Bigeagle458
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I am a 53 year old bi white male. I have been slowly coming out of the closet to select friends. What is the best way to totally come out.
^ I second this.A lot of it is situation dependent and there's never a one-size fits all approach that works for everyone. I think if you're comfortable doing it with select friends first, that's great. But just know, you'll be coming out for the rest of your life. To everyone you meet. It's just the way it is. I've been coming out for 20 effin' years already. People who don't know me still think I'm straight at times when they meet me. The joys of living femme.
However, to your bread and butter people, I always say go by feel. If a full on coming out party works for you - do it (safely of course). If you want to go one by one, do it that way. Just don't go too far too fast.
I wish you all the best in your journey!
If you are in the closet you have been suppressing your mind and body as you can't start being you on till you walk out from it shadow no longer should you hide in it dark over cast on you, to be honest I don't know why people turn to the closet as it offers nothing positive to your situation I think its wrong to hide or suppress the way you feel inside and you want that inside to come out to the world and start being you as you are ment to be and never let anyone tell you any different you have nothing to be ashamed of there is nothing dirty or taboo in the way you want to live your life, so many young people died because they thought there was something wrong with them why do I think the way I do why can't I be normal you are normal and you think that way because you are gay or what ever the case is don't let dese new feelings cloud your mind with negative thoughts you are changing and become the person you are ment to be and the closet is a door you don't want to open, be you and your family will love you no matter what you are trust me on less they are total wsnkers than you are better off away from them in that kind of environment and you won't figure it all out in a day it will take time be easy on your self enjoy your new feeling inbrase them they are going to be with you for a good while
The right, or best, way to come out doesn’t exist. It’s individual and completely dependent on your personal situation and environment. As long to make sure you’re safe and don’t put yourself at risk/danger ánd are ready to come out, just go with the thing you feel most comfortable with. The way you come out is not gonna change how people see you or if they will end up accepting you or not.I am a 53 year old bi white male. I have been slowly coming out of the closet to select friends. What is the best way to totally come out.
film yourself having sex with another male and send it to everyone you know as a christmas card. make sure you are the bottom and you are looking into the camera with a sad face the whole time.I am a 53 year old bi white male. I have been slowly coming out of the closet to select friends. What is the best way to totally come out.
not everyone but it did some i think? dude had a porn addiction but it was gay porn and his female girlfriend found out and well he just pulled the pin on the grenade. her and him are still friends to this day so all is well that ends well?That's one way to leave a mental scar on everyone for their entire life.
I learn something new every day.I'm bi, still not out yet. I don't come out and say "Hey everyone I like dudes!" But it certainly isn't a secret anymore lol.
From 53yo to 53yo....There is no BEST way to come out. Everyones experience is as dynamic as the relationships they form with the people around them, their roles in society etc etc etc.I am a 53 year old bi white male. I have been slowly coming out of the closet to select friends. What is the best way to totally come out.
If I am asked, I am honest, but I don't feel obligated to volunteer the information to anyone not because I feel I might be judged, but because I believe it is not the most important part of me that I think people need to know about me.
You’d be surprised how many people say they already know.im gay, but havent told anyone yet. bcos rlly there is really no need to in my life personally. also got no idea if my friends r homophobic
The best way is to totally come out in all honesty. You're older so you may have a different view on how society sees it, but us who welcome you and have no problem with it, love it.I am a 53 year old bi white male. I have been slowly coming out of the closet to select friends. What is the best way to totally come out.
<3 at your age, it's a problem with homophobia and it's something that society needs to evolve with.im gay, but havent told anyone yet. bcos rlly there is really no need to in my life personally. also got no idea if my friends r homophobic
If anyone can fix it it’s bob the builder 🥰<3 at your age, it's a problem with homophobia and it's something that society needs to evolve with.