while we're at it lets ban alcohol, gambling, religion, sports fandom, all social media, video games since all these things if taken to the extreme can ruin lives.
Food, too. Because the issues surrounding the most basic of needs are also a killer. This is a very valid point.
im growing convinced that most of you (maybe not specifically you) are all suffering from porn addictionsā¦
I've outright said, I don't watch porn often at all. My imagination is my go-to, but equally other people are allowed to watch it and enjoy it.
everyone is so concerned with educating on the reality of adult films, the ethics of the industry, & how extremely perverse things need to be regulatedā¦
Because if you make porn more ethical and you educate people on porn then usage would change and people would go into it with a clearer picture of what is real and what isn't. It would also mean more pay sites rather than free sites, and again that would lessen access, it would educate young men and women on the issues of consent and how everything can play a role in life without it being the be all and end all.
but so far iāve only seen myself highlighting the dangers of a pornography addiction, something which regulations, eduction, & a more ethical industry wouldnāt even remotely solveā¦
I'm not saying porn addiction isn't an issue, but there's a responsibility on the lack of education surrounding it, how to notice the signs, how to get treatment, how in real life it isn't the same.
FYI, chronic masturbation even without porn causes males and females to both develop sensitivity issues. It might not make you go blind, but it will mean you might not get off penetrating a vagina or without the use of a vibratory. Social media influencers who can be followed by minors openly advertise sex toys.
the only way to combat a porn addiction is the same way you combat heroin addictions, & thatās by banning it š¤·š¼āāļø
As Luka said, most addictions come with legalised versions to stop withdrawals. People can't even access therapy for drug use in a lot of cases due to a system that is failing itself (we could use more education on drug use, too) and is overrun.
golly guys, if u need to masturbate that bad, just use your imagination; your mind is more powerful than anything u could possibly watch on a screen, & youre destroying it with smut
And sometimes my mind doesn't want to work at creating images, sometimes I just want to cum and then get on with my day. Does that make me a bad person?
Should I think about spanking my neighbour or think about spanking a girl on the Internet who openly put herself on that (in the majority of cases before we make this a consent thing. I'm discussing porn of the consensual, ethical kind not companies that walk a thin line of barely being legal)
Again there are issues in porn, but if you educate people most people on it being a FANTASY and ensure consent, safe sex, and other such things, porn wouldn't be half as bad. E.g posting something over produced as amateur.
If we're going the route where it's porn's fault... Why can people watch Harry Potter and not think they're going to become a wizard? Or play GTA and not go kill a prostitute and take their money? They're aware that is fantasy. And why if people don't like horror, they just don't watch a horror. It's accountability after education and people engaging in their tastes.
Even hardcore porn has it's place because some people are actually into that. There's plenty of sites dedicated to people finding like for like minds with sex... So educate people to explore it in a safe way so they know what they are into and can go into a community that accepts their tastes in a safe way in the real world, too. I'm not going to demonised someone for sexual tastes if it is legal, safe, and consensual. If those three things are followed what people do in the bedroom is their choice and none of my business.
And I'm three pints deep so this is as much sense as you're getting out of me right now.
