Online love.

I was going to check san diego personals chats. I heard lots of great stuff about it. In general, I think love can be found everywhere, depends on what you're looking for on such platforms. I'm sure there are people who indeed look for love, others for a hookup or just to communicate. Nevertheless, it's worth trying.
 
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depends on how u do it. u can not find lov online if ur finding dates thru a service. dating as a service wont end up in lov just some wierd attraction. on the other hand if u just meet people naturally and after a long friendship yall fall in love that can work, and dating online is alot less risky because u dont hav to deal with the drama of breakups because u can just leave the internet, on the other hand u still hav to go to school or work if u break up and may hav to deal with whatever drama. also online dating u dont know what the other looks like so ur dating that person based on actual lov rather than attraction.
 
From personal experience, I 150% believe its possible. True love is more of a mental and emotional connection. What more do we have online than getting to know the person? Physical contact is important too of course, but online does provide a real chance in getting to know the soul behind the face. I met somebody online, we were just one step away from tanking the dive into marriage and possibly a family. She taught me a lot, and while it didnt work out its an experience Ill never forget and was enough for me to answer this question with a Yes 🙂
 
I think online love is possible if there's consistent messaging, camming, pictures, and trust. It's a combination of a lot of things, you don't want to get catfished.
 
Yes I think anything is possible. Now I’m older I can appreciate that more; we’ve all been “in love” according to a teenager at some point (or that’s still to happen- maybe not!)

I don’t really think there’s a sepecific way to describe love; it’s different for everyone and more than likely they’ll describe an aspect they never thought was once appealing to them in a partner, only to find it’s become one of the things they love most about them.

But yes.
 
Luka said:
Yes I think anything is possible. Now I’m older I can appreciate that more; we’ve all been “in love” according to a teenager at some point (or that’s still to happen- maybe not!)

I don’t really think there’s a sepecific way to describe love; it’s different for everyone and more than likely they’ll describe an aspect they never thought was once appealing to them in a partner, only to find it’s become one of the things they love most about them.

But yes.
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Boom, just wanted to post here to say ily dude and your awesome, also a bloody good moderator. Glad I fast tracked you to get hired, stay safe stay awesome and keep being you 🙂
 
I think love can be met everywhere. If you're using online dating sites, just be careful. Be patient to know a person better. I read many different stories. Sometimes they are happy ending, sometimes not. But don't be desperate. Your love is waiting for you somewhere.
 
MissMotive said:
I fell in love online. Right @Inkandtatts? Love you long time.
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Absolutely! ILYSM xx

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x18m said:
If you want to generalize a whole community AND in such a homophobic way, I guess you're the one that would benefit from having a father to teach you some decency
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Jamie just needs a good fk but is too scared to admit it. Do a Tom video Jamie and we’ll all forgive you - maybe.

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Luka said:
Yes I think anything is possible. Now I’m older I can appreciate that more; we’ve all been “in love” according to a teenager at some point (or that’s still to happen- maybe not!)

I don’t really think there’s a sepecific way to describe love; it’s different for everyone and more than likely they’ll describe an aspect they never thought was once appealing to them in a partner, only to find it’s become one of the things they love most about them.

But yes.
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Remember us? How we used to hold hands? How you’d call me pookie online and I called you Lukie Bukie? Then that witch came and took you away from me! You bastardeded Hahahaha. Boy disgruntled ex. Lukie Bukie!!
 
i mean love has a vast spectrum of meaning(s), but yeah you could. it won't be the same kind of love as you get from other "loves" but it's definitely something.
 
Baby Universal said:
Yes, absolutely 100%

BUT online love has also created some unrealistic expectations where people think the words on the screen translate in to real life, and real life doesn't work like that.
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Totally. It's absolutely legit to find love online, or on dating apps or whatever, but there is always disparity between what people type and what they mean and who they are in real life.

Online allows people to be what and who they want to be, and it's easy to get sucked into that, so I think people have to take some accountability when things don't work out exactly how they imagined.
 
