Transphobic comments in Girls chat

[GamerGirlTwitch]

I have seen regulars comment their transphobic "opinions" on main chat. And when confront a mod about it all they say is use ur ignore button... so I guess that kind of talk is allowed there now? Smh I'm done. No kick or mute or even the original comment wasnt deleted no actions had been taken against the transphobia. I'm truly disappointed and will look for a different more inclusive chat site that doesn't allow transphobia.

 

[TheDifference]

I have been called an it and Dopey did nothing when i reported it.I even mentioned how i reported and she said she saw it and is ignorong it and deleted my post that i sent that said calling anyone it trans or non trans is rude and not cool. I am not trans but calling any one an it is rude and not acceptable but some mods favor their friends like i have said

If you feel you were treated inappropriately by a Moderator please provide proof (screen shots etc.) to the Admin of that room.

 

[GamerGirlTwitch]

I said ignore those who are disagreeing with your view...you think anyone who disagrees with you is trolling or attacking you...Most of what happens to you comes from your own behaviour.

Your kick history is very clearly showing what I am talking about. This includes kicks for comments such as “Water do you like faggots? “

You have been banned for being kicked excessively and given a chance, yet you continue to behave in the same way.

What I was giving you was sound advice to stop you getting kicked for abusive and arrogant behaviour.

I tried to give you friendship.

Quite frankly your credibility went out of the window in this matter along time ago.

Transphobia is not "disagreeing with my view" excuse me

 

[GamerGirlTwitch]

And the water do you like faggots im talking about the british food meatballs and gravy dont assume what you don't know

 

[GamerGirlTwitch]

Since you think transphobia is a "view" and allowed on chat by ur "friends" I do not need ur friendship either if thats the kind of "view" you support

 

[GamerGirlTwitch]

http://imgur.com/a/G0p0UEk here is the screenshot of the comment u think was not transphobic by telling us that she knows what we were created to be... invalidating our identity.. @ZombiUnicornis you did nothing because water is your friend and you give her special treatment.. yet you even support her transphobia by trying to deny it as a "view" in this thread and didnt even delete the comment we can see ur name at the bottom and all u told me to do was "ignore" while u let transphobes run wild in the chat this clearly shows to me you support transphobia

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[! Burnt Pizza]

Okay I am going to be fair on this post. Gamergriltwitch did mention them being transphobic first randomly with out anyone else even mentioning it. This makes it seem like she was trying egg water or carol to say transphoic remarks becuase they are transphobic. They did say transphobics things and Zombi did tell the room to change the subject to stop it. Should she have warned Water and Carol not to be bigots yes ad should she have muted them at the least yes but she did take some type of action even if it wasnt the best action.

 

[GamerGirlTwitch]

Okay I am going to be fair on this post. Gamergriltwitch did mention them being transphobic first randomly with out anyone else even mentioning it. This makes it seem like she was trying egg water or carol to say transphoic remarks becuase they are transphobic. They did say transphobics things and Zombi did tell the room to change the subject to stop it. Should she have warned Water and Carol not to be bigots yes ad should she have muted them at the least yes but she did take some type of action even if it wasnt the best action.

That is exactly what happened yes. I wasn't just randomly trying to get them to say anything it is what they said had triggered me because it was attacking my identity But I think at least having the comments deleted wouldve been the minimum thing to do... then I posted on my walls post for my friends and she deleted it because i said that Water and carol are transphobic and it has been known that they have made these comments before. This is not new

 

[! Burnt Pizza]

That is exactly what happened yes. But I think at least having the comments deleted wouldve been the minimum...

Yeah for sure and telling you to ignore people instead of taking action against her friends is a really bad move. she already did that to me and when i told enchantress surprise she claimed she saw nothing wrong with it.

 

[! Burnt Pizza]

PS i do not want Zombiunicornis fired I just want her to be a better mod and not favor her friends

 

[GamerGirlTwitch]

Okay I am going to be fair on this post. Gamergriltwitch did mention them being transphobic first randomly with out anyone else even mentioning it. This makes it seem like she was trying egg water or carol to say transphoic remarks becuase they are transphobic. They did say transphobics things and Zombi did tell the room to change the subject to stop it. Should she have warned Water and Carol not to be bigots yes ad should she have muted them at the least yes but she did take some type of action even if it wasnt the best action.

When it comes to @ZombiUnicornis I have never really had any issues with her i concidered her as a friend. I hate that it came to this and i just wish she had taken more action to just tell me to ignore them and in the back of my mind i think of the young trans teens that might come in and get subjected to those comments and might take it hard on themselves.

 

[ZombiUnicornis]

1. I never saw them saying anything trans phobic there was no reports. Don't assume we see everything that happens in main we have lives and deal with issues you cant see. Hence you being told over and over to use report.
   
