment to a friend that paraphrases what you said yourself is not an argument.
You wait for me to come online and then you start your little tirade, I dont know how I wasn't clear in my other post to you. But you disrupt the room when you start doing what you do. You have been warned, muted and kicked for it many many times before. These infractions are supossed to be a lesson for ******** to stop their actions. But, unfortunetly this does not seem to be working on you.

Meanwhile you calling myself and a friend "tweedle-dee and tweedle-dum" is not abusive and insulting?
If you feel abused and insulted by that I apologize for calling you tweedle dum.

Calling me a bully (which again, only one other person-- a vastly well-known troll-- has ever called me) is not insulting and inaccurate? I stand up for myself and for those around me. That's not bullying.
But you are a bully, you have been at it for as long as I know you. You let it get the better of you and it gets you in trouble. Take a look in the mirror and see what you are doing here. What are your actions doing in the girls chat room? Why are moderators pming me with their screenshots because of your actions?

Please, please stop disrupting, you did stop for a few months, you should try to do this again. We all want to enjoy the room. The room is not enjoyable when I have to warn, mute and kick well established ******** over silly things like disrupting the room.

24 hours to come up with an answer? And all I got from your right-hand mod earlier today was that none of us need to know what constituted disruption and you can break that out anytime you please.
Just a heads up, I won't be replying to this thread for another 24 hours. I would like to answer my pms in girls chat and answer to the ban requests and other issues that I need to attend to. Is that ok? Or would you like me to close this thread and reopen it till I get home from work tomorrow, or would you like to continue this in private messages or of course you can keep it opened.
 
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