Recent Ban

[UltraStar63]

Hello, I went by the name “UltraStar63” on the Gay Chat Room and was banned not too long ago for “ped”. I’d just like some clarification on what exactly I was banned for because I don’t believe that I fit that category. If you guys could clear up some of these misunderstandings, that would be great. Thanks

 

[JenRock]

@Inkandtatts is the room admin, he can help you further with this
Please be patient

 

[Inkandtatts]

Hello @UltraStar63

Could you enlighten me as to which category you think you fit into please, so that I can provide some clarification on this “misunderstanding”?

 

[UltraStar63]

Sure, I might’ve made some continuous bad decisions in the past and in the present, but I was just someone who was trying to reach out to other people to meet and socialize them. Not necessarily that sort of deviant even though I really don’t know what to think of myself now.

 

[Inkandtatts]

Sure, I might’ve made some continuous bad decisions in the past and in the present,

Your first bad decision was posting what you did, and the second bad decision was making this thread

but I was just someone who was trying to reach out to other people to meet and socialize them.

You were trying to reach out to those that sexually abuse children

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[UltraStar63]

Yes, I did that because I was trying to understand the reasons for why they do what they do. Honestly I fucked up this time and won’t do it again.

 

[Inkandtatts]

You're not getting unbanned

 

[UltraStar63]

Ok, I understand why you won’t remove the ban, but what do you believe I should do instead?

 

[Deleted member 306961]

Stay away it was clear you knew what you were doing so deal with the consequences

 

[UltraStar63]

And how do I deal with the consequences without being able to show any signs of progress or growth to you all?

 

[Inkandtatts]

Ok, I understand why you won’t remove the ban, but what do you believe I should do instead?

Nothing

And how do I deal with the consequences without being able to show any signs of progress or growth to you all?

The consequences are you’re banned. There’s nothing more to say or do

 

[Deleted member 306961]

 

[JenRock]

And how do I deal with the consequences without being able to show any signs of progress or growth to you all?

I personally for one could care less about your “progress”

Seek help

 

[UltraStar63]

I know I need to seek help but I don’t know where to find those resources. Most of them seem to be completely out of reach and I don’t know if they’d do much or would care at all

 

[Inkandtatts]

This is a chat site. Try a therapist

 

[Drock]

Well you will either choose to speak to a therapist, or law enforcement will choose to speak to you if you keep down the current path. Your choice!

 

[ZombiUnicornis]

don't have to understand that crap just condemn it.....clearly its wasn't that

just felt compelled to comment

 

[TheLeigh]

I know I need to seek help but I don’t know where to find those resources.

Please open a different tab on your internet browser and use it to research “free licensed mental health services near me”, if that’s what you’re looking for.

Depending on your income you may qualify for a government-based program or maybe a provider will place you on a payment plan. Lots of options, but you’ll have to put forth the effort to figure it out.

@Inkandtatts confirmed that your ban will not be lifted so I’ll be closing this thread.