It's much easier to get to know someone online because even the most reserved, private or shy of people can open up to you. What would take months for some to open up about can take days, providing you've found a genuine person.
 
ayyan said:
Do you think it's possible to find love online?
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There is nothing like online love. This term was made by humans, which has no meaning at all. If you think you fall in love with someone in the online world, that means you are just forcing yourself to love and you are single. If you want to love, do it, but not online because it's totally fake.
 
saymyname said:
There is nothing like online love. This term was made by humans, which has no meaning at all. If you think you fall in love with someone in the online world, that means you are just forcing yourself to love and you are single. If you want to love, do it, but not online because it's totally fake.
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There are two aspects I think:

1. Meeting someone online and then progressing to an IRL relationship which obviously is possible. @Chopper is living proof of that 🙂

2. Having a relationship that is carried online which, imo, can be similar to (1) but both parties need to be aware of its limitations and risks but what's the harm if both parties know what they're getting into?
 
Its possible tho there are times that you have to weave through men to find someone that is compatible with you. A matter of trial and error.
 
I found my gf over a year ago right in teen chat. Not the chat ave one but another one. We have been together like a year now and yeh we have had our ups and downs like any other relationship does but we are the type that finds a way to work thru it. We had our tiny little break ups at times but it didn't matter much because we still made it work. I think what made us realize we met 'fate' was because each of the break ups we hurt like a mother and decided to fix what we broke up for. We discussed it and worked on solutions instead of just saying fukk it and giving up. During those break ups my heart bled like hell and it was then I KNEW I had found the one... so my answer to this question would be a yes also.... it's all in w/e vibes yah get in the person ur interested in....
 
Soapie said:
You definitely can, but making it last is... Rare without some from of physical connection/ communication too (from personal experience and belief)

Of course it CAN last... but the physical connection adds ALOT
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I know it was hard for us without physical connectivity, Oy Soapie, i thought you the one.

I hope you and Patrick are happy. xo 😀

Forever and ever.
 
Jaidenf16mex said:
I found my gf over a year ago right in teen chat. Not the chat ave one but another one. We have been together like a year now and yeh we have had our ups and downs like any other relationship does but we are the type that finds a way to work thru it. We had our tiny little break ups at times but it didn't matter much because we still made it work. I think what made us realize we met 'fate' was because each of the break ups we hurt like a mother and decided to fix what we broke up for. We discussed it and worked on solutions instead of just saying fukk it and giving up. During those break ups my heart bled like hell and it was then I KNEW I had found the one... so my answer to this question would be a yes also.... it's all in w/e vibes yah get in the person ur interested in....
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Current situation 😭..yes, I feel you 💯.. ups and downs and still loving stronger.. hope you two make it to a most wonderful ending 🤗👍
 
Dovie said:
Current situation 😭..yes, I feel you 💯.. ups and downs and still loving stronger.. hope you two make it to a most wonderful ending 🤗👍
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I agree with you. I hope them the best too. You're so kind. Have a wonderful week. Be well and safe.
 
Jaidenf16mex said:
I found my gf over a year ago right in teen chat. Not the chat ave one but another one. We have been together like a year now and yeh we have had our ups and downs like any other relationship does but we are the type that finds a way to work thru it. We had our tiny little break ups at times but it didn't matter much because we still made it work. I think what made us realize we met 'fate' was because each of the break ups we hurt like a mother and decided to fix what we broke up for. We discussed it and worked on solutions instead of just saying fukk it and giving up. During those break ups my heart bled like hell and it was then I KNEW I had found the one... so my answer to this question would be a yes also.... it's all in w/e vibes yah get in the person ur interested in....
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Hope you and your girlfriend are doing well.
 
