ComfortablyNumb Kicked; unban her

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Mr.W

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So as some of you might know, ComfortablyNumb former mod and a very good one, on Video Chat was unfairly treated and kicked by former Admin Ness, Ness was having a mental break down and had been harrassing Numb for a while, Numb tried to address the matter and for no reason was banned from the forums on top of being removed as moderator from Video Chat.

I would appreciate Numb being readmitted to the forums.

Regards.
 
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So as some of you might know, ComfortablyNumb former mod and a very good one, on Video Chat was unfairly treated and kicked by former Admin Ness, Ness was having a mental break down and had been harrassing Numb for a while, Numb tried to address the matter and for no reason was banned from the forums on top of being removed as moderator from Video Chat.

As Interim admin of Video Chat until properly put in, I would appreciate Numb being readmitted to the forums, and I will reinstate her to her mod position once I am admin of Video Chat.

Regards.
When were you made interim admin? To my knowledge, no decision has been made there, Chatmaster has already been reached out about the vacancy, moving forward.
 
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Leaving only @TheLeigh now? That sad to hear☹️
 
When were you made interim admin? To my knowledge, no decision has been made there, Chatmaster has already been reached out about the vacancy, moving forward.
So as some of you might know, ComfortablyNumb former mod and a very good one, on Video Chat was unfairly treated and kicked by former Admin Ness, Ness was having a mental break down and had been harrassing Numb for a while, Numb tried to address the matter and for no reason was banned from the forums on top of being removed as moderator from Video Chat.

As Interim admin of Video Chat until properly put in, I would appreciate Numb being readmitted to the forums, and I will reinstate her to her mod position once I am admin of Video Chat.

Regards.

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I think they are taking about the room and not the forums. And I think they are trolling as well. πŸ€·πŸ»β€β™‚οΈ
Not trolling. Ness has stepped down from both Forums(to my knowledge) and Video Chat room.

Edit: MrW as Interim Video Chat admin however, i'm thinking is trolling.
 
Ness has resigned as admin of cam chat and video chat he has also resigned as admin of forums. Ness has messaged me stating this also with his recommendations as to he thinks should be the next admin of chat so his resignation seems to be fact not hear say. Lets all wait till we hear from higher up on the out come of this moving forward
 
Well, I going to be honest he did wanted to leave for over a year now. I wish him no ill

Miss you ness 😭
 
Well, I going to be honest he did wanted to leave for over a year now. I wish him no ill

Miss you ness 😭
Yes, I was hoping he would at least stay a UM but I guess not. All the best Ness, you will be missed πŸ’”.
 
Ness has resigned as admin of cam chat and video chat he has also resigned as admin of forums. Ness has messaged me stating this also with his recommendations as to he thinks should be the next admin of chat so his resignation seems to be fact not hear say. Lets all wait till we hear from higher up on the out come of this moving forward
let's not base any choices on what he suggests. I am pretty sure that people can come together and figure something out. Drago could be a solid choice if she wants to come back, and I also think based on what I have seen, Lemon would be fair and impartial, not overreaching or too demanding on his staff. I think he would also come up with some solid choices for mods too.

We need to be honest, Ness was not a good admin. The way he conducted himself was not in the best interest of chat, and the resentment he caused is what has fostered so much mistrust between the videochatters and the mod team. It has become a them against us thing when it never had to be that way, The way he has behaved towards people in private has ran off countless awesome videochat members, more than I can even remember. Not only that, the number of videochat mods who have resigned over issues with him that all tell the same basic story that I won't even go into here. It's whatever, and it's the past now.

What we need now is someone who will undo all that and clean house. Someone who will actually behave in a way that makes people trust the staff and not feel like they are the enemy. We have a real opportunity to make video chat better than what it has been, without all the stupid politics, favoritism, outright personal grudges or egotistic power tripping.

I know technically he is still an admin right now, until Chatmaster revokes those permissions, and there is still a chance I get banned for saying that, but it needed said. It's time to focus on rebuilding trust now, and we got a real chance.
 
let's not base any choices on what he suggests. I am pretty sure that people can come together and figure something out. Drago could be a solid choice if she wants to come back, and I also think based on what I have seen, Lemon would be fair and impartial, not overreaching or too demanding on his staff. I think he would also come up with some solid choices for mods too.

We need to be honest, Ness was not a good admin. The way he conducted himself was not in the best interest of chat, and the resentment he caused is what has fostered so much mistrust between the videochatters and the mod team. It has become a them against us thing when it never had to be that way, The way he has behaved towards people in private has ran off countless awesome videochat members, more than I can even remember. Not only that, the number of videochat mods who have resigned over issues with him that all tell the same basic story that I won't even go into here. It's whatever, and it's the past now.

What we need now is someone who will undo all that and clean house. Someone who will actually behave in a way that makes people trust the staff and not feel like they are the enemy. We have a real opportunity to make video chat better than what it has been, without all the stupid politics, favoritism, outright personal grudges or egotistic power tripping.

I know technically he is still an admin right now, until Chatmaster revokes those permissions, and there is still a chance I get banned for saying that, but it needed said. It's time to focus on rebuilding trust now, and we got a real chance.
Were you a mod in video chat previously ,..seems like you know a lot however being an admin is not as glamorous as people thought and not easy at all .Often we are trap in between staff,chat ters and the owners. We are bound to make unfavourable decisions which we have to and often being understood or misinterpreted by many.

One needs to really has the high level of endurance and patience besides being firm on the decision made regardless whether your have strong or weak support from your other as long as you know and sure that is what needed to be done .

I have my share of getting upset ,depressed etc but as how I was taught/trained , block of your mind n ignore . Do not feed them by responding to their unnecessary comments .just 🀐
Best thing to do .
 
Were you a mod in video chat previously ,..seems like you know a lot however being an admin is not as glamorous as people thought and not easy at all .Often we are trap in between staff,chat ters and the owners. We are bound to make unfavourable decisions which we have to and often being understood or misinterpreted by many.

One needs to really has the high level of endurance and patience besides being firm on the decision made regardless whether your have strong or weak support from your other as long as you know and sure that is what needed to be done .

I have my share of getting upset ,depressed etc but as how I was taught/trained , block of your mind n ignore . Do not feed them by responding to their unnecessary comments .just 🀐
Best thing to do .
No, I was never a mod here. I know how the admin thing works only from a previously popular site I used to be an admin on, and its probably not the same here. Trust me, I know how unglamorous is can be, and I know how at times people can dogpile you over minor things.

What I am speaking of is not that. It was not simple mistakes or miscommunications, it was downright abuse of authority, and malicious in some cases. That is just what I know of, first hand with myself, and what I have been told by certain unnamed people who I trust, and others who chatave trusted enough to put into places of authority.

A few reports of questionable actions is an anomaly. A deluge of people independently coming forward with similar accusations is a pattern. I know I will probably be labeled as having a grudge or an agenda, but all the people who have said similar things can't all be disgruntled and making stuff up.

I would really urge the video chat mods to ask around and talk to people, particularly the women of chat and former mods. Get the info, compare the stories and weigh the validity of what you hear. There is a reason why so many of us in video chat did a collective sigh of relief when we heard Ness was no longer in charge. There is an air of optimism that things will be different in chat with the news.
 
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