Hello there. It sounds like you're having issues with some of the ******** confusing you for someone else. One of the best ways to help solidify who you are is to register an account (and don't change your name if you have VIP). If you always log in with the same registered or VIP account with the same name, the same friends list, the same font, etc, you will be less likely to be mistaken for someone else. A good unique name will help too, because similar names are more likely to get confused with each other. Another tip is to put ******** who bother you on ignore. That way their messages won't appear and cause you unnecessary distress, and eventually they'll get tired of talking to / about someone that isn't responding. Best of luck.
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Dis girl a catfish
Damn we gonna have to teach you the youth abbreviations grandpa chops 🙂