If You Could Turn Back Time, What Would You Change?

How I value my self worth when it comes to relationships with people. Putting up with less than I'm worth has been detrimental but it's fixable.
 
I would have never lit a cigarette.Im a stage four cancer survivor because of my own stupidity.I lost my voice,my taste,my smell after having a total tracheotomy and losing dozens of sense controlling lymph nodes.
Im still not sure why they call it"Surviving"....
 
themauler said:
dwelling is sometimes a good thing to do but i have no regrets where im at now ,I was just thinking too much like i always do 😱k::lol: :hmm: hugs you and leaves a cookie.. slams the door :hmm: 🙂
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Stills ur damn plate of cookies & hugs u bk 😱k: steals ur door also :lol: & yea dwellin is a good thing 😀
 
I wouldn't change anything because you don't know what kinds of things that would change about your future and I don't want to potentially mess up my future
 
That moment when I decided to go to nursing school instead of England...
I know it's best I focus on education, but a part of me so wants to know what would have happened if I just went for it.​
 
There are always things in life we wish were different or better but I look at the things I have not the things I don't, and I am so grateful for so many things. Changing the smallest of things in the past could have a huge effect on what my life would be like right now and I just wouldn't want to risk it.
There's no point in dwelling on the things you can't change, you just need to accept them and make sure you change the things you can.
 
I would have seen all the time I was wondering what 'my thing' was in life I was actually already doing it. God damn it, how did I not know it involved the friggen ocean! Duh.
 
I was going to say Friday night and the weird moment I fell down the stairs, twisting and spraining both ankles in some bizarre 'surrender to the world' moment however, I have been laughing ever since, even if it's been at rest. What a story.
 
Bright Spark said:
I was going to say Friday night and the weird moment I fell down the stairs, twisting and spraining both ankles in some bizarre 'surrender to the world' moment however, I have been laughing ever since, even if it's been at rest. What a story.
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I had those kind of "oh man did I just died?" moments....this post reminded me of such😀
 
I would not have screwed up so badly in school when I was 13 and just entering middle school. That year was a terrible year for me. Looking back on it, if I were in those shoes now, I could have breezed through that year and my father would have stayed in Hawaii and I could have done so well in high school and gone straight off to college etc instead of making the heaps and heaps of mistakes I made. I'd explain further but I think I've answered the main question anyway.
 
I could have stopped myself regreting everything

I could have stopped myself regreting everything

I still don't get it why I got dumber in high school and ended up in an unknown college.
Regrets never left me.
 
Yesterday morning when I accidentally repeated a message in the Adult Chat room here and was banned for spamming, now I have a lonely Saturday evening in prospect...
 
I wouldnt have been such a dork and pushed away the one person that meant so much to me and let something great turn into a memory :banghead:
 
I'd go to a rent-all shop and acquire a time-machine. Probably skip over the lame-?ss-shīte and revisit the awesome times of chillaxin with my homiez yO :lol:
 
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I wouldnt let myself go and be more healthy... But I know this now and need to work on myself 🙂
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Probably my middle school/high school years. I wouldn't have been such a slacker or a wagon jumper . >_> but that's being a kid for ya, I guess.

I think alot of us wish that what we know now....we wish we knew as kids, then we would have avoided some mistakes or so. But in reality, we live & learn and we wouldn't be the very same people we are today if we didn't go through some of those experiences we went through as kids.

Also, there's some of those who are in their 30s, 40s and 50s...who still don't learn. :lol: Maturity comes w/ experience, not w/ age.
 
