The ongoing problems in Girls Chat

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Simply Karina

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It appears some moderators in Girls Chat think their shield means they have the right to abuse users, bully, threaten, intimidate, and continue to spread rumors. What point have get gotten to in that room where those who are supposed to stop the trouble are at the helm when it comes to starting it, keeping it going, then abusing their powers at any given chance. Not that its a small thing because some users become terrified at situation like this, but tonight amaisey decided that a child pretending to be on their parents account wasnt a big deal. Now, is it the end of the world? No. With that being said, this person sure claims Im quite a few people, going to the lengths to tell me and another user to "Stop talking to ourselves ffs". This has been caught on multiple occasions and has even been reported on in the past with yet another user I was supposed to be yet proven inaccurate yet amaisey still carried it on well after the fact. So, as this troll was reported multiple times, amaisey felt nothing was wrong with the trol yet threated another user who was simply tired of the trolling. Ignore and move on would have been what was needed, but it seems this moderator wanted to make sure somebody felt their wrath. Thats horrible, uncalled for, and totally unprofessional. Anyone with a clear mind, Enchantress included or any other moderator for that matter, would know threats like that are just wrong. Why the hunger for power? That sort of behavior and the clique mentality a few display are making the room uneasy. This isnt a once in a month this from amaisey, its almost an every day thing. So when asking amasiey to deal with the reports for rule violations well above a user speaking out against a troll,. amaisey the decides to bully/harass/and threaten me as well. This moderators has grown to enjoy kicking and seems to get off on the power. When I became a moderator, Flame made it clear that shouldnt be the goal. The CM came in a couple times to make sure we knew our goal shouldnt be to see how many kicks we could get or enjoy kicking. Yet amaisey displays that time and time again, occasionally commenting how how fun kicking is, gross. Last note on this, as of right now, the troll pretending to be an underage male on his mother account still sits in the room asking for advice. Its odd a troll gets better treatment that registered users. Not only that, but when you try to stand up for the room, this moderators first reaction is power hungry threats. Screenshots can be provided.

https://imgur.com/a/Um8cXEO
On another note and a much more serious one, trolling and threats are one thing, but a moderator openly making masturbation references with a 15 year old and a 16 year old in main is something in which Ive never seen before. Numerous people, myself included have no idea how "Dopey" aka countless other names has become a moderator. This person left Chat Avenue to pursue another site and was banned multiple time for recruiting users to this site. Mainly under the username "Pink Rose". Everyone is nice, everyone makes kind compliments and that wont ever be an issue in my book, but talking about masturbation in main with minors? Thats gone a bit too far, put all the competing site ownership out the window. Now, I honestly hate to bring up the past however this behavior isnt really out of the ordinary for anyone who knows PurplePeopleEater. In fact, prior to their exit a couple years ago, they harassed me with false claim on behalf on none other than her admitted best friend, Seachelle. So who knows, may at the end of the day this person is who started all lies involving myself. Maybe Enchantress wanted to believe a friend, so all that nonsense happened for literally no reason. I dont really want to blame Enchantress for this despite her hiring back PPE, but again maybe she wanted to believe her friend would change. Clearly shes only become worse.

nobody wants the drama. nobody wants this "suck up or be kicked" attitude from SOME of the moderators. People want to go to GC, have a nice time, listen to music, and make friends. Nobody wants this silly fighting, but it seems a few think that shield means its okay to harm people then nobody can stand up to them or else youre removed. That was never the way I conducted myself as a moderator, so I would have held myself to the same standard. Also, to the moderators not involved in the nonsense, your work is appreciated and Im sorry to you as well for all this. All I and the other users want is a friendly environment.
 
So let me guess, you got kicked out and thought to come on here to start something ... 🤔😒🙄🤪🥴

Awesome blurry screenshots helps no one.
 
Oz1 you seem to have a problem with alot of members she is entitled to come here like anyone else, Your always at someone missbianca, dylan your the one that seems to start arguements and your very aggressive as well.
 
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Oz1 you seem to have a problem with alot of members she is entitled to come here like anyone else, Your always at someone missbianca, dylan your the one that seems to start arguements and your very aggressive as well.

