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Should Children 13 be allowed in Gen Chat or any chat with Adults?


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NavyEA-6B

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Here is the issue. 13 year olds are being allowed to chat in the same room as adults over 18. The staff says it is safe, how it is can not tell you.
I stand against this, and those that protect this conduct.
 
Here is the issue. 13 year olds are being allowed to chat in the same room as adults over 18. The staff says it is safe, how it is can not tell you.
I stand against this, and those that protect this conduct.
You DO know that our staff does not set the age limit in there.....right? I'm confused about the "only when staff says it's ok". When did any of us say "hey, this is cool, come chat with some random uncle touchie"? The answer is never. But since we don't set the ages in there....what we CAN and DO enforce, are the rules stated in the guidelines. Would I (and probably all the other mods) love to kick anyone under 18 to teen room? You bet. But alas- we can't. You making some dumb poll about this does not change that fact.

I am sorry, I made this a public poll. My bad.

Please just let V do the polls- this one doesn't even make sense.
 
You DO know that our staff does not set the age limit in there.....right? I'm confused about the "only when staff says it's ok". When did any of us say "hey, this is cool, come chat with some random uncle touchie"? The answer is never. But since we don't set the ages in there....what we CAN and DO enforce, are the rules stated in the guidelines. Would I (and probably all the other mods) love to kick anyone under 18 to teen room? You bet. But alas- we can't. You making some dumb poll about this does not change that fact.



Please just let V do the polls- this one doesn't even make sense.
You have no control over who does the polls, yes you do have control. if you like other staff have done stood up to protect children. This poll would not be here.
 
Here is the issue. 13 year olds are being allowed to chat in the same room as adults over 18. The staff says it is safe, how it is can not tell you.
I stand against this, and those that protect this conduct.
This has been an issue for as long as I have been here over 10 years - nothing to do with the room mods its CM who has made this rule.

Nothing will change this fact as it draws in the creeps.
 
You DO know that our staff does not set the age limit in there.....right? I'm confused about the "only when staff says it's ok". When did any of us say "hey, this is cool, come chat with some random uncle touchie"? The answer is never. But since we don't set the ages in there....what we CAN and DO enforce, are the rules stated in the guidelines. Would I (and probably all the other mods) love to kick anyone under 18 to teen room? You bet. But alas- we can't. You making some dumb poll about this does not change that fact.



Please just let V do the polls- this one doesn't even make sense.
Makes perfect sense if you stopped to read what is being voiced instead of smashing every voice who brings these to the front - This is constant issue with the 13 - 17 age bracket always has been.

While some are not in context they are valid considerations.

I wish all would stop reacting to the facts which are happening in the rooms, insulting, negatating or pretending it isn't happening or they are a troll.

It make me want to vomit to read such retortical rubbish from unpaid staff, you will not behave in my chatroom this way ad nauseum blah blah blah - why not take accountability and be honest upfront and transparent and say "I have no control of the content, context or ability to stop this as the tools are not available" instead of covering it up all the time.
 
@Chelle Belle is a two time and still trump supporter. I wouldn’t take her seriously when it comes to anything regarding protecting children.

She proudly supports a literal pedophile.

As does toc and Jose (who got fired).
 
Voted no because its just common sense..however its a fact the Admins/Mods of the rooms have no final say in the age limits of the rooms and Chatmaster clearly has other priorities.
 
Voted no because its just common sense..however its a fact the Admins/Mods of the rooms have no final say in the age limits of the rooms and Chatmaster clearly has other priorities.
If you meet someomne that has directly communicated with CM let me know. I have talked to theAdministrator once in 10 years.
 
be honest upfront and transparent
We all have been, and a multitude of times.

@NavyEA-6B is also an ex-staff member who is fully aware of what can or cannot be done on this site, and is also very aware of who sets the age ranges in the rooms and how to properly submit those concerns.
If you meet someomne that has directly communicated with CM let me know. I have talked to theAdministrator once in 10 years.
I speak with them often. Sending a message to either doesn’t automatically entitle you to a response. Not receiving a reply doesn’t mean the message wasn’t read.
 
We all have been, and a multitude of times.

@NavyEA-6B is also an ex-staff member who is fully aware of what can or cannot be done on this site, and is also very aware of who sets the age ranges in the rooms and how to properly submit those concerns.

I speak with them often. Sending a message to either doesn’t automatically entitle you to a response. Not receiving a reply doesn’t mean the message wasn’t read.
Wonderful way to run a business, and let mods and Admins with little or no life experienced run the joint.
 
Still not one brave person has supported the UA in an adult chat, yet I get kicked if I say it is wrong.
11-0 No's winning!
 
