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Y’all let’s try to stay on topic, keep the past where is stays if you can, and unless it’s a known fact with proof don’t post it because that’s why threads get closed. If we all want to make a difference and he’ll this room then accusations and chaos will never help achieve the goal. I do believe history helps the future of things for sure but if the wrong people are tagged and attacked this becomes way to problematic.
 
The current state of the site run under greedy people. Chat-avenue.com went from bringing in 100k to 40k for a reason. People are leaving like a blow out at a baseball game at an alarming rate.
 
Hiraeth said:
Y’all let’s try to stay on topic, keep the past where is stays if you can, and unless it’s a known fact with proof don’t post it because that’s why threads get closed. If we all want to make a difference and he’ll this room then accusations and chaos will never help achieve the goal. I do believe history helps the future of things for sure but if the wrong people are tagged and attacked this becomes way to problematic.
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Agreed. Please stay on topic folks. If you want this to stay open don't tag me here and get me thinking this is actually an admin complaint and probably should be moved and closed and referred to CM. @Boba Fett @Chatmaster

@DynamicDylan thoughts?
 
Hiraeth said:
One issue I’d like to bring to attention is I see a lot of posts about users feeling like Mods are on a power trip and I think given the state of this room it’s understandable they feel this way. I want to say as a former mod there always users who we see and they are automatic warning bells so sometimes you just watch them a lot heavier, my experience is adult chat so of course there the problems are very different. I mentioned several times there has to be some kind of way to bridge the gap between staff and the ********, I think it would make the environment in this room improve a lot. I had someone tag me yesterday in the main room asking if I was keeping Dylan hostage, I then asked who is Dylan and they said Admin, then I replied idk why you’d ask me I don’t have anything to do with him. This user then makes a post and says he’s a player, the second that popped up the user was kicked and i looked to see who the mod was and there was no mod listed, I closed the list and went back to the room and then see a user wishing sexual assault on another user and their mom all within a one minute time span and the person wishing sexual assault was never kicked until a good 10 minutes later when the room was in an uproar.

I could make a list a mile long of issues and potential solutions, and have one tried to do so but was met with issues of silence. It’s well past time for everyone to talk in a healthy way about how to fix the issues. This room has a wonderful group of people, I don’t think the staff is evil and the ******** aren’t evil. I do hope for everyone this problems are addressed.
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Yes, another issue here.
Annnnd a lot of times even when a mod is on they'll wait until a person leaves to take action. It's weird because if I'm truly breaking a rule my chat time should end right then and there.

Here's a prime example (another time I was going to take to admin, but...., what's the point)

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The first 7 are a known pedo using excessive caps. The 8th is showing she was actively modding. The 9th and 10th are me telling the room bye. The 11th is my kick (without warning) 10 whole minutes later. Which makes no sense. This has happened SEVERAL times recently. I'll get kicked a whole hour after the fact even though the mod has been on the whole duration. It's extremely cowardly and passive aggressive. They kick when you're not even there? 🤔🤨Like, do they just have to feed the urge to kick you even when they know their reasons are petty or just downright not mutable/kickable. I'll come back and be told I have been kicked and I'll ask and I'm told to reference my kick report but I didn't even see it because I'm afk... 😑

So many questions and no answers 🤷🏻‍♀️
 
I rarely write anything on forums to begin with so bare with me ....last couple of weeks or should I say months have been nothing but non stop bullshit in singles chatroom. Clearly you can't even come into the chatroom to even have an adult conversation without being judge or mocked . This is fucking ridiculous ..same goes for the rules in there . The age limit in my opinion should be atleast 21+ as for that being said we should be able to speak out minds about whatever topic it is without being vile to one another . I do believe that if you are making death threata you should be automatically kicked with no hesitation. Same with being doxed. As for saying the C word like Holy **** we are grown adults unless it's being used towards someone in a vile manner than fine use a warning . Then a kick but if the person is using it as a joking manner between their friends ..let it go . As for the word ****** . In some places it is a damn fucking dish or it is means something else . So before kicking the person why don't the mods message that person and actually get a fucking education lesson behind it before going all psycho on their asses . As for the mods ...they don't need to hide hell the **** no . And you should give warnings to people when they ARE breaking the rules .....speaking of that I find it fucking stupid that people are getting kicked for a video they posted cuz the lyrics has a banned word in it . It's not their fucking control ...relax . We are supposed to escape reality and enjoy some fun and exciting moments with one another ..NOT feeling like we are walking on egg shells in prison because some people don't have have a backbone or understand what bantering is. You don't like it ....noone is stopping you , noone is making you stay. So act like fucking adults or get the **** out or better yet ...Learn fucking Common Sense .
 
Boba Fett said:
He let go the best mod of the room for personal reasons. Screem hated him, quit and talked **** on him but Dylan has no back bone and rehired him. No offense to Screem, I like him and he spoke the truth but Dylan got chucked by him. No matter what we say, nothing will get done because Dylan paid for his position and as much as he hates the room (off site screenshots) he doesn't want to give up on an investment. Think of it, why would a teen be given admin of an adult room? He's admitted to people he bought it. ***** said CM or the owner is related to him which I don't believe.
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Paying isn't the whole bad thing, it's paying for the coloured name, wanting the (online) power, then not having the gumption or respect for the position you bought. It's the outright saying I don't care about the room and admitting you have no time... Then going and spending time in other rooms instead of showing your ******** you care about your own room.