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I am sitting here thinking of that 1st day we met over 15 years ago and we both seem to just be drawn in to each other. We started a friendship that turned into a romance and blossomed into something so magical that i cant even put into words. What i want to say is Thank you for every memory we shared, Thank you for all the love we shared, We use to chat on yahoo for hours on end and i recall when we 1st used a mic 😉 😏 you always had a way to make this bear howl :sly: But in all seriousness i have to say you touched my heart in a way no other woman will ever do and for that i will love you always.. Amy you were the best and you will be truly missed. So if i could go back in time i would have made you healthy and i would'nt be sad today 🙁 I miss my best friend :reallysad:
 
I would change the world!!!! Muahahahahaha... Not really... I dunno if I answered this or not.... But I'd change all my life... I'd be a star! and on the moon! making porn with a rocket ship screaming out how much I hate it... Yet love it... Running around in a diaper on Jupiter... YES! I know you're out there... I'm watching you... You're afraid of change... 😛aranoid: Then people are gunna be likie don't go near that guy he's a lil :screwy:
 
I would have gone back before you were born and tell god not to make you be born sick so you could have been with us today 🙁
 
If I could go back just a couple of minutes I would avoid seeing the name of this thread because damn it now that stupid Cher song is going to be playing in my head all day.
 
Some of you are so very sad. Reviving this thread reminded me of the disconsolate tales by Mauler and others of love and relationship lost. The thing is what happens is meant to be. There are times I would not want to relive but even those are part of the fabric of my life. I would not change a thing, to want to change anything is basically pointless, because you cannot change, you will never go back in time. And Moon Wolf ah that is a name I remember, sad sad people. You are alive is that not enough?


Well some of you that is.
 
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I would of banged more women in highschool. Other than that I don't have many regrets. Still chasing my dreams/goals.
 
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I would kneel down and howl at the moon to go back and cure your illness to bring you back to all the people that loved you especially me ...
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Back when i was 21 i had a g/f that i was in love with and i never told her. I wish i would have told her that i loved her! I was her first serious b/f so she told me. She dumped me because she thought i was messing around on her because one of her brothers friends told her that. I wasn't at all he just wanted her for himself. When she told me why she was breaking up with me i just said no that is BS i was not cheating on you. She just said i don't know what to believe i need some time to think and i let it go at that. Neither of us said anything more about it. A few years later we started talking again as just friends but, never got back together again. I am still kicking myself in the ass for it today. Now she is married with 3 kids.
 
I’d probably ask my parents if they knew what condoms were. If they said yes I’d proceed to ask why the actual f they never used one.
 
~+~ Moon Wolf ~+~ said:
I would change sum of the decisions i had made in my life, so that it would have made a better difference in my life and the lives of my kids 🆗
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That's is a unfair ethical question. Because most people would do it for there own self indulgence for greed and power but I will give my best try to answer this question in a non- selflessness way there's a lot of things that happened or I have done intentionally or non-intentionally that I would give one of my favorite arm or leg, finger or one of my 6 census to go back in time to change but I am going to answer this outside the box there's so much going on everywhere around the world famine, war a differents in religious beliefs or politics or environmental resources so I'm not looking out for myself when I answer this and you just can't change one thing that I mentioned that's unfair. But if I could go back and change something I'm not a big religious person anymore but I believe in living a good life in my late 20s I started believing more in myself living on the good side of karma and not trying to buy my way into heaven but I'd go straight back to the beginning and stop the first sin from happening and if I made that happen I would hope to think that would change everything and everyone could live in peace Harmony no hatred,sin and the millions of people could live as one I know I sound far fetched but if I could go back in time that's what I would change
 
Justin Case said:
That's is a unfair ethical question. Because most people would do it for there own self indulgence for greed and power but I will give my best try to answer this question in a non- selflessness way there's a lot of things that happened or I have done intentionally or non-intentionally that I would give one of my favorite arm or leg, finger or one of my 6 census to go back in time to change but I am going to answer this outside the box there's so much going on everywhere around the world famine, war a differents in religious beliefs or politics or environmental resources so I'm not looking out for myself when I answer this and you just can't change one thing that I mentioned that's unfair. But if I could go back and change something I'm not a big religious person anymore but I believe in living a good life in my late 20s I started believing more in myself living on the good side of karma and not trying to buy my way into heaven but I'd go straight back to the beginning and stop the first sin from happening and if I made that happen I would hope to think that would change everything and everyone could live in peace Harmony no hatred,sin and the millions of people could live as one I know I sound far fetched but if I could go back in time that's what I would change
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Thank you for sharing your feelings and thoughts. I appreciate your honesty.
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Mature50gaytop said:
Thank you for sharing your feelings and thoughts. I appreciate your honesty.
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Thanks nice to say too someone and definitely nice to hear but if you would read some of my other stuff you just might say something drastically different to me but it's all in good taste (I think) and the main thing if I can put a smile on someone face or make them curse under their breath which they wanted to do in the first place I know I have just helped them along by making them say it. That means I know I'm doing my little part in making a difference stay happy healthy and safe
 
