preferences or bigotry

JosephTheMainMan

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As a trans woman I’ll say that I find it sometimes a little hurtful if someone doesnt wanna talk to me simply because of who I am, I’ll also say that you and everyone else has the right to talk to whoever you do or don’t want to. And you shouldn’t be punished for it. There’s plenty of people I don’t wanna associate with, and I’d hate to feel like I’m being punished for it.

I actually did state in my message that I do not want to talk to people of that community as it is Better to avoid arguments this way. Unfortunately the staff member was not old enough to know what homophobia is.
 
Hmm. Seems to me you just posted it to be a tool

A gay person disliking that I simply do not want to talk with LGBT folks in a teen chat? I just wanna talk with people who won't attack me for disagreeing with their beliefs. Just easier to avoid unnecessary arguments.
 
A gay person disliking that I simply do not want to talk with LGBT folks in a teen chat? I just wanna talk with people who won't attack me for disagreeing with their beliefs. Just easier to avoid unnecessary arguments.

Didn't say I disliked it. I said you posted it to be a tool, in the same way as someone who'd go into a chat room and say "HMU to chat but no bible bashers", or "HMU to chat but no Africans. Just my preference". You're not expressing a preference. You're making a statement and being a tool in doing so.


Some people just hate me for who I am.
Those people are liberals. Most people call me 'legend' for it.
I think you'll find they're probably being polite and calling you a "leg end" in the style of "bell end"
 
This is a blue print for homophobia that's been used since day one to get away with harassing homosexuals. They'll claim its being shoved down their throats, that they have a free right to not accept it. Meanwhile they're using the Bible to imply the person's mere existence is a sin and they'll rot in Hell. It's all passive aggression and harassment that involves invalidating the person.
 
Didn't say I disliked it. I said you posted it to be a tool, in the same way as someone who'd go into a chat room and say "HMU to chat but no bible bashers", or "HMU to chat but no Africans. Just my preference". You're not expressing a preference. You're making a statement and being a tool in doing so.



I think you'll find they're probably being polite and calling you a "leg end" in the style of "bell end"

I have had many people in support in my beliefs.
As some people believe the same things I do - which is why I like to talk to them. I have seen people say other things like "hmu but no (insert thing here)" and I respect their preference.

It's no fun talking to people who will simply argue with you.
I choose to use this website to talk to people who I CAN talk to.
My preferences isn't to be a 'tool' - it is to have the best experience.

Some people may not like my preferences and they are very welcome to ask me why my preferences are the way that they are
 
I have had many people in support in my beliefs.
As some people believe the same things I do - which is why I like to talk to them. I have seen people say other things like "hmu but no (insert thing here)" and I respect their preference.

It's no fun talking to people who will simply argue with you.
I choose to use this website to talk to people who I CAN talk to.
My preferences isn't to be a 'tool' - it is to have the best experience.

Some people may not like my preferences and they are very welcome to ask me why my preferences are the way that they are

Yeah, sounds like it...

Let me explain something else.

The mod then further stated you called lgbtq a “cult”. Would not listen to their warnings. And when on a venting spree in their dms when they tried to tell you to behave. Kick is valid just not worded correctly.

Take these unneeded opinions elsewhere please
 
Let me explain something else.

The mod then further stated you called lgbtq a “cult”. Would not listen to their warnings. And when on a venting spree in their dms when they tried to tell you to behave. Kick is valid just not worded correctly.

Take these unneeded opinions elsewhere please

1. It is a cult.
As if you don't agree with them, you will be attacked by them.
Along with the many examples of them attacking their own community for thinking differently and not sharing their same views. It is a very descriptive word, is it not?

2. My "venting" was 4 messages or so explaining how having a preference with who I talk to wasn't to be classed as homophobia. I said that the staff member should be thick skinned and should instead file a report with a higher staff member if they truly see an issue with my preference just to see if I am actually being homophobic. (Simply because I wouldn't trust the judgement of a new moderator)
 
As if you don't agree with them, you will be attacked by them.
Agree with "them" on what? You keep talking about disagreeing with "them" but you don't really say what you're having a disagreement about with "them"

Edit: You also don't say who "them" is. I initially thought you meant all non-straight people but you seem to have disabused me of this assumption here:

Along with the many examples of them attacking their own community for thinking differently and not sharing their same views. It is a very descriptive word, is it not?

