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bbybluee

bbybluee

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@TheLeigh lately i have noticed i have been kicked for reasons i can not completely comprehend. I strongly believe it isnt lack of accountability from my side this time since i have been intentional lately on the room to behave in accordance to rules. I was kicked today for saying, "at least i dont message your friends". So either i am missing context or i am being actioned based on selective reasoning... One of the kicks especially that were actioned by irish lady on 16/05, with reason, "VIPbbyblue 16/05 20:02 natas get fogged" i got was for two hours and then i was let into the room in like 15 minutes(i can link images if required, just let me know), i would have imagined i was kicked by mistake but since the kick has a reason and the mod immedietly mocked me saying "oops" right after kicking me on the room with her friend, responding "ahahaha", same friend with whom i was arguing earlier, makes it seem less likely(again i can link the pictures just let me know). I would like some insight. Hope youre having a good day!
 
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I didn't get pinged for this lol. Just stumbled upon it.

@bbybluee I don't see why you would get kicked for those reasons, but I also don't think any General chat mod would action you unless they had a valid reason or believed they did. It is possible that this was simply a mistake. The best thing to do would be to wait patiently for Leigh to come and review what you said so far, as you are doing now.
 
bbybluee said:
I was kicked today for saying, "at least i dont message your friends". So either i am missing context or i am being actioned based on selective reasoning
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You left something out here. You would have seen this when you got kicked and hopefully it provides some insight as to why you got kicked and why the duration was so long.
 

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Just to clarify, I am not justifying the kick, but I am also not saying it was uncalled for. I was not there and do not know the context of the moment or the multiple previous warnings you've gotten. I am simply trying to shed some light and help you understand. The best person to help you understand would be the one(s) who kicked you. They would be better able to explain their reasoning.
 
RogueYeti7 said:
Just to clarify, I am not justifying the kick, but I am also not saying it was uncalled for. I was not there and do not know the context of the moment or the multiple previous warnings you've gotten. I am simply trying to shed some light and help you understand. The best person to help you understand would be the one(s) who kicked you. They would be better able to explain their reasoning.
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@RogueYeti7 i have screenshots of my previous warnings thru the week and none of them made much sense. I will quote some, "use ignore button", this was for calling someone a "pick me" this was the only warning i was given through the proper format this whole month, as far as i know not against the rules, and i did not flood. "Bbyblue this is your warning the people that get kicked are NOT your business DO NOT comment, grow up thanks", "last warning", these were texts om chat by irish lady and some more. I asked her what i do, and if i will be kicked multiple times, she didnt answer. I feel like i am being bullied atp
 
RogueYeti7 said:
Like I said, the best thing you can do here is wait for Leigh to review it and see what she says. If you want to, you can dm her the screenshots so that she has them. That's what I would do atleast. I hope this can be resolved and I am sorry for any trouble or inconvenience you are experiencing
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Okay im open to pming @TheLeigh the screenshots i just cant find her on chat so i have forwarded them to you for now.
 
bbybluee said:
@RogueYeti7 i have screenshots of my previous warnings thru the week and none of them made much sense. I will quote some, "use ignore button", this was for calling someone a "pick me" this was the only warning i was given through the proper format this whole month, as far as i know not against the rules, and i did not flood. "Bbyblue this is your warning the people that get kicked are NOT your business DO NOT comment, grow up thanks", "last warning", these were texts om chat by irish lady and some more. I asked her what i do, and if i will be kicked multiple times, she didnt answer. I feel like i am being bullied atp
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Hi there, I'm sorry you feel bullied here. So have I and others. You're not the only one. It's sad that others have to bully others. It's wrong and not right either. Please wait for the admin. @TheLeigh. She will be happy to help ASAP. She might be sleeping right now. Different times for everyone here on chat ave. Nobody should bully you or anyone. It's very cruel. It's hurtful. I understand you. Nobody should pick on you or anyone. You should have have an answer later today. Good luck! Good night! Take very good care of yourself. Stay safe and well always. Bye-bye for now. It's time for me to sleep now. It's 3:28 AM for me. I hope this helps you for now. 👋

Best of everything,
@.Princessa
 
bbybluee said:
@RogueYeti7 i have screenshots of my previous warnings thru the week and none of them made much sense. I will quote some, "use ignore button", this was for calling someone a "pick me" this was the only warning i was given through the proper format this whole month,
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Couple of things here.

