How do you find new girls?
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Tinder???
nicky diamonds
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you are insecure as hell with a porn or masturbation addiction yet feel entitled. basically you are less than a beta male but are way to lazy or stupid to do anything about it. You have options though.
1. get over it
2. continue to masturbate
3. talk to girls and get some self confidence (you fucking loser)
4. understand that girls want guys with confidence but girls have no confidence themselves so they will wait for you to make the move
One word: Charisma.
Many charismatic people can get what they want. To be charismatic you got to hone in your people skills: Be confident but not too confident; be proud but not aloof; be sociable but not creep; be jovial but not too sociopathic; and above all be interesting, alluring, and attractive, not boring, dull, and scared to take risks
ex-machina
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Yea like the others said dating apps help. and there are articles to stand out from other single men, but mostly it's just endless work and little reward. Get a dog they will love you. A woman will try and find another man the minute she's out of your sight.
So just go over to a girl and say that the girl has piqued my interest and ask if she wants a drink. If she says "no" is it okay to say "c'mon, this is only my fifth drink"?
CynicalOne
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Sorry to say this to you. But it is easier for girls to find people. Guys have a harder time finding girls. Let me explain why. Pregnancy has evolutionarily designed biological females to seek special males to create healthy offspring that will prevent humans from becoming extinct. It is why biological females are usually pickier than biological males when finding people for sex, dating, and marriage. It's why guys tend to get friendzoned or entirely rejected. Transgenderism and feminism have not reversed this harwired biology that biological females usually deal with. I believe in hard science rather than transgenderism, feminism, egalitarianism, culture, religion, etc. when it comes to understanding people on a more objective basis. Some girls are less picky than other ones when it comes to finding people for sex, dating, and marriage. But it's hard to find those girls. Just have to be persistent when finding the right girl for you.
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov
www.globaldatinginsights.com
Sex differences in sexual attraction for aesthetics, resources and personality across age
Because sexual attraction is a key driver of human mate choice and reproduction, we descriptively assess relative sex differences in the level of attraction individuals expect in the aesthetic, resource, and personality characteristics of potential mates. ...
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This Study Reveals How Men & Women Behave On Tinder - Global Dating Insights
A new study into Tinder looks at how both male and female users behave on the dating app, and how many swipes turn into matches. The research, led by Gareth Tyson from Queen Mary University in London, reveals how male and female users go about finding matches on Tinder and what they look for...
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Girl power!
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Well uh this was odd to read thru, best advice is to like not talk to girls with the intention of dating them, but rather just be friends with girls cuz like we r just normal people 💀 and from there it may blossom into something mor or not just let things happen naturally dont force it, the only relationships that will last r those that come from friendships, not the relationships that happen when random strangers meet up
I generally just sit still and let them come to me, oddly enough Im single. Might not be the best approach?
On a serious note. Just get into a social setting, be yourself, be confident but dont give and overwhelming presence. Eye contact, show interest in what she had to say, and of course dont just look for that one thing.
If a social setting isnt your thing, dating apps and such are always a thing. Get to know the person there and then take it to a social setting even. Of course with that always be safe!
Whether the first one works out or not, thats doesnt mean you failed if it didnt. Its true what they say, plenty of fish in the sea, so keep looking!
On a serious note. Just get into a social setting, be yourself, be confident but dont give and overwhelming presence. Eye contact, show interest in what she had to say, and of course dont just look for that one thing.
If a social setting isnt your thing, dating apps and such are always a thing. Get to know the person there and then take it to a social setting even. Of course with that always be safe!
Whether the first one works out or not, thats doesnt mean you failed if it didnt. Its true what they say, plenty of fish in the sea, so keep looking!
That is probably not the best solution, advice, or outcome. Very seldom relationships blossom from friendships. Also life is short to pine over someone hoping they'd make a move, especially if he/she is a friend. Sometimes meeting a stranger of the opposite sex (or same sex if one is that way inclined) can change ones life for the better.
They should bring back the good old Desperate and Dateless ball. You might or might not find someone, but it does get on out of the house.I generally just sit still and let them come to me, oddly enough Im single. Might not be the best approach?
On a serious note. Just get into a social setting, be yourself, be confident but dont give and overwhelming presence. Eye contact, show interest in what she had to say, and of course dont just look for that one thing.
If a social setting isnt your thing, dating apps and such are always a thing. Get to know the person there and then take it to a social setting even. Of course with that always be safe!
Whether the first one works out or not, thats doesnt mean you failed if it didnt. Its true what they say, plenty of fish in the sea, so keep looking!
Also speed dating is a good place to find someone, but introverts will find it harder to get a conversation in the time frame available.
Girl power!
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its better to just sit there on ur boat patiently, for a high quality fish to show up, then to just take a giant net and pick up all the trash in the sea
Girl power!
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from my expirience, and the expirience of those around me, that is usually what happens. u make friends with someone, ask them if they are interested, if not, move on. the thing with just meeting strangers is like that may end up blossoming into something but like its also what leads people into the unhappy marriages we hav here in america, because the bond u may hav with a stranger is mor likely just the fear of being alone rather than lov
GamerGirlTwitch
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Put a finger in ur ass and yodel and one will come to you
GamerGirlTwitch
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I mean no shocked ur single you got the face of a chimpanzee with the jaws of a man creating putin like propaganda about people 😂 ull be alone for lifeI generally just sit still and let them come to me, oddly enough Im single. Might not be the best approach?
On a serious note. Just get into a social setting, be yourself, be confident but dont give and overwhelming presence. Eye contact, show interest in what she had to say, and of course dont just look for that one thing.
If a social setting isnt your thing, dating apps and such are always a thing. Get to know the person there and then take it to a social setting even. Of course with that always be safe!
Whether the first one works out or not, thats doesnt mean you failed if it didnt. Its true what they say, plenty of fish in the sea, so keep looking!
I indeed do own several boats, 15 in fact, so Ill try both methods and see what happens 😜