2. Your chat history is terrible, it indicate an inability to get on with others. You show an inability to learn from mistakes as well, you're very lucky you haven't been banned.
   
3. You're often over sensitive and take comments to mean things they don't,....That's part of your consistent history. .
   
4. Running straight to public things without talking is also consistent with you're behaviour, virtually every complaint I've seen you make here have been clearly you violating chat terms
   
5. That means your credibility is shot.

My history with trans people in chat is clearly one of mutual respect, hence one of the comments from one of our oldest ********. My friends list has several trans people on it who by the way have never made a complaint to me about any regulars being trans phobic. Nor have you ever made a direct complaint to me nor have I ever seen any reports via report function from you.


In girls chat we get a lot of people claiming trans in girls chat who are there for perverted reasons, they do not represent what I'd call the decent ladies and guys from the trans community. Many comments are based in the fact that ******** are sick and tired of perverts and they aim comments at them. This goes for all types of people who come to girls chat for perverted reasons.


Am I saying this validates bad comments? No it doesn't and we in girls chat take action when we see or see reports.

 

[GamerGirlTwitch]

1. I never saw them saying anything trans phobic there was no reports. Don't assume we see everything that happens in main we have lives and deal with issues you cant see. Hence you being told over and over to use report.
   
2. Your chat history is terrible, it indicate an inability to get on with others. You show an inability to learn from mistakes as well, you're very lucky you haven't been banned.
   
3. You're often over sensitive and take comments to mean things they don't,....That's part of your consistent history. .
   
4. Running straight to public things without talking is also consistent with you're behaviour, virtually every complaint I've seen you make here have been clearly you violating chat terms
   
5. That means your credibility is shot.

My history with trans people in chat is clearly one of mutual respect, hence one of the comments from one of our oldest ********. My friends list has several trans people on it who by the way have never made a complaint to me about any regulars being trans phobic. Nor have you ever made a direct complaint to me nor have I ever seen any reports via report function from you.


In girls chat we get a lot of people claiming trans in girls chat who are there for perverted reasons, they do not represent what I'd call the decent ladies and guys from the trans community. Many comments are based in the fact that ******** are sick and tired of perverts and they aim comments at them. This goes for all types of people who come to girls chat for perverted reasons.


Am I saying this validates bad comments? No it doesn't and we in girls chat take action when we see or see reports.

1. Were not talking about my past history were talking about how no corrections were taken if im sensitive that's my own problem i come to public but just telling me to ignore her doesnt solve her from saying anymore transphobic comments and

2. I very well know people will use it in ways to be perverted

3. I'm talking about what happened yesterday you bring up other stuff not related to this issue at all

4. MULTIPLE people have told me that those people have said comments like this before.

5. I even reached out to amaisey and she has told me that she agrees with me that comment was indeed transphobic

Here is a ss

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Ive been told multiple times Water and Carol have made comments like this before SPECIALLY when it comes to non-binary people. Thats why even talking about non-binary people in chat is frowned upon.. imagine not being able to talk to a whole community of people because some people don't think they even "exist"

So please spare me the lecture at least i accept people for who they are

 

[ZombiUnicornis]

I saw no comments yesterday I saw no reports yesterday....We cant act on things we dont see if theres no reports....As i expected though you didnt read what was being said...as it happens constantly in chat which is what gets you in trouble.

I strongly suggest for your own peace of mind have a chat with KandyKarina in chat maybe just maybe she has a solution to your problems in chat. Or even any one of the other trans people (who I wont name here for privacy reasons) who dont have issues in Girls Chat. There are way more than you would realise.

 

[Simply Karina]

I saw no comments yesterday I saw no reports yesterday....We cant act on things we dont see if theres no reports....As i expected though you didnt read what was being said...as it happens constantly in chat which is what gets you in trouble.

I strongly suggest for your own peace of mind have a chat with KandyKarina in chat maybe just maybe she has a solution to your problems in chat. Or even any one of the other trans people (who I wont name here for privacy reasons) who dont have issues in Girls Chat. There are way more than you would realise.