The person you’re calling a “pick me” is also the same person you created a thread about on here. It’s not a mystery that there’s a bunch of beef between you and Sweetums. Take it to PMs going forward - not in main.

Also - you don’t receive a warning every time you do something wrong. You’re expected to read the rules and follow them. If you need a link to the longer version of the room rules, click here.
bbybluee said:
as far as i know not against the rules, and i did not flood. "Bbyblue this is your warning the people that get kicked are NOT your business DO NOT comment, grow up thanks", "last warning", these were texts om chat by irish lady and some more. I asked her what i do, and if i will be kicked multiple times, she didnt answer. I feel like i am being bullied atp
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You’re allowed to ask, but staff won’t answer if it’s not an inquiry about your own actions. If you disrupt the room in your asks, you’ll be removed for it.

Also, have you tried PMing any of the mods you’re mentioning here or in your screenshots and asking them about any of the actions they gave you or why?
 
TheLeigh said:
Couple of things here.

The person you’re calling a “pick me” is also the same person you created a thread about on here. It’s not a mystery that there’s a bunch of beef between you and Sweetums. Take it to PMs going forward - not in main.

Also - you don’t receive a warning every time you do something wrong. You’re expected to read the rules and follow them. If you need a link to the longer version of the room rules, click here.

You’re allowed to ask, but staff won’t answer if it’s not an inquiry about your own actions. If you disrupt the room in your asks, you’ll be removed for it.

Also, have you tried PMing any of the mods you’re mentioning here or in your screenshots and asking them about any of the actions they gave you or why?
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Well my beef with sweetums is personal, and as much as i know we have never had an argument on chat in a long time
TheLeigh said:
Couple of things here.

The person you’re calling a “pick me” is also the same person you created a thread about on here. It’s not a mystery that there’s a bunch of beef between you and Sweetums. Take it to PMs going forward - not in main.

Also - you don’t receive a warning every time you do something wrong. You’re expected to read the rules and follow them. If you need a link to the longer version of the room rules, click here.

You’re allowed to ask, but staff won’t answer if it’s not an inquiry about your own actions. If you disrupt the room in your asks, you’ll be removed for it.

Also, have you tried PMing any of the mods you’re mentioning here or in your screenshots and asking them about any of the actions they gave you or why?
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Okay @TheLeigh thank you. I am not sure how I am supposed to discern unpublished warnings, bec if only reading the rules was enough for me i think i would have been able to by now, but I am willing to try. Also I don't know how context of my forum post is relevant to my inquiry about kicks today, but I appreciate you keeping track. My inqueries havent distrupted the room bec those were singular posts each time, I don't spam but yes it is something I can try noticing more. Thank you for responding I am gonna try to take into consideration things you pointed and see if it helps.
 
bbybluee said:
Well my beef with sweetums is personal, and as much as i know we have never had an argument on chat in a long time

Okay @TheLeigh thank you. I am not sure how I am supposed to discern unpublished warnings, bec if only reading the rules was enough for me i think i would have been able to by now, but I am willing to try.
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The rules are essentially a warning. No warning we would give would differ from the rules and what’s allowed.
bbybluee said:
Also I don't know how context of my forum post is relevant to my inquiry about kicks today, but I appreciate you keeping track.
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I’m not sure what you’re saying here. Your thread is regarding kicks you received.
bbybluee said:
My inqueries havent distrupted the room bec those were singular posts each time, I don't spam but yes it is something I can try noticing more.
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Spam disrupts the room, yes.. but disrupting the room can happen with more than just spam.
bbybluee said:
Thank you for responding I am gonna try to take into consideration things you pointed and see if it helps.
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It will definitely help, and thanks for reaching out.

Feel free to DM me if you have any further questions.
 
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