HI
@Emily2000 !
I dont believe we have ever had a conversation. So first let me start off by saying you wont be banned, Im the only one who can do that and not only do I not know you, that sort of thing isnt something Id ban for in the first place. So no worries there!
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@AussieFiFi , we cant just assume things about people and then punish them for things we dont know they are doing. Friends lists are not and indication anyone is doing anything mischievous, in fact I have a very large friends list in the room myself, and I rarely ever PM with anyone aside from my mods.
I trust our users to report things that violate rules. Acting prematurely opens up a situation where everyone is actioned simply based on what ifs, things dont work in that manner. I dont believe in guilty until proven innocent.