I totally get what you're saying about finding your girlfriend in a chat room. It's amazing how sometimes fate works in mysterious ways to bring two people together. My boyfriend and I actually met on a dating site called ***** At first, I was skeptical about the whole online dating thing, but after chatting with him for a while, I knew he was the one for me. We've also had our fair share of ups and downs, but like you guys, we always find a way to work through it. I think it's all about having that special connection and being willing to put in the effort to make it work. So yeah, I totally agree with you - it's all about the vibes you get from the person you're interested in.
 
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I think sometimes we forget that most interactions with other human beings is forced. For instance during our school years we socialised with others because we had to go to school, in the workplace we socialise with our colleagues because we contracted to work for so many hours per week. But none of these people who we have to be around are our "friends" per se. Over the years I have found that people come and go through life and constants are rare. It's those constants, the people we choose to socialise with over time who are our friends - whether it's in the real world or in the virtual world of the internet.

Granted the internet has many problems, I doubt most people cloaked behind the computer are who they really type they are. I am an open and friendly to most people but I count few as a friend. When I was a teen I knew I was a poof and there was a lot of anti-gay stuff at my school, it never bothered me in any way but I couldn't be open and talk about gay things with others, but when I came online and met other gay lads I felt more at ease with them and talking about similar likes and dislikes and over time I brought them into my real world.

So my point is yes online love is possible because when you meet another person with something in common you can build upon it regardless of whether it is in the real or virtual world and let it bloom into something special.
 
ayyan said:
Do you think it's possible to find love online?
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Online ? You Are Looking At A Computer Screen With Digital Imagery With Or With Out Audio Input
You Can Research Subjects Of Interest Or For Academic Study Or Even Take Online Classes And Get A College Degree
There Is Also Gooogle Maps For Directions To Anywhere And Summon An Uber Ride To Anywhere
Make An Airline Reservation Rent A Car Make A Hotel Reservation
Buy Retail Products And Groceries And Have Them Delivered To Your Home
Make Medical Dental Appointments As Well As Research Medical Home Remedies
Open And Run An Online Business And Earn Income Open A Bank Account Or Buy Sell And Trade In The Stock Market
Research The Real Estate Market And Buy Or Sell Or Rent A Home Or Buy Or Sell A Vehicle For Transportation
Apply For A Job Or Hire Employees For Your Business
Communicate In An Online Chat Room Or Forum Like This One For A Human Literary Connection On Subjects Of Interest Or Personal Problems And Advice Or Just For Fun And Humor

WHAT YOU CAN NOT DO IS ....
Look Into The Eyes Of Someone You Have A Romantic Interest In And Read Their Body Language And Pick Up On Their Personality Nuances In Intimate Conversation Smell Their Pheromones Touch Their Skin And Feel Their Body Temperature
Kiss Them On The Cheek Or Intimately On The Lips And Taste Their Saliva Hold Them Close In An Intimate Hug Run Your Hands All Over Their Body And Massage Them Caress Them Intimately Disrobe Each Other And Engage In ...... S-E-X ....
That's What Happens When People Meet In Person For Real In Real Life And Fall In Love
YOU CAN'T DO ANY OF THAT ONLINE ...... It's Just A Computer Screen With Digital Imagery And Audio Input
So NO You Can Not Find L-O-V-E Online.

What You Can Find And Is My Personal Favorite Is ...

Time Travel ......

With Any Music On You-Tube In Any Genre From Any Era Or Year ...

Coupled With Wikipedia Historical Outlines From Any Year In History .... Fascinates Me To No End ..

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quietears said:
The possibilities of love are endless.
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So Very True "The Possibilities Of Love Are Endless" .. Except Online ..

Which Is Nothing More Than A Digital Imagery With Audio Input And Maybe People Typing Intimately To Each Other ....

That Ain't Love .. It's A Digital Human Disconnect Of Real Human Feelings And Interaction

In The Guise Of A Supposedly Human Connection ... Don't Let That Fool You ... You Want A Love Connection With A Human Being ...

It Won't Happen "Online" .. It Only Happens For Real In A Real Human Physical Setting ... Not On A Computer Screen
 
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