But you post in teen forums. You’re doing exactly what you’re complaining about in this post.
I addressed this, I posted my agreement right under a Mod that is also not a teen.
If the staff can not stay where they should why should eye?
 
Nope, not a difference.

You’re specifically in their dedicated safe zone.
Now don’t get me wrong I’ve chatted with minors in public forums Ee and Games. Those minors are now adults and never once invaded their safe zones.

So to answer your question in a specific manner:
Yes- adults and minors can engage, however it must of course be done in public. I get this is more difficult in chatrooms. In forums here it does happen.
No- Adults shouldn’t engage with minors. Especially in their specific safe zones or Teen Forum which is what I mentioned. Personally I’d make General Chat 16+ because as advertised the room is “General” chat however it is moderated.

Thats my view. I cannot be a hypocrite and advocate for the opposite of what I did when I first joined the forums, but I categorically agree the dangers are more prevalent now than it was in 2005.

Take it or leave it.
 
Fu:ck th!s poll bruh. OP lives on the internet all night & day and cry like that boy Alaskawoman. Dude got lots of freetime at the crib doing nothing but sit behind the screen

Anybody can fake the account and age and be pretenders. Ain't nothing gonna be fix in Gen and its been like that for years.

I heard this OP post a lot on teen and kids section - the type of sh!t he shouldn't be doing. Now the topic is about underage, now I feel like his obssessed with it -- > you sure ya ain't creep? 🤔

RodeoMT you came from adult chat you porn addict. Keep ya b!tch ass outta minor section.
 
Teens are generally annoying but they have their own forum teen forum so they can discuss all the important things in a teen's life such as acme control , make-up and the latest I Phones etc. The only time I even will notice the teen forum is when I see a response posted by an adult. I support the no teen forums ban and continued ban of teens when they reply in an adult section.

What I wish was enforced more is when a user in adult uses Anime. Now mods do kick them but most of them come and complain about a kick saying the cartoon model was suppose to be over 18. Then one of the UM's gives them 2nd and 3rd and 4th chances.
 
I got a PM from a UM not so long ago because I had done that. I had scrolled down and seen a recent ban/kick complaint and didn’t realise it was Teen forum. Mistakes happen. That crap is deliberate.

Just pointing out that before the biased/victim card comes out that yes I also get told and don’t play those cards. 💁‍♀️
 
Incase you are keeping score, no one has had the guts to say yes I support it!
That could be because it's a public poll and noone is stupid enough to say yes when you are in this thread. You would jump on them as fast as you can I'm sure
 
Wonderful way to run a business, and let mods and Admins with little or no life experienced run the joint.
This seems a bit like friendly fire. You were once a mod as well. Seems your opinion only changed once you were no longer a mod. You might be a bit salty but that's no reason to constantly bring your bs to forums. Do us all a favor and give it a break. I'm sure everyone would be way happier including yourself
 
This seems a bit like friendly fire. You were once a mod as well. Seems your opinion only changed once you were no longer a mod. You might be a bit salty but that's no reason to constantly bring your bs to forums. Do us all a favor and give it a break. I'm sure everyone would be way happier including yourself
I am not unhappy. But when 22 year olds with no life experience are given absolute power they will be corrupted appsolutely.
And no I was on mods that slack all the time when I was a mod, I was asked by my admin not to bring it in here. So I kept it in the rooms I workked.
But general critizism is inappropriate, there are good and bad staff.
I won't be giving anyone a beak.
 
I am not unhappy. But when 22 year olds with no life experience are given absolute power they will be corrupted appsolutely.
And no I was on mods that slack all the time when I was a mod, I was asked by my admin not to bring it in here. So I kept it in the rooms I workked.
But general critizism is inappropriate, there are good and bad staff.
I won't be giving anyone a beak.
a ducks or goose beak?
 
Then tell me this. How exactly can you know how much "life experience" said 22 year old has purely from knowing them online? It's not like you actually know them or know anything about them besides their username and the few facts they may have decided to make public. I have seen 18 year olds with more experience and maturity then people who are in their 40's and 50's. Basing it off age is silly and just shows how much intelligence you really have.
 
