Dating disaster stories

I met this guy on an app.. we talked, and decided to meet for dinner. My friends accompanied me to the meeting place so just to sure that im safe and sound. The guy didnt show up. So me and my friends just had dinner then left.
Then the guy pmed me on the app saying he had a problem accessing the dating app, thats why he wasnt able to message me and he waited on me on the meeting place. I didnt even see him there. 🤷🏻‍♀️
 
I met this amazing lad. Witty, smart, employed. He even liked Noodly Booties™️. We talked for days. Weeks, even. I was about to change my Facebook status and leave my boyfriend. I was even willing to drown my cat so I could start a completely new life with him.

But then he told me he was straight. I cried for hours. Probably days. Until I turned into a raisin and died.
 
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Supgad said:
I met this amazing lad. Witty, smart, employed. He even liked Noodly Booties™️. We talked for days. Weeks, even. I was about to change my Facebook status and leave my boyfriend. I was even willing to drown my cat so I could start a completely new life with him.

But then he told me he was straight. I cried for hours. Probably days. Until I turned into a raisin and died.
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He’s “straight” not straight. Don’t die x
 
I remember it was a few years ago i was working towards my drivers license. The place we were meeting at was like 5mins from house a drive short one. We were chatting for 2 weeks on an app. So seeing as had my permit my mother wanted me to drive everywhere so i drove to the spot and then she took her car home. My date didn’t know i was learning to drive. So i went inside sat for 10mins texted nothing waited another 20 still nothing i ordered a drink and eventually realized i was being stood up. Ordered myself food and another drink. Never heard from her again.
 
we were sitting in his car outside my house and without any provocation he just " PULLED IT OUT "



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Once I registered for an online dating website. I found the girl that lived in my city. I wrote to her and she answered that my avatar was the worst she had ever seen and advised me to leave the site. This was the first and last time I used online dating services lmao.
 
Irish_lady said:
Ok so picture the scene- first ever date i was so excited (first ever bf at the time) their we were all set to go to the movies decided we'd get popcorn coz well you know its a standard thing to do, asked him if he wanted anyone said no because he wasnt hungry 🙄 so i said ok ill buy my own and share if he did get hungry, so long story short were sitting down movie is starting he asks can he have my popcorn because he was now hungry i said sure no problem, he took the whole bucket and i had to sit there starving while he ate my popcorn and wouldnt share.. note to self from now on buy 2 popcorns even if they say no!!
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I apologize I was famished, I was so nervous about the date that I could not eat. Man that popcorn was so good. I remember as if it was yesterday.
 
Turned up to dinner to find he'd invited me to a business dinner and he hoped I didn't mind but could I pretend we've known each other a while... I did mind. We'd been speaking maybe two weeks, ffs.

Thankfully it was in the city centre and knew some of my friends were out and about so went to meet them instead and had a good laugh. He text me a bit later asking if I would give him another chance. Blocked him.
 
I dated this woman that wanted me to buy her everything then accused me of assault. Alot of gaslighting and emotional blackmail.

Women that use gaslighting, emotional blackmail, threats of self harm, demand to be treated like a princess and more are symptoms of personality disorders, particularly BPD.

People like that are experts in making you feel like the best person in the world, not because they love you but because they need you. As soon as someone else comes along, you get turned from the person who was the best friend, provider and savior into a demonised abuser.
 
Well, well, well, got plenty of those…

I met this guy when I was 22 and he was like 35 something and they said let’s go out fer lunch - my young days - and so I agreed, no problem, but then once we got to the cafe - fer the record I didn’t know him long, maybe 3 days - he proceeds to say “let’s share a meal together, on the same plate” and I reply “uh ok” - I do not like sharing with strangers lol and it just looks cheap - so anyways, we converse and all that and I start talking literally randomly about star signs and astrology and he flipped it “WHY ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT THAT MY EX WAS THE SAME” blah blah, and I kinda creeped out.

To conclude, we kept talking and lol well I was losing interest so I was looking outside to the street (well there was a hot guy there, he had blue eyes!) and again he got mad “WHY ARE YOU LOOKING OUT THERE, LOOK AT ME”

I bolted.

I mean, fer heavens sakes, first you invite me fer lunch, that means you are paying, you’re the invitee, and you want me to share with ya, and then you flip it at me over nonsensical crap, no way, literally huge baggage I’d say.

Anyways lol I never dated again, well, actually that’s not true, I just never took dates seriously after that.

@DynamicDylan - yeah stay singal, better. Seriously!

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Oh and then this one time this LUNATIC guy really creeped me out, he takes me fer dinner, all goes well; he then asks I go back to his place to hang, okay no worries and AHA, I told him from the get go, no norties, I’ve just been through surgery, and well, the horny sod started touching me like I was a dolly. Thankfully I didn’t live far and said I have a sore stomach, gotta go.
 
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