While I think that there's lots of significant moments in my life and specific factors in it that shaped who i am today...the one that stands out to me the most is having read The Alchemist by Paolo Coelho when I was like 12. it vastly shaped my outlook on life and how to handle situations as they came. the tumbling chain of events that followed it's direct and indirect paths for me added to that.
do you think that if you could change the one thing you sometimes fixate on even now that things would have ultimately worked out the way you wanted?