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UniquePersonallity

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Hello, so I am new and do not want to post, but I was just afraid of thinking of coming out as one type of or sexuality? I am not sure how to express my self anymore. I come to tell that is changing or liking or becoming someone different worth it? I cannot even go to the restrooms because I get laughed at. There is no room for me and I have constantly go home to use the restrooms. My parents do not know because they do not care. I am afraid of my future. I already get bullied because of how I look like. I hate my body and the changes. I wish I was not human. I do not even know myself. I am lost and wish this topic of finding who I am vanished. This is hard and I do not want to talk about my feelings. It might be confusing, but I am just putting some things out.

And I have had some problems trying to make an account or access the website, I am not sure why from before.
 
Ok, let's work on the easiest part first: what problems have you had trying to make an account, and what issues do you have accessing the website? What kind of device are you using?

After we get that solved, we can more easily talk about the other issues that you're having, and I'm sure there'll be lots of good input from others here.
 
I was on my families computer and the website was loading for awhile(but never got onto the actual site)and took time and nothing changed. I had to use another device to make a forum account. Everything went well planned after making an account with another family device. I did not have any internet issues while using the computer(example: everything else is faster except this particular site.) So, something must of stopped from letting the signal through.
 
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And thank you, David for helping me through Forums and trying to help me resolve issues that I had.
I am glad I found people who I can seek help from.
I am glad for everything.
We can talk about anything if you’d like.
But, I am still uneasy of joining the chats.
Whoever moved my forums in the correct area, thank you. I was lost where things were supposed to be(categories.)
 
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Hello dear, I am so sorry to heart that you are going through these issues. Self discovery can be difficult and sometimes painful for a lot of people but that's usually because they have some doubt in their mind as to who they are. The best thing to do is try to be yourself without questioning. Our minds make us go crazy if we overthink and that is not good. I don't know if this helps but if you'd like to talk more I am happy to listen without judgement or pretending to understand what you're going through.
 
UniquePersonallity said:
I was on my families computer and the website was loading for awhile(but never go onto the actual site)and took time and nothing changed. I had to use another device to make a forum account. Everything went well planned after making an account with another family device. I did not have any internet issues while using the computer(example: everything else is faster except this particular site.) So, something must of stopped from letting the signal through.
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The first thing I would check for is a VPN - if the devices you were using have a VPN active, that might be the problem. If that's the case, try turning the VPN off and see if that solves the problem.
 
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The first thing I would check for is a VPN - if the devices you were using have a VPN active, that might be the problem. If that's the case, try turning the VPN off and see if that solves the problem.
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Good morning, David. My family does not use VPN, except my father who uses it for work. I do not think the VPN he uses effects the website from loading properly. But, there is no VPN involved to get on ChatAvenue.
 
UniquePersonallity said:
Good morning, David. My family does not use VPN, except my father who uses it for work. I do not think the VPN he uses effects the website from loading properly. But, there is no VPN involved to get on ChatAvenue.
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Any change in the attempts to register an account? You said there was one device that got through, right?

I tried to reach you through DMs here, but apparently, I'm blocked.
 
I do not need to attempt to register for an account anymore since I have an account working on this device. And the other device is not being used and being stored away. Is the Private Message about this topic? What do you mean blocked?
 
You might need to pm @Chatmaster i had him help me with this issue the other day. Turns out he had to change some sort of setting and it instantly worked after.
 
Thank You, for saying what I should do and how he could help, but I do not want to bother ChatMaster in any way, but this particular issue is small and I got what I needed.
 
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Thank You, for saying what I should do and how he could help, but I do not want to bother ChatMaster in any way, but this particular issue is small and I got what I needed.
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I mean he’s the only one that can fix that glitch so you’d need to pm him either in here and explain what room and what’s going on, or just do it in the room. You can even quote my name and say it’s the same issue he helped me with and he should remember 🙂
 
I believe there’s some type of confusion with you understanding the difference of accessing the community chats and signing up (for forums) which had problems with a (particular device). I am only using the Chat-Avenue Forums, not the chats to sign up. But, as I said “this particular issue is small and I got what I needed.” Forums and becoming a chat member by joining rooms is a separate thing, but thank you?
 
I'm sorry to hear about your struggles, I know it's rough when you're trying to discover who you are. Be yourself and remember YOU are the most important person in your life. You don't have to rush coming out either. Do it on your own time and at your own pace - there is no deadline. Keep your chin up!
 
I've never had trouble finding myself, I've always had trouble showing myself to others. I knew at 10 or 11 that I was interested in boys and girls at school. I thought it was normal and when I approached a friend I quickly found out that not everyone feels the same way as others. I am sorry to hear that you are having difficult times in your life. I am an excellent listener and I have been told I give good advice. I'm always looking for friends so if you like you can send me a request. I'm here for you and anyone else that reads this post if you need me.
#YouLoveWhoYouLove
 
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