I am not unhappy. But when 22 year olds with no life experience are given absolute power they will be corrupted appsolutely.
And no I was on mods that slack all the time when I was a mod, I was asked by my admin not to bring it in here. So I kept it in the rooms I workked.
But general critizism is inappropriate, there are good and bad staff.
I won't be giving anyone a beak.
Then tell me this. How exactly can you know how much "life experience" said 22 year old has purely from knowing them online? It's not like you actually know them or know anything about them besides their username and the few facts they may have decided to make public. I have seen 18 year olds with more experience and maturity then people who are in their 40's and 50's. Basing it off age is silly and just shows how much intelligence you really have.
This - above is correct. While 99% of us agree there needs to be action but this is not anyone out here that needs to action anything its the owner of this site - maybe focus on that and you might make some traction (sarcasm)
 
Have a feeling OP needs to chill out and stop confusing between rooms; you can go to singles in case you don't like general, because as the name implies its "general" chat.
Perhaps they can change the name of singles to something else and remove the old fucks like screem and rapi who I've heard are way ahead of gen chat mods n admins in the way they have sucked all the life out of those chatrooms.
 
Perhaps they can change the name of singles to something else and remove the old fucks like screem and rapi who I've heard are way ahead of gen chat mods n admins in the way they have sucked all the life out of those chatrooms.
The mods in Singles are stellar. Most of the time you dont even have to flag something, as theyre on it. The room is actually more enjoyable when theyre around, because theyre not power hungry, have been modding together for years, and are pretty down to Earth. The room only gets the energy sucked out of it when degenerates (like the one who liked your post) get kicked/banned from Gen and bring their bs to Singles.
 
I don't go in General because I do not agree with the morality (and questionable legality) of children chatting with adults. And I do no go to singles because I am not single.
Really, how much life experience can a 22 year old have other than a hard time growing up.
Has she traveled the world?
Has she lived in Italy or France?
Can she speak Italian?
At 22 does she have at least a Master or PhD?
Has she managed or lead over 1000 people at once?
Has she been responsible for the health and well being of the above number of people.
Has she worked with people injured from tragic injuries, given first aid on the side of the road with a mans cranial fractured and leaking
She maybe an intelligent person, but I'd bet money other than being an Admin her experience you get from living live does not come close to theDifference.
The mods in Singles are stellar. Most of the time you dont even have to flag something, as theyre on it. The room is actually more enjoyable when theyre around, because theyre not power hungry, have been modding together for years, and are pretty down to Earth. The room only gets the energy sucked out of it when degenerates (like the one who liked your post) get kicked/banned from Gen and bring their bs to Singles.
Please do not derail this chat from the Poll.


I got a PM from a UM not so long ago because I had done that. I had scrolled down and seen a recent ban/kick complaint and didn’t realise it was Teen forum. Mistakes happen. That crap is deliberate.

Just pointing out that before the biased/victim card comes out that yes I also get told and don’t play those cards. 💁‍♀️
Yea I saw suggestion and responded.

I am not unhappy. But when 22 year olds with no life experience are given absolute power they will be corrupted appsolutely.
And no I was on mods that slack all the time when I was a mod, I was asked by my admin not to bring it in here. So I kept it in the rooms I workked.
But general critizism is inappropriate, there are good and bad staff.
I won't be giving anyone a beak.
Stop derailing you own Poll.

This is about wither it is wise or not to let Minors in a room with adults where they can go in and start a DM and the mods and or admins can not read it.

There all back as it should be.
 
Half of the things you listed are things that most people don't do in their entire life. I know people who have been to over 50 countries by the time they were 15, and people who have only been to 1 or 2 on their whole lives. I know people who graduated college at 19 and people who never went to university or college. Judging life experience off things like this isn't fair or valid. Life experience can come in many shapes and forms and I don't think you have the right to say who has it and who doesn't, especially since you don't seem to have much of it yourself. You spend all day in a chatsite stirring up trouble for no reason and giving everyone a hard time. You have no right to judge anyone, let alone our fine admins of this site.
 
Half of the things you listed are things that most people don't do in their entire life. I know people who have been to over 50 countries by the time they were 15, and people who have only been to 1 or 2 on their whole lives. I know people who graduated college at 19 and people who never went to university or college. Judging life experience off things like this isn't fair or valid. Life experience can come in many shapes and forms and I don't think you have the right to say who has it and who doesn't, especially since you don't seem to have much of it yourself. You spend all day in a chatsite stirring up trouble for no reason and giving everyone a hard time. You have no right to judge anyone, let alone our fine admins of this site.
I am not going to respond. Because your experience and mine are different with the admins.
Just keep being a good mod.

But please stay on topic, I have admitted I derailed it.
 