I'm wondering why it is still a moderator if I'm being honest. He calls every person who creates threads a troll. When some are trolls yes. But some aren't trolls. Hell oz flipped out on some 12 year old on the forums the other week. And the 12 year old had done nothing wrong. And Laura, thankyou for saying the first word as I didn't want to. But now you've said the 1st word I'm happy to say that I feel OZ is a troll himself. And I don't care what anyone else thinks but that is my PERSONAL opinion. I know I'm going to get jumped for this but it needs to be said. In regards to the problem of the thread tho I know there was some ongoing issues with the girls chat team. Sorry Karina I can't really read what is in those shots as oz said. Little in the blury side.
 
I can assure you I am certainly not a bully, it is in fact you that is the bully, your endless tantrums are very tiresome. I have plenty times given you chances and spoke to you in the main and via pm in a cordial manner, for example the wrestling, I engaged with you on that and had some fun out of it, despite knowing about your constant scheming and plotting.

When I see a user breaking the rules I take the appropriate action. I seek no enjoyment or pleasure removing a user , you are making up stories again and lying.

With regard to your other issue I am not at liberty to speak on her behalf but I will support her and support the admins action to appoint her, I have never seen her been inappropriate.


We are one of the least reported rooms here in the complaints forum, but a high percentage come from you. If your so dissatisfied I suggest you move on.

We will not be bullied!!!
 
Well, I replied to this but it seems maybe the new update erased it, Grrrr! That being said, it looks a lot more streamline! Anyway, sorry about that. I use a PC and it seems the screenshots arent uploaded in a decent quality. Ill see what I can do about that. Basically "Dopey" was telling a 15 year old how she "loves herself at least once a week" with a winky face. Another 16yo chimed in talking about it being "hugs" but even put it in quotations. Anyone else would be shamed and removed and potentially banned.

Unfortunately for you, amaisey, your ego has become quite a problem. Anyone is free to come into GC and see how I interact. Ive been incredibly lucky to make friends in which I care about. You have made it quite obvious on multiple occasions you do not wish the room to get better, instead like I stated have countless times expressed joy n kicking. On the specific matter of last night, I asked you several times why this person was being ignored and no action taken while saying they were an underage male on a "moms account" you didnt as much look into the reports for both PM and main. All were ignored although you were happy to blast threats at regulars. As far as your claims above, please provide proof. However, like your countless time making comments like "Stop talking to yourself ffs", you have zero proof of any wrongdoing. Again, another abuse of power. As far as the wrestling conversation go, yes at one point last month you were being decent, since then the false accusations have come from you, so clearly something on your end changed. Standing up for people is not plotting or scheming.

On another note, whats this "i cant tag this person" nonsense you were pulling last night? If somebody wishes not to speak with you to the point they have asked you not to tag them yet you apparently feel you have the right to antagonize that person for hours? Maybe Im wrong, but I know what that person has said to me recently and your constant passive aggressive and outright aggressive tactics has shined bright as of late.

The clique mentality, pop shots, false accusations, rumor spreading, and blatant abuse of power has been seen by many, felt by many, and is uncalled for in any situation. I on the other hand include everyone I can into conversations, even ones that have been told wild lies about me (which you yourself keep pushing). I very rarely speak up in main, I try to calm situations and inform people when situations get confusing regarding things.

On the last note, Ive spoken to Enchantress trying to bury the hatchet and we indeed had a decent conversations,

amaisey, you have pushed a lie to fabricated to hurt me, but in turn has hurt somebody you call your "cuz". You are the pure definition of a bully. Standing up for those you harass and intimidate doesnt make me a hero, but it sure doesnt make me a bully either. So yes, we in girls chat will not be bullied.

Lastly before I get my afternoon underway and again i apologize for them being so small. But here are screenshots which back up this abuse and bullying. The first is when I was speaking to BrattyTinkerbell in main, we were told to "Stop talking yourselves ffs'. Bratty has even asked the rumors about her and I to stop as they have been proven false half a year ago. The second is when ScottishChick and I said Hi in main, apparently somehow I have become a girl in Scotland but also the USA, interesting to say the least. Lastly the remaining screenshots are of the altercation last night. The message in main, their PM to me, both of which were reported, others wondered why this person was able to spam that nonsense, but as you can see Molly15 was the one threatened with action. I love that room and all my friends in it who just want to hang out and chill. We have absolutely wonderful nights in GC when this sort of petty behavior and lies arent being spread by a small group.

On a total side note, anyone who has advice on how I can make these screenshots more zoomed in, please let me know. I could crop and zoom in, but Ive been told that is "editing" and make the screenshots invalid. Thank you! 🙂
 
I think that this topic has run its course and I have reenforced to all Moderators my thoughts on Bullies in both ******** and staff.

Please close this thread.

Enchantress
 
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