When to disclose you have an STD?

[meetbi]

I have herpes and hope to date again.

 

[Deleted member 221990]

ah to answer seriously I'd say RIGHT AWAY if you're about to have norties with someone, it's only fair.

I'd feel exceptionally guilty if I knew I'd caused or led to have caused someone an illness.

 

[Inkandtatts]

I have herpes and hope to date again.

Dating is fine but wait for it to clear up before getting your bits out and doing the deed. Would be really unfair to do it, knowing you're probably going to give it to them.


This doesn't apply to herpes but similar topic: if anyone is reading this and thinking of the question in the context of HIV, having unprotected sex with someone knowing you are HIV+ can land you in prison for up to 5 years in England & Wales.

 

[Ytodd]

I have toc cooties..

 

[Finn2.0]

Up your game. Be so good in bed that the reward outweighs the risk.

 

[NavyWings]

Well is it herpes on your lip or genital? Different management techniques and risks. Often long periods between outbreaks and antivirals are fairly good. Just depends on how educated a potential partner is and if they're willing to manage the risk.

 

[frying nemo]

I have herpes and hope to date again.

if ya do have that then get clean before getting intimate

 

[Coyo]

Straight honesty upfront if you intend to have sexual intercourse and if you dont that's a dick move

 

[Inkandtatts]

that's a dick move

Literally

(I’m such a child. Sorry)

 

[MissMotive]

Bisexuals tend to get that.

Let’s fight in the carpark at Tesco.

 

[BrandonJ]

It's easy to stay safe, my mother says to me every time to wear a condom, never go raw. That is how you end up with diseases and illness.
My uncle Joey did not practice safe sexual intercourse, now he is dead.

I will be fine cause I'm not a believer in sexual intercourse. I'm not a satanist. You know 92% of people who commit the deadly sin of sexual intercourse turn out to be satanists.

 

[Coyo]

You know 92% of people who commit the deadly sin of sexual intercourse turn out to be satanists.

 

[Deleted member 221990]

Straight honesty upfront if you intend to have sexual intercourse and if you dont that's a dick move

Let’s go! I trust you!

 

[MissMotive]

This thread is very interesting indeed.

As a virgin, this kinda thing has never been an issue for me.😇

 

[Finn2.0]

Are you even ashamed of being gay or is that the one acceptable sexuality in your eyes?

 

[MissMotive]

Understandable, you probably wouldn’t wanna add to the ones you already got.

 

[-Luka]

Are you even ashamed of being gay or is that the one acceptable sexuality in your eyes?

No shame of being gay hence why I support GLB.
Why are you concerned about my posts?

 

[-Luka]

Understandable, you probably wouldn’t wanna add to the ones you already got.

Wouldn’t fancy the risk from a Tesco car park scrap 💁‍♀️

 

[Finn2.0]

No shame of being gay hence why I support GLB.
Why are you concerned about my posts?

Well it’s the blatant homophobia and disrespect towards the LGBTQ community. The hate stands out

 

[-Luka]

Well it’s the blatant homophobia and disrespect towards the LGBTQ community. The hate stands out

A homo being “homophobic” is as legit as a black person calling another black person the n word.
Also, the whole thing was a joke in response to MM as her response to me implied she had bisexuality diseases. Again, a joke. Not all concerns you- you told me to butt out the other day when it came to LC yet here you are doing the same.

Disrespect? Your feelings to me are irrelevant. The only disrespect I give is to the the letters after GLB- because it’s disrespectful to palm off those weirdos and assume they’re illnesses pertain to being “non straight” - that’s what I disagree with.

TL;DR - dry your eyes