awwww!! the disagreement was with me, and as a lesbian I do not find it offensive, it's a commonly used abbreviation of lesbian. Clearly many have different opinions on this term, the context was that someone had written in their profile that they do not wish to hear from lesbos - shrug!! it's not something I'd spend more than 2 seconds thinking about. The fact that you were so upset that I disagreed with you on a term that describes my community and not yours to the point that you made a poll is ridiculous. Have fun voting people