Hear hear.
Although I’m out, it’s privileged to choose the community or the selected few. It all depends on the individual but you sound like me. Which is why the assumption is homophobia or non allies. Is that same for you? Just curious as rare to see someone with same opinion/thoughts.
i live in texas, i was born & raised here. homophobia, & *non-allies* are things that regardless of your sexuality...you're exposed to in some shape or form. its something you become desensitized to here, & just becomes a normal part of living in texas. they say only steers & queers come from texas, but this isnt new york or california or miami or france.
s0... i cant really say such things are truly a factor in regard to my *status* of being still some what in the closet, as ive put it.
no, its because of precisely of things like this very thread. homosexuality, all fine & dandy its geniunely okie to be gay. i dont struggle with being a lesbian, i embrace it, i luv girls & i wouldnt want it any other way. its because of lgb & the numerous nonsense that followes it. the gay community is no longer about being gay, its become yet another institution thats no longer used to protect the rights of individuals. but instead is now a warped verison of it's former self that is used to push a political agenda. woke culture has embedded itself deep into the roots of the community, & has become something that frankly is everything im against.
i simply refuse to be coaxed, or manipulated into being a political pawn. im a conservative, a registered republican despite being a lesbian. whats expected of me by my *fellow gays* is to have staunch liberal views that border on communist in nature. upon learning about my ideology, my views, my beliefs im attacked for it & im attacked by the very people i supposedly am part of the same community with.
to cut it short, they dont give a sh!t about you unless they want to get laid, or if you go along with their insane agenda.
i personally dont care, doesnt stop me from living my life, or make me resent being a lesbian. i just dont want to be apart of their fruity lil' club. my sexuality doesnt define me, my being an angel does.