Absolutely. As I've even said in this thread (along with others because it simply the chat life) things get missed when main is busy. As of late main in Girls Chat has been pretty active and thats a great thing. The staff does their best and in my opinion is doing a good job, so it happens. It happened to me on more than one occasion. Another thing to remember here is that on a phone, main scrolls even faster than it does on a PC due to less of a screen. My point being, the above screenshot was one comment which didnt seem to be a conversation. If it was, Id imagine the whole conversation could be posted since its caused this much concern, correct? As far as reaching out to Amaisey and getting that answer, the original screenshot of the comment isnt even in the same day as this discussion with Amaisey. She literally cant act on a trolly comment that is a day old. Its awesome people in Girls Chat are willing to stand up and not want these things said. I personally appreciate it more than I can express. However, putting a label on any anyone saying they are transphobic or they allow that behavior is not at all acceptable. This topic is something Flame_Song put a lot of work into changing years ago when she was admin. Enchantress has carried that on as well. BlueEyes, Amaisey, dreamer19, and even Jess (to a degree) Ive known for a very long time. Each one of them has put their foot down on that sort of behavior. Now, as I've stated earlier, Ive personally witnessed ZombiUnicornis reprimand people for making those comments. Normally, I never want to put myself in this light because it comes off as arrogant, but yes please come have a conversation with me about all this. The support is welcomed and SO VERY appreciated, but little comments missed in main by a couple bad apples doesnt mean a moderator needs to be told they allow that and even support it, that simply isnt fair. Trust me, that room has come leaps and bounds over the last 4 years. I love being there and a single day doesnt go by where I feel acceptable and just plain lucky to have made so many friends. Ah and let me throw Cogirls name in here as well, she treats me with absolute kindness as well.

 

[Epiphany]

Absolutely. As I've even said in this thread (along with others because it simply the chat life) things get missed when main is busy. As of late main in Girls Chat has been pretty active and thats a great thing. The staff does their best and in my opinion is doing a good job, so it happens. It happened to me on more than one occasion. Another thing to remember here is that on a phone, main scrolls even faster than it does on a PC due to less of a screen. My point being, the above screenshot was one comment which didnt seem to be a conversation. If it was, Id imagine the whole conversation could be posted since its caused this much concern, correct? As far as reaching out to Amaisey and getting that answer, the original screenshot of the comment isnt even in the same day as this discussion with Amaisey. She literally cant act on a trolly comment that is a day old. Its awesome people in Girls Chat are willing to stand up and not want these things said. I personally appreciate it more than I can express. However, putting a label on any anyone saying they are transphobic or they allow that behavior is not at all acceptable. This topic is something Flame_Song put a lot of work into changing years ago when she was admin. Enchantress has carried that on as well. BlueEyes, Amaisey, dreamer19, and even Jess (to a degree) Ive known for a very long time. Each one of them has put their foot down on that sort of behavior. Now, as I've stated earlier, Ive personally witnessed ZombiUnicornis reprimand people for making those comments. Normally, I never want to put myself in this light because it comes off as arrogant, but yes please come have a conversation with me about all this. The support is welcomed and SO VERY appreciated, but little comments missed in main by a couple bad apples doesnt mean a moderator needs to be told they allow that and even support it, that simply isnt fair. Trust me, that room has come leaps and bounds over the last 4 years. I love being there and a single day doesnt go by where I feel acceptable and just plain lucky to have made so many friends. Ah and let me throw Cogirls name in here as well, she treats me with absolute kindness as well.

I'm glad that we have you there and you know that none of us would allow someone to be in there that made you feel uncomfortable or was making derogatory comments about trans people. This entire thread is nonsense.
Love ya girl 😘

 

[Enchantress]

Absolutely. As I've even said in this thread (along with others because it simply the chat life) things get missed when main is busy. As of late main in Girls Chat has been pretty active and thats a great thing. The staff does their best and in my opinion is doing a good job, so it happens. It happened to me on more than one occasion. Another thing to remember here is that on a phone, main scrolls even faster than it does on a PC due to less of a screen. My point being, the above screenshot was one comment which didnt seem to be a conversation. If it was, Id imagine the whole conversation could be posted since its caused this much concern, correct? As far as reaching out to Amaisey and getting that answer, the original screenshot of the comment isnt even in the same day as this discussion with Amaisey. She literally cant act on a trolly comment that is a day old. Its awesome people in Girls Chat are willing to stand up and not want these things said. I personally appreciate it more than I can express. However, putting a label on any anyone saying they are transphobic or they allow that behavior is not at all acceptable. This topic is something Flame_Song put a lot of work into changing years ago when she was admin. Enchantress has carried that on as well. BlueEyes, Amaisey, dreamer19, and even Jess (to a degree) Ive known for a very long time. Each one of them has put their foot down on that sort of behavior. Now, as I've stated earlier, Ive personally witnessed ZombiUnicornis reprimand people for making those comments. Normally, I never want to put myself in this light because it comes off as arrogant, but yes please come have a conversation with me about all this. The support is welcomed and SO VERY appreciated, but little comments missed in main by a couple bad apples doesnt mean a moderator needs to be told they allow that and even support it, that simply isnt fair. Trust me, that room has come leaps and bounds over the last 4 years. I love being there and a single day doesnt go by where I feel acceptable and just plain lucky to have made so many friends. Ah and let me throw Cogirls name in here as well, she treats me with absolute kindness as well.

Thankyou so much for your assistance and input on this thread it is greatly appreciated