A Question about GLB forum? Why do you nit include trans? Why only gay, lesbian and bisexua

Richthofen

Richthofen

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There is allot of trans in singles chat. Some are going through some heavy changes. Female hormones, for instance.

Have they been exiled from your chats.

I apologise for any mistakes I have made regarding this matter. I am just asking because I have a friend in singles who is going through a storm after being on hrt for four months.

I truely think his brain has changed. Blood changes over at 3months.
 
Hello! I can't speak for Forums too much, but in the gay chatroom, we regularly see trans-men and trans-women participants. Those who are born female usually aren't popular in Gay Chat, but there's some who seek them out. And those who are born male are definitely the majority.

I personally don't allow anti-trans behavior in Gay Chat. To not support it is one thing, but to actively use slurs or hate speech in an open forum is unacceptable and I know the staff in Gay Chat don't tolerate that.

That's just in the gay chatroom though, that doesn't always carry over to Forums or to other rooms like Lesbian Chat.
 
Thankyou. Inremember a time where Dylan came into,singles and said some things.

If I put myself in a trans persons shoes those comments would have made them feel unwelcome.

Clearly things are better now.
 
Interesting. - richtoften - you are being wise, caring, and considerate.
Respect to you, sir. (or madam).


i have some more things to say, but i need to collect my thoughts. I'll make a considered reply later.
 
Richthofen said:
There is allot of trans in singles chat. Some are going through some heavy changes. Female hormones, for instance.

Have they been exiled from your chats.

I apologise for any mistakes I have made regarding this matter. I am just asking because I have a friend in singles who is going through a storm after being on hrt for four months.

I truely think his brain has changed. Blood changes over at 3months.
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You are also being deliberately obtuse - trans is included in gay lesbian bi - but also you do make a good point.
transexualism, and transvestitism, is different from gay, lesbian, bi. Although they all overlap in some ways.
 
RandomGuyUK said:
You are also being deliberately obtuse - trans is included in gay lesbian bi - but also you do make a good point.
transexualism, and transvestitism, is different from gay, lesbian, bi. Although they all overlap in some ways.
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I remember when you were being obtuse. I never said anything.

Oy I do like my englash muffins, they're well versed.

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Blether said:
I remember when you were being obtuse. I never said anything.

Oy I do like my englash muffins, they're well versed.

Charlie Chaplin Movie GIF
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I dont deliberately try to be obtuse.
But I'm not perfect. I make lots of mistakes.
Sometimes I am a dickhead, also.

Say what you feel - I'm perfectly willing to apologise if I screw up.

Oops.
 
TheEridianNinja said:
Did you intentionally misgender them and that's the joke to you?
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I think that's what Blether was doing yes.

eg. --- "I Sexually Identify as an Attack Helicopter."
(and what if I do, identify like that?)

People can choose to 'identify' as whatever they want, in the modern world. - APPARENTLY.

I Identify as a Tree. A Redwood tree. or maybe an Oak. I havent decided yet.
Are you going to argue? will you misgender me and tell I am NOT a tree?
This is the insanity and inanity of the modern western world.

We need to learn to be ourselves. We are who we are are. Nothing can change that.
We can't swap 'genders'. That is biologically impossible.
 
RandomGuyUK said:
I think that's what Blether was doing yes.

eg. --- "I Sexually Identify as an Attack Helicopter."
(and what if I do, identify like that?)

People can choose to 'identify' as whatever they want, in the modern world. - APPARENTLY.

I Identify as a Tree. A Redwood tree. or maybe an Oak. I havent decided yet.
Are you going to argue? will you misgender me and tell I am NOT a tree?
This is the insanity and inanity of the modern western world.

We need to learn to be ourselves. We are who we are are. Nothing can change that.
We can't swap 'genders'. That is biologically impossible.
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dammit. I expressed myself and am an idiot once more.
Once more into the breach, dear friends ...
 
RandomGuyUK said:
I Identify as a Tree. A Redwood tree. or maybe an Oak. I havent decided yet.
Are you going to argue? will you misgender me and tell I am NOT a tree?
This is the insanity and inanity of the modern western world.
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You sound like so much fun, remind me to never ask for your opinion
 
TheEridianNinja said:
You sound like so much fun, remind me to never ask for your opinion
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Remind me to ask your opinion too. Hahah.

People who say they "feel like a woman inside" are mentally ill. In all kindness - delusional, at best.

Obviously you will tell me I am not a Tree, because that is obvious. I'm a human being.
And my sexual organs are outies, not innies.
Therefore I am male. Obviously, duhhh.

And that is my analogy.
We are either male or female. It's really that simple.
If I 'identify' as a tree, or a cat, or a radio, or a paving stone, or an alien --- its all mental derangement.
We are People. we are males or females.
That is the truth. Sorry if you dont like that.

I have consideration and care for people who feel differently, but the whole 'trans' thing - its basically men telling women how they feel. "i feel like a woman inside" - oh, really. wow, amazing. who knew.

Men telling women how they feel in life.
That is very retrograde, friend.
 
lexidacutie said:
I'm trans girl and there's girls chat or boys chat witch is for anyone who identifies as those genders I'm also trans lesbian and ive had positive experiences in lesbian chat
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I was not insulting you personally. just commenting in general. And I was saying that you - and all of us, everyone; we are who we are. you can feel how you want. but people's feelings cant change biological reality. in my opinion.
peace and love, tho.
 
RandomGuyUK said:
its basically men telling women how they feel. "i feel like a woman inside" - oh, really. wow, amazing. who knew.

Men telling women how they feel in life.
That is very retrograde, friend.
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My trans male friend (And in case you can't figure it out - that means they were born with tits) wants to know why a guy named "RandomGuyUK" is telling them how they are allowed to feel, based on their reproductive organs that will probably be soon replaced.

Cheers.
 
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