" unfortunately the role has been offered to two other people which are now abusing their positions using bullying tactics to verification which has run off alot of people off there in the last two weeks as well as humiliation after verifing these members and throwing insults about them in the main room for lesbian chat avenue this abuse and behaviour would never be given by myself respect should be given both ways"
First of all Rache, these accusations aren't even half of the truth. Of course it will be biased towards you because you are the one complaining. Yes, I am a new moderator and so is Tori, I admit that yes, any public international chat platforms are filled with obscene, inappropriate and underage users and that is why we have moderators. Whenever a moderator is online, do you not see the evident changes compared to when we are absent? We are only human and yes, there are times that some users overstep boundaries and post vulgar content that can last for a minute but we do our best to resolve the issue the best way we can. We are continuing to learn and we are open to constructive criticism and improvement but your accusations are too biased and now you are playing the victim. For you to drag me and Tori is something that I cannot just let go. You had an issue with one of the users which led to the debate of verification. You yourself are impatient, quick to anger, impulsive and you instigate fights left and right. When someone is having an argument with a friend of yours, you jump in and attack the user/s with overwhelming hostility and insensibility. Even when the person already stops replying to you, you keep on going. Now, the issue you have with verification is something that is totally blown out of proportion. We discussed theories on why people create multiple different accounts and pretends to be the person they are not. If you felt targeted with the discussion because you had some kind of empathetic connection with it then that is not anyone's problem. Your issue with one user is something you have deal with in the private messages. I personally messaged you with regards to the problem at hand because I wanted the problem to be resolved as soon as possible. I messaged you and explained why there is even a problem with your friend Nikki's verification. I told you that if you want this problem to be resolved then kindly ask your friend to verify with either me or China because I knew you trust China more. I personally asked you that she can even just write a certain name on a paper and take a photo and when she does then I will resolve this issue by informing the other users. That is the only issue you had. Now, you declined because you said that your "friend" did not trust anyone there and I understand that, even I don't trust everyone there but as a moderator who was trying to help you in getting rid of the problem, this is what you had to say? You yourself aren't even online most of the time that the moderators are there so your accusations are only based on what you have observed while you are occasionally online. I am truly astonished with your audacity to come in here and post utter bull**** about the moderators. We are not the perfect moderators yes, but we certainly are trying our best to make a change. Before you post false accusations for everyone to see, make sure you include the other side's actions and reasoning as well. I would genuinely appreciate it if you don't drag Tori and I again because you know that I will defend her and I. Tori has been nothing but kind and understanding to you and this is what you say behind her back? I am truly baffled. Resolve your personal issues with the other person (L) and try and deal with your anger in a better and healthier way. If you want to discuss this further then my doors are open for you and if not, then suit yourself.
