Got kicked for a confusing reason

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Catholic 22

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Username in the Room: Catholic 23
Which Room: Gay Chat Room
Complaining about a kick or a ban: Kick
Reason given for kick/ban: Pedo
How long was kick/ban: 2-hours
Why do you feel the kick/ban was not justified: First off, I am not a pedophile, and find anyone who hurts children to be disgusting. I stated two things when I came onto the chatroom, first I stated i would like to apologize to the people that i used to bully for being gay, this was to be a roleplay scenario. Second, I asked if there was anybody who had been abused by the church, again this was to be a roleplay scenario. Neither of these questions indicate me to be a pedophile or abuser of children, but a minute later I was removed from the room. I would also like to add that I have posted the same messages a number of times before, and no moderator has ever said anything, it just seems to be this one mod who keeps kicking me for absurd reasons.
Date and approximate time of kick/ban: May 12, 2022 at around 11:00 am EST
Do you know name of Moderator/Admin: No I do not, but I believe he was from the UK. Every time I come onto the room, this mod kicks me for being a pedo, even though I said nothing to even indicate that.

All I ask for is an explanation on how I can avoid this type of kick in the future, if I am saying something wrong, or doing something that could be taken as a pedo, please do let me know and I will stop, but most of the stuff I say is as roleplay.
 
A mod from the UK? @Inkandtatts, maybe you can field this one, good sir.

I am confused, though. In one breath, you insist you have stated these comments before and never been kicked for them, but then freely admit you’re kicked every time you enter the room.

My spidey-sense tells me there is much more to this story. @Inkandtatts and the other fantastic moderators in Gay Chat are less kick happy than you’d like to believe. (And if your messages in Main Chat are not, in your opinion, offensive, perhaps things you’re saying in private messages to others have been reported and cultivated for you a reputation of being… unsavoury.)
 
Supgad said:
A mod from the UK? @Inkandtatts, maybe you can field this one, good sir.

I am confused, though. In one breath, you insist you have stated these comments before and never been kicked for them, but then freely admit you’re kicked every time you enter the room.

My spidey-sense tells me there is much more to this story. @Inkandtatts and the other fantastic moderators in Gay Chat are less kick happy than you’d like to believe. (And if your messages in Main Chat are not, in your opinion, offensive, perhaps things you’re saying in private messages to others have been reported and cultivated for you a reputation of being… unsavoury.)
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Supgad, I only get kicked every time this moderator is on, which is rare, but I have never been kicked with any other moderator. Also, those two statements that I posted are not even close to kickable offenses, so I think this mod may have me confused with somebody else, or maybe it's because of my catholic name that he thinks i'm a priest which i'm not. The only reason I posted here is because I eventually explained the situation to another moderator, and he said that my messages seem pretty innocent, and that I should report the incident on here. Also, I did not even private message anyone, before I was kicked today, as I was kicked within 4 minutes of being on the site. Again, I want to resolve the situation and understand why this sole moderator keeps kicking me. Finally, I am unaware of why you are acting so defensive of the moderators, I clearly stated that 99% of the mods are great people who I have no issue with, but there seems to be one that continuously kicks me for being a pedo, even though I am not doing or saying anything to give that indiciation.
 
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@Chopper is the room’s Administrator. He’s from the UK, and he wouldn’t kick you for nonsense.

@Jackobeem is also from the UK, and again, he wouldn’t kick you for no justified reason.

@Inkandtatts is from the UK, and he’s quite active around this time of day. He wouldn’t apply a kick if you didn’t deserve it.

Perhaps @Lachlan60 has insight he can share? He’s also active this time of day, and he’s from the UK, too.

You should wait for one of them to respond. They can review your kick history, and shed greater insight into what’s causing you issues in the room. In my experience, though, people come in here and lament their kicks because of things they post in the Main Chat, only to have sordid particulars regarding their more clandestine activities aired for the public to see.

I presume you may be having odd conversations in private, which are being reported to the moderation staff, who can read your conversations once they’ve been reported and will remediate as necessary.

I also don’t know why a moderator would encourage you to come here and ask for clarification. More likely, the moderator would direct you to the appropriate staff member and have you sort this issue in private message. They have the information about who keeps kicking you at their fingertips, and a public thread is only likely to invite derision and embarrassment.

As an additional point: Moderators review a user’s kick history before they institute a remediation. It’s unlikely, in my opinion, you’d get mixed up with another user.
 
It was not Chooper, nor Jackobeem or Inkandtatts, I don't believe. I have interacted with the first two mods before, and have never had an issue, I have never interacted with inkandtatts, but am fairly sure that it was not him.

I have nothing to hide in terms of any private chats, and I look forward to a full review of this case, because I am curious for the reason that I was kicked. Supgad, the moderator who told me to come on here was Lachlan60, who is a great moderator btw, and once again you seem to have this presumption that I have something to be embarrassed about, I am telling you and all that will listen to me objectively that I did nothing wrong and I look forward to a full and extensive review of my kicking.
 
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I never said on the chatroom that I was seeking a roleplay. The roleplay was regarding the bullying, I was abused before, so I like to chat with people over the age of 18 who have suffered similar trauma because that is how you heal according to therapists.
 
All I’m saying is, wait to hear. Though, in my opinion, inviting chats from “people who were abused by the church,” which frankly is often (and almost universally) underaged children, in order to play out some roleplay fantasy you have seems to skirt dangerously close to paedophilic.

But this is why I find it odd you were encouraged to come to the forums rather than broach the issue with the moderator you claim habitually kicks you for no reason (Lachlan could have given you that information). I’m allowed to respond with my opinions because you posted a public thread, for all the forums to see.
 
