Single forever???

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AJones1231

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I’ve been single for far too long. Early 30s wih no kids and a pretty good job. I have the time to meet people, problem is I always feel like i’d be bothering her or wasting her time if I ask for a number or a dinner date. Our world is so fast paced now a days and everyone is so sensitive harassment and things like that. It makes me reluctant to approach her if i dont already know her. I’m not trying to force anything either, truth is, i’ve been single for just under 8 years. I don’t mind being single, i’m a very independent man that doesn’t “need” a partner... But I dont want to be single forever. I feel like so much time has been wasted during the prime years of my life. I’ve been told i’m an attractive man and a lot of the women friends i have can’t believe i’ve been single for so long. Idk maybe i’m too picky or maybe i’m waiting for the “perfect match”??? Is there a “perfect match” for someone? I do believe in fate and i guess that’s why i’ve maintained patience in finding/looking for “her”. My faith is very strong as well and that definitely helps too. I guess i’m not sure why i’m posting this, it’s my first post ever with something like this. I guess it helps me to see the big picture and know that everything will be ok whether i find “her” or not. And even if nobody sees and/or reads this, that’s ok because doing this post and reading it helps me stay patient and positive.
 
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I’ve been single for far too long. Early 30s wih no kids and a pretty good job. I have the time to meet people, problem is I always feel like i’d be bothering her or wasting her time if I ask for a number or a dinner date. Our world is so fast paced now a days and everyone is so sensitive harassment and things like that. It makes me reluctant to approach her if i dont already know her. I’m not trying to force anything either, truth is, i’ve been single for just under 8 years. I don’t mind being single, i’m a very independent man that doesn’t “need” a partner... But I dont want to be single forever. I feel like so much time has been wasted during the prime years of my life. I’ve been told i’m an attractive man and a lot of the women friends i have can’t believe i’ve been single for so long. Idk maybe i’m too picky or maybe i’m waiting for the “perfect match”??? Is there a “perfect match” for someone? I do believe in fate and i guess that’s why i’ve maintained patience in finding/looking for “her”. My faith is very strong as well and that definitely helps too. I guess i’m not sure why i’m posting this, it’s my first post ever with something like this. I guess it helps me to see the big picture and know that everything will be ok whether i find “her” or not. And even if nobody sees and/or reads this, that’s ok because doing this post and reading it helps me stay patient and positive.
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why don't you make one step at a time? There are tons of apps where people looking for friends, love or just one night stand. I've been dating for far too long and thinking about doing the same and just have fun. Was wondering, is onenightfriend legitimate? Has someone experience with this platform? And yep, staying positive is always a key, no matter what)
 
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Those who are not looking for happiness are the most likely to find it because those who are searching forget that the surest way to be happy is to seek happiness for others. One day we will learn that the heart can never be totally right if the head is totally wrong. Only through the bringing together of head and heart – intelligence and goodness – shall man rise to a fulfillment of his true nature.​

 
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People funnel.
period.
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