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Ultrameg

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Ever since I got back from my ban I have been vilified endlessly and harassed in mean but guests users and trolls alike, calling me names making rude and hurtful comments.
To make it worse due to that ban I have lost the 2 friendships I truly cared about, including the bond I had with my bestie.
All these factors have made me feel very unwelcome in girls chat.
So I humbly ask, if you have a problem with me, it's your problem and I really don't care.
 
You still have friends, sweetie, it's just going to take a little time for some of us to get over it. Learn from the mistake and keep going in a more positive direction. Everyone deserves a second chance. Keep smiling.🙂
 
I feel so alone, even my closest friends are saying that there aren't happy chatting to me.
I have learnt from mistake, problem is people are still holding it against me, and worst of all, no one believes me.
 
toodles said:
what were u originally banend for
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She was banned for soliciting minors (to my knowledge) now realize i stand corrected which I take responsibility for. It really seems weird to me that she didn't check twice to make sure that she wasn't uploading something she didn't want to upload. It's an unlikely "mistake" she keeps claiming to make. Don't trust her one bit.
 
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I stand corrected on that part of things but my point still stands that's its extremely unlikely to "accidentally" send something of that manner to someone. I've questioned your knowledge of boundaries before as you continously try to PM me and try to talk to me despite me ignoring you and my obvious disinterest. Girls chat is meant to be a room that is a safe environment for minors and its extremely distasteful to be doing things of that nature in a child friendly room . Perhaps adult chat may be more your speed but it's important to respect the environment that Girls chat is meant to be.
 
Look I apologise for any confusion, I'm autistic so trying to understand things like a persons interest or disinterest is difficult for me, in regards to the picture it was a careless mistake. I have said it til I'm blue in the face, I'm being honest
 
I will say however it isn't an excuse for others to harass you to the point of you feeling unsafe in chat. I used to have a lot of similar feelings after I made a few mistakes of my own so I relocated to another chat while things settled down. It's possible it may be too soon for others to forgive but trying another chat may provide you the safety net of a fresh start General chat for example has an extremely kind and understanding admin, the good thing about it here is that there are a lot of different avenues to spend your time exploring. Each chat has different vibes.
 
Ultrameg said:
We are human, we all make mistakes
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You are so right! I'm really sorry that I misunderstood the reason for the ban, that was my mistake. I hope you can find a spot where you can be respected and forgiven in time without scrutiny. Every human is flawed. What you did was a huge mistake but I see how you feel as well. Give people time, stay out of trouble and in time things will get better.☺️
 
Judge not lest ye be judged.

Its a good motto in my book, you did your time for your crime. People should ultimately mind their own business eg no trolling or abuse for some ones mistake, especially if you have tried to make up for it and have made changes in your life as a result.

My only judgement in cases like this is do I choose to associate or not, it ends right there in the personal not a public thing.
 
Hey Ultrameg!

I find it interesting that guests would know anything about your ban, especially enough to just start randomly attacking you over it but if thats the case could you please report those things to a moderator when it happens? If you have any screenshots or other proof Id be happy to look into these things myself as would any other moderator in Girls Chat.

As to the rest, some may not like your actions and thats their right. As it is for anyone to like or dislike anyone. The mature response is ignore it and make new friends. Thats the best part about chat, we are constantly getting new people for everyone to make friends with.
 
Ultrameg said:
Ever since I got back from my ban I have been vilified endlessly and harassed in mean but guests users and trolls alike, calling me names making rude and hurtful comments.
To make it worse due to that ban I have lost the 2 friendships I truly cared about, including the bond I had with my bestie.
All these factors have made me feel very unwelcome in girls chat.
So I humbly ask, if you have a problem with me, it's your problem and I really don't care.
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You obviously do care or you wouldn't have felt the need to make this post.

As a casual observer:
1) You made a mistake, you were punished with a temporary ban as an attempt to correct your behaviour...DON'T go down the same path again.

2) Real friends don't desert real friends.

3) Do not use Autism as an excuse, even Autistic people make mistakes and are capable of learning from their mistakes.

4) A change is as good as a holiday. Don't react to people that are judging you because they are usually reacting to something they see in themselves that they don't like.

You will make new friends and you will learn who are your REAL friends.
 
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You obviously do care or you wouldn't have felt the need to make this post.

As a casual observer:
1) You made a mistake, you were punished with a temporary ban as an attempt to correct your behaviour...DON'T go down the same path again.

2) Real friends don't desert real friends.

3) Do not use Autism as an excuse, even Autistic people make mistakes and are capable of learning from their mistakes.

4) A change is as good as a holiday. Don't react to people that are judging you because they are usually reacting to something they see in themselves that they don't like.

You will make new friends and you will learn who are your REAL friends.
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