I am gay, but is my crush gay? I hope so

ILoveZed

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So there was this one time when me and my friends went out. We went to the local park and just stayed there talking and looking through facebook memes, cuz sometimes we do it. So I was sitting on one of the benches and next to me was a girl who is also my friend, but just a friend, nothing more. And behind us were the others. My crush was standing right behind me and his **** was pretty close to my face so I decided to put my hand on the backrest of the bench just because there is a chance for me to touch his **** accidentaly which will be really hot. Btw my friends dont know that I am gay, at least I have not told them. So I put my hand there and my crush litteraly started rubbing his butt cheek against my hand, but he was doing it slowly just so the other ones didnt notice i guess. He was doing it for quite a long time and then he and the other boys went to play football. I looked of he had a *****, but it was dark and i could hardly see anything. Also I noticed while he was rubbing his butt against my hand he was breathing really heavily. I dont know why, but maybe he just normaly breaths heavily. So what do you think? Is he gay? What should I do? Should I try getting him turned on or something else?
 
Although it's 2021, there is an unfortunate stigma about being part of the LGBTQ+ Community/Family. Chances are he is probably either in the closet or he's at the very least (from your post) bi-curious. It's a little daunting to ask someone out because of our natural fear of rejection, but that same fear makes us stronger. In this situation I, personally, would find an excuse to get him alone and talk to him. He may be receptive, he may not. You'll never know if you don't go for it. Also, you'll kick yourself if he ends up with some other guy and you miss out.
#YouLoveWhoYouLove
 
To ***** and Dylan who left the giggling smiley face this is serious. There was an instance on I think the Jenny Jones show where a guy wanted to surprise his friend and announced to the world that he was in love with him. It did not go well as I think a month or so later the friend who was surprised on the show with the announcement did murder the other person. Things will not always be that extreme but never assume.
 
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