How to " Date " online

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Or your thoughts about dating a complete stranger you have not met in real life, on a chat site, and for simplicity let us just say here on chat ave.

Feel free to quote and answer what ya want.

Would you date anyone on this website, why or why not.?

Would it make sense to set a straight-up deadline on when to meet in person, in that, ( and let us just say it is a heterosexual relationship) it is on the guy to visit the woman he is interested in first, and within a minimum of three months.

Should the woman do her due diligence and do a thorough background check on the guy? Or is it perfectly sane to just say oh we talk all the time and on cam so I trust him.

Also, would it be fair to say, if you advertise in any of the chat rooms in here that you are internet dating someone, who a lot of people would agree is a fucking tool, that you, in turn, open yourself up for getting ripped on.

And isn't it rather, juvenile as an adult, to advertise on your profile, that you are so and sos' " man " or " wife "; how insecure do people have to be that they have to literally advertise in that manner. Or is the thought, omg so cute. ?

Lastly, at what point does either person in the internet relationship in a chat room that is not a dating website, say, okay it has been almost a year now, and this person has not visited me in person, and or expects me to visit him or her first.

So those are my questions if anyone wants to take a stab at them.

For me it is all rhetorical, this is in no way shape, or form for me.

This is for the absolute clueless.

Help them out.

Have you had a successful internet relationship from a website not meant to be a dating website, share it, had a horrible experience and never did it again, share it too. Who knows ya might help someone.





( side note, I am not naming names, but I absolutely promise, there is one person on this website who just can not stand not reading my forum posts and is going to respond in a moronic manner, the second the person sees this. notice I didn't even put in the gender of the person. literally for me to not make this person cry all the person has to do is just ignore this post. I am literally not trying to bait this person, but the person will think I am. and in turn either post an emoji, a gif, or respond, thus exposing themself for everyone to see how much of a tool the person is. I have been over-feeding this person lately so when; not if, but when the person shows up, I am just going to let said person prove my point and leave it.)
 
You make a threads about myself, my relationship and Amanda nearly every week, you just had your last one locked two days ago because it was infective. You're past the point where you can hide your butt-blasted anger with a "if you respond, I win!).

This whole thread is irrelevant considering we've already met. You're free to disapprove of us, get jealous, sh*t your pants maybe? That's your right but this whole obsessive thing you got going, it has to stop. I don't even talk to you and you have me on ignore. So what's the problem?

Also, stop using @Amandalorian to try and troll me, especially when she's trying to mod. She has nothing to do with your weird obsession that you've had with me for two years
 
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The long-winded diatribes and attempts at using me as a pawn to troll @Boba Fett the "loser" are now beyond the threshold of creepy.

That being said, guess we should pretend to live in a vacuum and not recognize the fact that successful, well-adjusted people meet each other on the internet all day long for the purpose of dating; often with much less interaction than Boba Fett and I have had over the past few months. It's quite literally a thriving, multi-billion dollar business.

Since we met in-person last weekend, and don't live very far apart that prevents us from visiting each other frequently if we choose to do so, I'm pretty sure we've now transcended the "online dating" threshold. Chemistry does not always equal proximity.

Also wanted to share the secret recipe for happiness: do what you need to do to be happy, and allow others to do the same, repeat all the days of your life.
 
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Radiation said:
Taking this thread at face value: People can do what they like, but they should be careful.

This thread reeks of jealousy, or something similarly foul. As a duck my olfactory senses are not particularly outstanding.
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It really does not reek of anything, especially nothing foul, it just seems that people need help and I thought it would be beneficial to open a discussion for others to share their thoughts and possible experiences so others can learn from them.

Projecting aside, at least you managed to say that people should be careful.
 
Silly ducks. They should spend nights and nights texting and exchange personal info that therefore..

It should lead to a ducky marriage and like they say "First comes love then comes marriage". Marriage then ducky babies!!
 
I believe dating online has its own set of perks and risks.
A perk being is that you are able to feel that care from someone.
In my case, I have never had a real life local girlfriend, so it is ideal.

Besides, online means you do not have to be anxious of how you look.
Meaning anyone you meet will judge you on personality alone.
Face reveals can come when both people feel more confident together.

You do not have to be up to the crazy standards of women in 2023.
 
butterfliez said:
Silly ducks. They should spend nights and nights texting and exchange personal info that therefore..

It should lead to a ducky marriage and like they say "First comes love then comes marriage". Marriage then ducky babies!!
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I have no damn clue what this is but it sounds correct.
 
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