Magdalina said:
Your comments always make me burst out laughing! But in your predicament, maybe it is advisable to wear a diaper.
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splat said:
I would go back and put on underwear before i went to the Tequila tasting festival and chilli cookoff 😬
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splat said:
I would go back and put on underwear before i went to the Tequila tasting festival and chilli cookoff 😬
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Yo, I most definitely have to give you props on that you had me snickering on and off all day thinking about it and I have say as well I really wouldn't mind hanging out with you before going to that chilli festival maybe we could coax Magdaline to come with us it would make for a very unforgettable day or weekend the reason I say weekend because it would take me a day of walking around trying to help you to find were you last had them on
 
Justin Case said:
A great magician never reveals his secrets So compare your reaction points and trophy points to mine hey listen and read more of my stuff and tell me if I'm smoke and mirrors it's more like rubber bands and shoe strings holding my character together
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Points? Mate, I haven’t logged in over 8 years. Do one.
 
No, I was just wondering why on earth these so called points would be mentioned in your post; that’s all.

Smoke and Mirrors is all well and good… if you believe it. But that’s not my intention; just my own opinion.
 
Luka said:
No, I was just wondering why on earth these so called points would be mentioned in your post; that’s all.

Smoke and Mirrors is all well and good… if you believe it. But that’s not my intention; just my own opinion.
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Personally I don't think the points should even be on this site I think it's childish I don't need points to let me know how good I am you get into music and if so what type if you don't mind me asking
 

Justin Case said:
Thanks nice to say too someone and definitely nice to hear but if you would read some of my other stuff you just might say something drastically different to me but it's all in good taste (I think) and the main thing if I can put a smile on someone face or make them curse under their breath which they wanted to do in the first place I know I have just helped them along by making them say it. That means I know I'm doing my little part in making a difference stay happy healthy and safe
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Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder similar to the way ones perception is to the world. I guess it's the way the human brain process thought. I thank you for your kind words you also stay happy healthy and safe. Peace out.
 
Mature50gaytop said:


Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder similar to the way ones perception is to the world. I guess it's the way the human brain process thought. I thank you for your kind words you also stay happy healthy and safe. Peace out.
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Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder a fool's paradise is a wise man's hell
 
Mature50gaytop said:


Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder similar to the way ones perception is to the world. I guess it's the way the human brain process thought. I thank you for your kind words you also stay happy healthy and safe. Peace out.
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Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder a fool's paradise is a wise man's hell
Soapie said:
id go back like 10 minutes and not eat as many donuts 🤢
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That's funny you not looking for much some people are greedy
 
Soapie said:
Tis my place of birth. It would be unfaithful not to think about it
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Nice kind of like Rob the dead they don't feel a thing save the living for another day but it gets pretty cold down there at times I know because I have a room there . But I called heaven's basement
 
Justin Case said:
Nice kind of like Rob the dead they don't feel a thing save the living for another day but it gets pretty cold down there at times I know because I have a room there . But I called heaven's basement
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Thanks but if you are ever interested can I turn you on to some music I think you just might like
 
Mature50gaytop said:
Sony and Cher would have another name
For the baby JUSTIN CASE.
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Yeah that's my escape name I also use Iggy Lowindsky4 but everyone calls me LD and If someone ask me what LD stands for I just look at them and say learning disability but at my job there's 4 some days 5 Dave's and what it really comes down to I'm the shortest one out of them I guess you can figure it out then
 
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