Who's "them" and what's the disagreement about?
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Sorry @butterfliez for intruding on your thread. Just curious about this.
 
Agree with "them" on what? You keep talking about disagreeing with "them" but you don't really say what you're having a disagreement about with "them"

Edit: You also don't say who "them" is. I initially thought you meant all non-straight people but you seem to have disabused me of this assumption here:



Who's "them" and what's the disagreement about?
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Sorry @butterfliez for intruding on your thread. Just curious about this.


I am against the LGBTQIA beliefs that are more on the extreme side.
I am not specifically targeting the normal gay people or lesbian people.
There is no problem from me if you just wanna live your life.
Be happy, do what you want.

The 'them' I refer to are the more 'progressive' which I have seen a lot of.
The ones who believe children should be medicated and given surgery.
The ones who believe it is completely fine for men to be in women's sports.

Those more left liberals are who I do not wish to speak to.
Most if not all of them are LGBTQIA so I just simply do not wish to speak to that group as a whole to avoid any unnecessary incidents.
 
I have had many people in support in my beliefs.
As some people believe the same things I do - which is why I like to talk to them. I have seen people say other things like "hmu but no (insert thing here)" and I respect their preference.

It's no fun talking to people who will simply argue with you.
I choose to use this website to talk to people who I CAN talk to.
My preferences isn't to be a 'tool' - it is to have the best experience.
1. It is a cult.
2. My "venting" was 4 messages or so explaining how having a preference with who I talk to wasn't to be classed as homophobia. I said that the staff member should be thick skinned and should instead file a report with a higher staff member if they truly see an issue with my preference just to see if I am actually being homophobic. (Simply because I wouldn't trust the judgement of a new moderator)
I think your wording leaves room for improvement. Instead of excluding LGBTQIA+ ********, why not just include who you do want to talk to instead? You could try something like "Straight CIS ******** HMU," instead of "LGBTQIA+ cult ******** do NOT HMU." You say you're trying to avoid arguments, but it seems to me that you're inviting them.
I actually did state in my message that I do not want to talk to people of that community as it is Better to avoid arguments this way. Unfortunately the staff member was not old enough to know what homophobia is.
 
Don't be shocked by the fact no one wants to hear your beliefs when they're all centered around judging people based on how they were born.

You know exactly what you're doing and it's trolling, just like when racist people want to talk about race replacement theory and black crime statistics (user WHITE_PRIDE). You're just a homophobic dog whistle.
 
stop diminishing it to a believe...it is a fact. and your disagreement isn't with what you call a belief...it's against their existence...which in turn makes it a hate crime.

Huh???
Are you a king of jumping to conclusions ?

I have no problem if you want to be gay or lesbIan and just live your life ands that - the Lgbtqia beliefs I mentioned were the very 'progressive' ideas in disguise.

Believing children can be transgender and should be medicated and receiving surgery along with all that other permanent damage stuff.

If you are an adult. Your life is yours to do with.
Just leave the kids alone.
 
I am against the LGBTQIA beliefs that are more on the extreme side.
I am not specifically targeting the normal gay people or lesbian people.
There is no problem from me if you just wanna live your life.
Be happy, do what you want.

The 'them' I refer to are the more 'progressive' which I have seen a lot of.
The ones who believe children should be medicated and given surgery.
The ones who believe it is completely fine for men to be in women's sports.

Those more left liberals are who I do not wish to speak to.
Most if not all of them are LGBTQIA so I just simply do not wish to speak to that group as a whole to avoid any unnecessary incidents.
Gotcha. So it's a political thing.

You could say something like: "HMU to chat. My political views are right-wing and I have some far right views. I don't want to talk to anyone that doesn't agree with me and certainly nobody that strays close to the centre or even slightly to the left of centre"

Might get you some easy casual chat that will give you even more confirmation bias but won't do much to help you IRL. I guess the Putin devout Russians, IS, and Al-Qaeda had the same starting point
 
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