I’ve been with a man for over a year. We moved in together 3 months ago. When we go out together we don’t show affection towards one another. We are just two guys having dinner or seeing a movie together. I get a little jealous when I catch him eyeing a female but I understand. We are both bisexual. Early in our relationship I cheated on him a few times. Now that I live with him he is the only one. When we are alone together he is very affectionate and cuddles me at night. For the past 6 months I’ve wanted to yell from the roof top that I Love my man. Last month I did research on how to give good head. When I used a technique on him he looked me in the eyes and said “That is the best blowjob I’ve ever had.” I could go on and on about how he makes me feel. I am at a point in this relationship that I need some advice. I want to tell him that I Love him. I am afraid that if I do that he will kick me out of the house and I will not be his anymore. The thought of not being his anymore scares me. Do I continue to withhold my words of Love for him and enjoy our intimacy or take the chance of not being his anymore. I’m young, I can find another but right now I don’t want anyone but him. HELP!
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- Thread starter tiger2178
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He clearly loves the talents you have with your mouth
Couple of options:
1. Tell him how you feel and if he does a runner you know he’s not the one for you,
or
2. See how it develops. He might be the one saying it to you first.
Having said all that,
Couple of options:
1. Tell him how you feel and if he does a runner you know he’s not the one for you,
or
2. See how it develops. He might be the one saying it to you first.
Having said all that,
shows you’re thinking of the possibility of finding another guy even though not right now so maybe he isn’t “the one”
...ngl, the bj bit caught me super off guard
But for advice @Inkandtatts basically said what's most likely the best options
But for advice @Inkandtatts basically said what's most likely the best options
I wanted to add some more information about our relationship. I have taken the female role in his life. I do all his laundry, I cook for him every night and he eats every bit of it. I clean the house and make sure it is orderly. I don’t fuss at him when he is messy, I just clean up after him. He works 10 plus hard hours and I just work an easy 8. I am very submissive for him and have never turned him down when he wants me. Often when he comes home from work he will look at me and wink at me as I’m getting dinner for him and tells me he is taking a shower. I’ve learned that when he winks at me I am to hold off on dinner and wait for him in bed. After he takes a shower he gets in bed with me. The winking started our first time together. We had shot a round of golf together and hit it off. After golf we ate dinner and I wound up in his apartment drinking some beers. When he got up to get us another drink I noticed he was fully erect. I made a comment about it and he winked at me so I went to my knees and served him. We started out being together monthly then weekly then nightly after he asked me to move in with him. He never says he wants to have sex. He just gives me the wink. I know it would be better to wait for him to tell me he Loves me first but I want it to be said, unless it means I will lose him.
Thanks. Good advice. The comment I made about finding another guy is on my mind if he leaves me. I just don’t want him to leave
JayceVeron
Banned
He won't leave sounds like he has what he needs and wants
But I get the message it’s more. I’ll wake up in the morning and his arm is around me. He gives me a kiss on the cheek when he leaves the house. Not every time but more than not. After he has his way with me he gives me a good kiss good night. We share one checking account for bills. Every pay day he’ll give me a little extra cash because I don’t make as much as him. I could probably come up with some more things but I don’t feel like I’m just a body for him to use.
I do feel he likes it just as is. It’s the I Love you I’m not sure about. I do everything I can think of to make him happy. We never fight and if we did I would let him win even if I’m right.
JayceVeron
Banned
Maybe just tell him and see what happens if he's the one even if he doesn't feel the same as you do he will be honest and you guys can work it out
I highly doubt he'd kick you out for saying it
Sorry for off guard. Just trying to paint the picture of how much I Love him.
Thank you. I think that may be the best approach. I could set him down and tell him how I feel when we are not intimate. I could just tell him and let him know that if he is not ready to say it that I will accept it as it is and will not express to him. Great advice I’m going think about how to do it so that after it ends we both will win. Thank you. Thank you Thank you.
JayceVeron
Banned
Glad I could help