Catholic 22 said:
I never said on the chatroom that I was seeking a roleplay. The roleplay was regarding the bullying, I was abused before, so I like to chat with people over the age of 18 who have suffered similar trauma because that is how you heal according to therapists.
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Ah. Recontextualising your comments now, as if the moderators are clairvoyant or should be able to divine you (allegedly) wanted to only “roleplay” child abuse.

Take the L, and do better.
 
Supgad said:
All I’m saying is, wait to hear. Though, in my opinion, inviting chats from “people who were abused by the church,” which frankly is often (and almost universally) underaged children, in order to play out some roleplay fantasy you have seems to skirt dangerously close to paedophilic.

But this is why I find it odd you were encouraged to come to the forums rather than broach the issue with the moderator you claim habitually kicks you for no reason (Lachlan could have given you that information). I’m allowed to respond with my opinions because you posted a public thread, for all the forums to see.
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I never said on the chatroom that I was seeking a roleplay. The roleplay was regarding the bullying, I was abused before, so I like to chat with people over the age of 18 who have suffered similar trauma because that is how you heal according to therapists. Also, if the moderator or anyone can provide one message of me interacting with anyone under the age of 18 in a sexual manner then I will shut up right now.
 
Supgad said:
All I’m saying is, wait to hear. Though, in my opinion, inviting chats from “people who were abused by the church,” which frankly is often (and almost universally) underaged children, in order to play out some roleplay fantasy you have seems to skirt dangerously close to paedophilic.

But this is why I find it odd you were encouraged to come to the forums rather than broach the issue with the moderator you claim habitually kicks you for no reason (Lachlan could have given you that information). I’m allowed to respond with my opinions because you posted a public thread, for all the forums to see.
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I advised him to come to the forum as i wasn't involved in the kick. The forum is here for this reason
 
Supgad said:
Ah. Recontextualising your comments now, as if the moderators are clairvoyant or should be able to divine you (allegedly) wanted to only “roleplay” child abuse.

Take the L, and maybe reimagine yourself as someone who doesn’t lust after children.
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What the hell are you talking about? you literally are accusing someone of a pedo, but have zero evidence of anything. Please just provide me one example, just one is all I can ask for. Why did I state that I wanted to roleplay child abuse, and once again when did I ever chat in a sexual manner with anyone under the age of 18?
 
Catholic 22 said:
Second, I asked if there was anybody who had been abused by the church, again this was to be a roleplay scenario.
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Catholic 22 said:
I never said on the chatroom that I was seeking a roleplay. The roleplay was regarding the bullying.
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Moderators can’t read your mind. Further, wanting to roleplay about people who were abused by the church is tantamount to asking for underaged children, you mongoloid.

EDIT: Or at least that you want to talk about or roleplay about abusing children.
 
Lachlan60 said:
I advised him to come to the forum as i wasn't involved in the kick. The forum is here for this reason
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Once again, I am asking everyone on this forum a very simple question, please show one example of me interacting with someone under the age of 18 in a sexual manner on this site. If you can fail to do so within the next 3 hours, then I will simply accept that this kick was completely unjustified.
 
Supgad said:
Moderators can’t read your mind. Further, wanting to roleplay about people who were abused by the church is tantamount to asking for underaged children, you mongoloid.
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My guy for the third time today, I was not roleplaying those who were abused. Second, i only speak regarding that topic with those over the age of 18. Third, I ask anyone over 18 who replies and says that they were abused, if they reported their abuser, if they say no, I offer to help them do so and explain that we can prevent anyone else from being hurt, because any piece of garbage that hurts children deserves to die in the pits of hell.

Finally, I am not asking moderators to read my mind, you are the one assuming my state of mind, even though I have repeatedly stated that the roleplay scenario was regarding the bullying not the abuse, but you refuse to read carefully.
 
Catholic 22 said:
Once again, I am asking everyone on this forum a very simple question, please show one example of me interacting with someone under the age of 18 in a sexual manner on this site. If you can fail to do so within the next 3 hours, then I will simply accept that this kick was completely unjustified.
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I think @Inkandtatts would be best to deal with this. Saves any confusion
 
Catholic 22 said:
My guy for the third time today, I was not roleplaying those who were abused. Second, i only speak regarding that topic with those over the age of 18. Third, I ask anyone over 18 who replies and says that they were abused, if they reported their abuser, if they say no, I offer to help them do so and explain that we can prevent anyone else from being hurt, because any piece of garbage that hurts children deserves to die in the pits of hell.
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YOU SAID IN YOUR OWN POST THE CHURCH ABUSE WAS INTENDED TO BE A ROLEPLAY SCENARIO.
 
Lachlan60 said:
I think @Inkandtatts would be best to deal with this. Saves any confusion
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Supgad said:
YOU SAID IN YOUR OWN POST THE CHURCH ABUSE WAS INTENDED TO BE A ROLEPLAY SCENARIO.
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I was referring to the bullying, sorry if my grammar and comma placement was not perfectly situated, but once again I ask where are the messages where i am supposedly being sexual with anyone under the age of 18, surely if I was a pedo, there would be messages like that, but yet i guarantee you that no moderator can produce or even find one.
 
Catholic 22 said:
I stated two things when I came onto the chatroom, first I stated i would like to apologize to the people that i used to bully for being gay, this was to be a roleplay scenario.
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Catholic 22 said:
Second, I asked if there was anybody who had been abused by the church, again this was to be a roleplay scenario.
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Not sure the issue is with a comma, my guy.

There may not be messages of you talking with an underaged person, but you’re on record, in the room and in here, soliciting conversations that center around and heavily feature child abuse, which isn’t permitted.
 
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