New side room in Girls Chat

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Oh I best believe guys do go into girls chat and cause trouble. It sounds like a shitty thing people do 😅 sadly tho as I said above excluding someone because of their gender isn’t something that I see happening. Only OA/UA visiting each other rooms is the only restrictions rooms will have, you know how people are in 2021 LOL, Karen’s and people would always make drama
Drama in a chat room? Dylan, come on now, that NEVER happens! 😛
 
I suggest that a permanent side room is made in Girls Chat that is designated girls only.


There are a number of reasons I suggest this the main one being we are losing ******** particularly the younger ones who want a place where guys are not allowed. A number have left for other sites that have such rooms.


It would be a very popular move especially for the younger brigade and will help us grow the girls chat room.


It will not be an issue for us mods to manage, most ******** know how to use report function and its very easy now to switch between rooms now.


To those who say but guys will just pretend to be girls...Its happening now anyway and most of the girls are very good at spotting the fakes in the room.


It wont detract from the main room either as many will stay in there to chat especially the older ones.


The most common complaint we get in girls chat is the boys being allowed. Its a daily situation that can be quite annoying as a mod to deal with and it also brings a bad feeling to the room.


Perhaps we can have a trial run of say a month so the powers that be can asses to see if they feel its worth it.
That should mean Girls won't be allowed in Boys Chat
 
True! But they should also make a side room just for the Boys in Girls Chat and in Boys Chat they should make a room just for the girls bro...✨
Why make a boys room just for boys in girls chat? You can do that in boys room if you want a boys room in a girls chat makes no sense u can either chill in main in girls room or go to boys chat or boys room in a boys chat 🤷🏽‍♀️

My POV is if it says girls chat then it should be girls chat. Shouldn't have to make a side room that is actually girls only. Should be the same for Boys chat.
The owner dont see it that way 🤣
 
Tell me something I don't already know lol
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It's 2021, Chat Avenue shall not exclude anyone!
They are not excluded from the main room but girls would like a place to go without guys there to interfere with what we want to talk about. We can't say anything without them turning it into something sexual. It's not fair to us and it's disgusting
 
Life’s not fair!!
Nobody can help a lot of guys are perverted :/ just ignore em report em and move on
Its not about guys being perves etc its about a space where younger one feel safer even having these guys on ignore they can still be seen in the rooms list. We are losing ******** because of this issue to other sites that are no longer small fry who offer rooms for girls only. Many of us are sick of friends leaving for these sites.
 
Its not about guys being perves etc its about a space where younger one feel safer even having these guys on ignore they can still be seen in the rooms list. We are losing ******** because of this issue to other sites that are no longer small fry who offer rooms for girls only. Many of us are sick of friends leaving for these sites.
I completely understand you, but what I said is how CA is run and works :/
 
At the end of the day this isn't a guy hating exercise.

Its an attempt to help chat ave to improve its product and retain more ********. Id suggest we have lost at least 30 or 40 relative regulars including VIPs who paid a monthly subscription since I joined Chat ave, who knows how many from the past few years. (Regulars being girls who were in daily for at least a few weeks.). I couldn't count how many guest have come in commented that its not really a girls chat and left.

Its an attempt to give what so many in girls chat ask for on a daily basis.

Its an attempt to allow some girls who feel intimidated for various reasons by guys in the room to have a place they can chat in relative peace..

The ignore and report features are great but not enough to deal with the real issues some have in our room.

It wont affect the guys who do come to our room as the girls who would use it wouldn't talk to them anyway.

It will resolve conflicts within the room especially the ones involving certain guys who are clearly there to cause friction in the room but are skating the edge of the rules and we cant deal with them as a result.

It is only a suggested side room not asking to make the whole of girls chat girls only.
 
Its not about guys being perves etc its about a space where younger one feel safer even having these guys on ignore they can still be seen in the rooms list. We are losing ******** because of this issue to other sites that are no longer small fry who offer rooms for girls only. Many of us are sick of friends leaving for these sites.
That right there is a big deal. Both staff and regulars alike are trying to keep things together while certain individuals are clearly out trying to tear the room apart. Take last night (Eastern US Time), one of the most known troublemakers we have had set for a good 45minutes (at least) encouraging a racist fight between two other ********. Did he make racist comments himself? No. Did he take sides? No. But he encouraged it to keep going and even made comments like "I'm only here for the drama:. It's things like this which ********, especially the younger ones, see and then turn around and don't come back. We had steady numbers for a while all throughout the day, that has drastically changed. As @ZombiUnicornis said, nobody wants males excluded from the room. That is indeed wrong and should never take place. With that being said, I wonder if some sort of compromise can be found until things get sorted out because while my opinion may not mean much, what I do for a living I see this every day and its hard to watch sometimes. Report? Absolutely! Ignore? Absolutely! Those things do impact the situation in a positive light, but only a temporary thing as blocks last a month and there are a few who even go off on guest accounts to keep on bothering people. In no way shape or form will I ever condone somebody being treated differently because of their gender and I truly believe everyone who has commented on this in support feels the same. Also, just to back that up, plenty of females cause trouble too so we know it's not just guys 😛
 
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