It frustrates me that I want a boyfriend but I probably can't get one?

Justin Case said:
Sorry to say he doesn't seem to be a very nice guy I lived much of my life as a pessimist never getting my hopes up mostly because I don't like to be disappointed and it gave me fake help getting thew some situation but it puts stress on your body, mind,and soul that's not needed I listened to someone for the first time in my life and what they said to me was profounding they said if you surround yourself with good and positive people you start acting that way you're self but being around negative people that are Downer's with no ambition or drive they bring you along with them for the ride but stay positive it's hard to do but it does help I'm reading a book right now that you might be interested in would you like to title
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This is about me being frustra able to get one.ted about me wanting a boyfriend but probably not being
 
I think it will you know why? Because it gives you ideas or tool's on thinking differently and positively and if your fixated on trying to make something not happening or happening in your life that's not good just sometimes letting something run it course is the best thing you can do for your body,mind and soul. It's a healthier Way to live your life because wanting something so badly can affect you in ways you might not see or notice I'm no psychologist but that leads to depression, mood swings etc. And possibly affect the people in your life you care about the most and when that happens it's a problem and nobody needs to bring stress into their life. Just everyday life is stressful and why bring more on top of a already heavy load and when you do find or maybe that person might find you and Cupid 💘 starts shooting he's arrows and it becomes a real life fairy tale story find yourself one day telling your grandchildren on how you and grandpa meet. I'm not saying that book will do all that. But you need a toolbox because different situations in life need a different tool to handle,or cope with and that mean in life you will be always be picking up tools (learning) so as said if a situation happens you can always reach down into the toolbox and have something that you can use that can either fix or help you. I'm just saying I have really big tool box that means I'm learning something everyday so look you have a wonderful night and till next time stay happy healthy and safe and I'm going to throw one more in there and strong
 
Justin Case said:
I think it will you know why? Because it gives you ideas or tool's on thinking differently and positively and if your fixated on trying to make something not happening or happening in your life that's not good just sometimes letting something run it course is the best thing you can do for your body,mind and soul. It's a healthier Way to live your life because wanting something so badly can affect you in ways you might not see or notice I'm no psychologist but that leads to depression, mood swings etc. And possibly affect the people in your life you care about the most and when that happens it's a problem and nobody needs to bring stress into their life. Just everyday life is stressful and why bring more on top of a already heavy load and when you do find or maybe that person might find you and Cupid 💘 starts shooting he's arrows and it becomes a real life fairy tale story find yourself one day telling your grandchildren on how you and grandpa meet. I'm not saying that book will do all that. But you need a toolbox because different situations in life need a different tool to handle,or cope with and that mean in life you will be always be picking up tools (learning) so as said if a situation happens you can always reach down into the toolbox and have something that you can use that can either fix or help you. I'm just saying I have really big tool box that means I'm learning something everyday so look you have a wonderful night and till next time stay happy healthy and safe and I'm going to throw one more in there and strong
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If this won't work then I will be mad.
 
Just some things to consider here :

Is what you have been doing...getting you what you want...?
If not , try something different.

What you want , may be different that what you need.

As for specifics on how to get a boyfriend...
The time honored :
Is there some activity you do and enjoy , which brings you into contact with someone you are interested in...?
If so , maybe ask someone there for a date.
Not saying a romantic date....Just some time for you and him to be together and get to know each other better.

Go slow....friends first , then romantic partners is , as a general rule also good to follow.
Andy
 

”Those who are not looking for happiness are the most likely to find it because those who are searching forget that the surest way to be happy is to seek happiness for others.”​


How do you define happiness? How can you achieve it? These are big-picture questions that can prompt you to re-think everything from your attitudes to your habits, the quickest path to happiness is to make someone else happy. The world would probably be a much better place if we all believed this.
 

“Whatever affects one directly, affects all indirectly. I can never be what I ought to be until you are what you ought to be. This is the interrelated structure of reality.”​

Relationships are a two-way street. If you aren’t thriving, your partner can’t succeed either. The reverse is also true: If your partner is struggling, their struggles are going to have ripple effects on you. If you want to build a happy, healthy relationship, both parties need to commit to that goal wholeheartedly.
 
It is frustrating to want something and be bad at getting it. I realized that the reason I date so little is because I mistake flirting for kindness. 🤷🏼‍♀️
 
sincerus said:
It is frustrating to want something and be bad at getting it. I realized that the reason I date so little is because I mistake flirting for kindness. 🤷🏼‍♀️
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Hard same. I think everyone has mistaken both for the other at some point in their dating lives. Done it plenty and probably still do it.

It’s harder nowadays I find. People are so used to having technology to do the work for them, so to speak. Then when it comes to crunch time of meeting, we are all guilty of bailing or making an excuse not to go. To err is human.
I also see that as a learning curve. Got to be happy with yourself though first and foremost and don’t settle for less; but also never offer/give more than what you’re comfortable with.
 
i wish someone flirted or was kind to me x
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Offer yer love and you’ll get one hail , behave all constipated and you’ll never get a man but a minger!
 
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