Half of the things you listed are things that most people don't do in their entire life. I know people who have been to over 50 countries by the time they were 15, and people who have only been to 1 or 2 on their whole lives. I know people who graduated college at 19 and people who never went to university or college. Judging life experience off things like this isn't fair or valid. Life experience can come in many shapes and forms and I don't think you have the right to say who has it and who doesn't, especially since you don't seem to have much of it yourself. You spend all day in a chatsite stirring up trouble for no reason and giving everyone a hard time. You have no right to judge anyone, let alone our fine admins of this site.

they’re all things that @NavyEA-6B never done in his entire life either, which is also including but not limited to; enlisting in the navy or developing reading comprehension skills 🤷🏼‍♀️
 
Have a feeling OP needs to chill out and stop confusing between rooms; you can go to singles in case you don't like general, because as the name implies its "general" chat.
Perhaps they can change the name of singles to something else and remove the old fucks like screem and rapi who I've heard are way ahead of gen chat mods n admins in the way they have sucked all the life out of those chatrooms.
😆

@rapinoes smirking revenge

@Screem

@Moose
 

Goodfellas GIF
😝😝Sucked the life out of him ..13 ...The season finale of loki...​

 
So I think some derailment is in order. @FairyxStar_oOo The first super admin name was Dan. He went by Chatmaster. His wife was actually Administrator at that time Her name was Dahma. I am not sure what she did but I think she looked over the site when the husband was down. I am not sure when they stepped down.
 
I don't go in General because I do not agree with the morality (and questionable legality) of children chatting with adults. And I do no go to singles because I am not single.
Really, how much life experience can a 22 year old have other than a hard time growing up.
Has she traveled the world?
Has she lived in Italy or France?
Can she speak Italian?
At 22 does she have at least a Master or PhD?
Has she managed or lead over 1000 people at once?
Has she been responsible for the health and well being of the above number of people.
Has she worked with people injured from tragic injuries, given first aid on the side of the road with a mans cranial fractured and leaking
She maybe an intelligent person, but I'd bet money other than being an Admin her experience you get from living live does not come close to theDifference.

Please do not derail this chat from the Poll.



Yea I saw suggestion and responded.


Stop derailing you own Poll.

This is about wither it is wise or not to let Minors in a room with adults where they can go in and start a DM and the mods and or admins can not read it.

There all back as it should be.
But you moderated Adult Chat, a room where discussions regularly include incest, taboo topics, fetishes, and explicit sexual content. So it's difficult to understand the argument you're making now.

The whole time you've been talking about "life experience" and questioning what younger moderators could possibly know. Yet @RogueYeti7 has demonstrated far more maturity, composure, and professionalism in their responses than you've shown throughout this discussion.

Age and life experience do not automatically equal wisdom or maturity. Someone can be 80 years old and still behave immaturely. Likewise, someone much younger can approach a situation with patience, perspective, and respect.

What stands out here is that instead of addressing the actual issue, you continue to inject unrelated grievances and personal frustrations into the conversation, then attribute those motives to others. That doesn't strengthen your argument—it weakens it.
 
But you moderated Adult Chat, a room where discussions regularly include incest, taboo topics, fetishes, and explicit sexual content. So it's difficult to understand the argument you're making now.

The whole time you've been talking about "life experience" and questioning what younger moderators could possibly know. Yet @RogueYeti7 has demonstrated far more maturity, composure, and professionalism in their responses than you've shown throughout this discussion.

Age and life experience do not automatically equal wisdom or maturity. Someone can be 80 years old and still behave immaturely. Likewise, someone much younger can approach a situation with patience, perspective, and respect.

What stands out here is that instead of addressing the actual issue, you continue to inject unrelated grievances and personal frustrations into the conversation, then attribute those motives to others. That doesn't strengthen your argument—it weakens it.
My grievance is this. Plan and simple, Children should bot be allowed in a room that Adults chat in. Period.
You are asking for degenerates to come in troll, and groom young victims.
I have an issue with an Admin that finds this as acceptable. And those that defend the admin.

The pole stand until its time is up.
It already shows people that have the courage to disagree are more than the ones that agree.
Shocking no wants to vote, The admin has stated she disagree.

As for Ban active, you can always just stop posting in here.
 
I have an issue with an Admin that finds this as acceptable.
Me telling you that adults and minors are allowed to communicate with one another in General Chat is not the same as whatever you’re reaching to claim.

If you have a problem with the ages being mixed, DM Chatmaster about it.

My personal opinion in all of this is irrelevant and bears no weight to the fact that I do not create the room ages.
 
I did not accuse you of it in any way shape or former, It is a poll to see what the users think.
I have DM'd him, among other people.
You may vote as you please.
 
I did not accuse you of it in any way shape or former, It is a poll to see what the users think.
I have DM'd him, among other people.
You may vote as you please.
Stop beating around it, you are 100% implying it with every single one of your threads, polls and comments on the subject. Saying it without saying it.
 
If I say the information I have collected I will be banned. You know that as well as I do.
They will call it Doxxing,
And I am sorry Drock, I do not trust one staff member at this point, so many keep flip flopping it is insane.
 
If I say the information I have collected I will be banned. You know that as well as I do.
They will call it Doxxing,
And I am sorry Drock, I do not trust one staff member at this point, so many keep flip flopping it is insane.
All irrelevant. If it was, you wouldnt still be making your sly posts and comments. Send it all privately if it matters, otherwise, go find someone who you do trust and will do something, and actually do something.

The issue now, your credibility. You are bias and making this more of a personal attack than actually advocating for the removal of a 13-99 chat room. Do you know why this is valid? Because you are targeting General Chat and Leigh directly instead of including other chat rooms that have the same age range. You dont care about this as much as you are projecting, atleast that is how its being perceived.

If you actually care about this matter, are you in front of your local council advocating for split adult and children public washrooms? Because based on all of your conclusions and points, Adults and UA18 should not interact, period.

Be consistent, fight for what you beleive in, but do it honestly and separate your personal issues with the cause.
 
Why do you think I posted a Poll. And how do you keep under 18 from chatting in DM's ... please enlighten me. Because as a former Mod I know you can not unless one of the reports it.

You are treating 13 year olds as if they have the maturity to make adult choices, they don't they are walking Hormones.
If I decide to act on the information I have been able to find, a staff member will be the last person I tell.

You can not state what I have learned with out being banned and additionally, why would I want support, when I post a valid poll I have an admin come in and accuse me of blaming her. I never mentioned her.
 
2150 users on line 10 Users 2140 guests, you think the guest are guest because they feel protected from what they do. Because that is the majority reason they stay guests
 
when I post a valid poll I have an admin come in and accuse me of blaming her. I never mentioned her.
The poll it titled General Chat.
I have an issue with an Admin that finds this as acceptable. And those that defend the admin.
You reference the Admin directly, thats Leigh. Stop lying. Stop fabricating quotes or conclusions. Stop talking in just enough ambiguity that you think it gives you some deniability... This isnt Law and Order, we know exactly what you are saying and we can take it at face value and we are going to clap back because you are so far off side, you cant even see the line even if you took your rose colored glasses of.

Its time to full stop.
 
GFYS I did not accuse her of anything. Forget the leap of fiath message you just proved how you act.
I literally quoted the posts you made that 100% accuse her of supporting it. Why cant you just come by this honestly?

I am not letting you drag my Admin through the mud that you are throwing down, thats how Im acting and I am 100% ok with you having issue with it.

You dont need a leap of faith, you need a leap of respect.
 
If I did It was not my attention, but when I am kicked over and over for trying bring attention to an issue I may have. Honestly I have no clue if I did.
Respect is Earned. Something you should know
 
I am not bitter, I do not want to be staff. I am trying to see what the ratio of 13+ okay is to not okay.
But you live your fantasy.
 
Actually, I'm on desktop. I took the screenshot off my mobile and uploaded on that. I'll snip from my desktop and post it.

poll.webp
 
Please just let V do the polls- this one doesn't even make sense.
We clearly need to leave the polls to @babydolla

new official / original poll incoming; 🙋🏼‍♀️


what is ur credit score, @NavyEA-6B??? 🤨
 
If I say the information I have collected I will be banned. You know that as well as I do.
They will call it Doxxing,
And I am sorry Drock, I do not trust one staff member at this point, so many keep flip flopping it is insane.
You sound like youre playing a bad game of Poker and I dont even know how to play it, I just know it relies on deception to win, when you havent a good hand.

You have no information, if you did, youd share it. Youre doing this as a direct response to you being fired as a mod and then banned on the forums.

I dont speak for any of the mods or the ADMIN of Gen, but I can in this instance as I know this to be true : None of them agree with the age in Gen Chat. However, speaking out of such thing, would possibly get them fired. Them being fired would make the room less safe, especially if theyve been a mod for over a year, and understand the usual suspects.
 
You sound like youre playing a bad game of Poker and I dont even know how to play it, I just know it relies on deception to win, when you havent a good hand.

You have no information, if you did, youd share it. Youre doing this as a direct response to you being fired as a mod and then banned on the forums.

I dont speak for any of the mods or the ADMIN of Gen, but I can in this instance as I know this to be true : None of them agree with the age in Gen Chat. However, speaking out of such thing, would possibly get them fired. Them being fired would not make the room less safe, especially if theyve been a mod for over a year.
If you are not here to vote leave
 
Is that some kind of flex. You realize you are on the Internet right?
Stop derailing the poll or you will be reported
 
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