Half the people complaining are trolls themselves and I don't disagree with them being kicked most of the time, but even regs who know better deserve a warning. When trolls get mutual respect they tend to behave in the presence of mods... The lack of respect on both sides is a reflection of the admin, period. Some of the people he's hired didn't know anyone in the room, he's hired known trolls that had he asked previous mods or "normal" regs he would have been warned about hiring, and then when confronted with this, he doesn't actually comment on it or do anything to combat it. 🤷‍♀️

The fact Chaos was hired is a joke, and proves he doesn't know his own room. Had he asked any reg or any previous admin/mod, they'd have warned away from that one - She was overtly religious, instigated constantly, and was known for causing trouble in PMs whilst also being overly sensitive. EmotionalReliefCat sits on the list allowing racism, doxxing, and paedophillia - If you're busy, don't log in. The others I've had no issues with personally but I can see why people would be frustrated with blatant favouritism and silly kicks.

You can't complain about room issues without mentioning names when those names are the reason for the complaints, closing a threat tackling people's issues is merely proving their point. Asking Dylan his thoughts is pointless because he's proven how little he cares in previous threads.

That's a **** off wall of text. Jesus. 🤦🏼‍♀️
 
Reyna Monet said:
This is dead on target 🎯



I made a post the night/morning before last and it was closed without a response from anyone. Not the mod who was clearly having some type of meltdown and using her badge to assert her POWER even if without reason. Muting and kicking me nonstop while people are literally doing the exact thing I'm getting muted for.
Example here 🔻
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Look at times at the top. Literally a mod was in the room above the post. And two online watching me LIKE A STARVING VULTURE. And 20 mins later it's still there. (the post) I blurred it out because I'm no e snitch 😂

Annnnd... Since I'm here. What's up with all the doxxing? Basically what I've gathered is if you brown nose mods and admin you can blatantly break rules with no real repercussions. @FairyxStar_oOo has been doxxing numerous people for months now. Myself included. Spamming the room even when the users she's doxxing isn't even online. @Snoogles does this as well. Even nudes/pornographic claiming they're ********. (he's a liar), (he's paved the doxxing way). They get a little kick and be on their way. Fairy acting like the victim when she literally has pictures of ME ON HER FB. She's been doxxing me for at least 6 weeks. I get a 2 hour kick for sharing a picture she posted in the room and telling her that she looked prettier in that picture (her hair was combed). No biggie, I broke a rule. Buuuut, this nonstop doxxing is RIDICULOUS. And she has the audacity to ask for someone else to be banned. Check the days. Some are older.. But I decide against taking it to admin. I mean what's the point... I'm not liked so it's whatever 🤷🏻‍♀️
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There is no order in this room.. Even with mods. They seem to actually do more harm than good. With a few exceptions
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Cry me a river il DO what I want no q likes ur right on that you posted my fking pics even if I post them myself unlike you I DONT stop then my real FB got posted and you seriously think I’m going to stop posting bitches of you ugly people Get fucked I’m not stopping

FairyxStar_oOo said:
Cry me a river il DO what I want no q likes ur right on that you posted my fking pics even if I post them myself unlike you I DONT stop then my real FB got posted and you seriously think I’m going to stop posting pictures of you ugly people Get fucked I’m not stopping
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And all you people do is constantly gang up on Dylan and his mods like it’s his fault it’s not Dylan’s fault you are all creatures * you lot DOx people SO when I do it back to use you don’t like it and then All dylan this Dylan Dylan is a **** admin fairy this fairy’s that no it’s YOU lot who are the **** u are creatures
 
SanDruh said:
I recently had an issue with a chatter (popo) discussing in main he wanted to find my daughter (12) on fb (she doesn't have one) to send her nudes. I took the SS and sent to a mod. Nothing was done about it. So I waited for the admin to get on and asked him if he's aware of the situation. He was not. I showed him the proof an the SS of the message to the mod to show him someone was told about it and even stated they'd bring it up to Dylan. When that was shown then Dylan said he had already kicked popo prior to the incident so nothing else could be done. However one kick for a different similar incident (saying pedo things to hoodie about his daughter) did not punish him for what he said to me 4 hours after the kick.
I'm not sure what these rules are there for because followed or not nothing gets done except to the ones the mods find less likeable.
Anyways this is just one of my complaints and prob the last bc it's becoming where I nor do the other regular vips want to keep chatting here. I mean how many ******** have already made their own chat rooms and recruited chat ave ********?? Notice how most if not all of those ******** were from singles.
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Like how when you were doxxing me and nothing happened but you cried cause I posted a goose that had NOTHING to do with you, you just assumed it did.
 
🥹 well damn good reading on my break

BeautifulDisaster77 said:
Like how when you were doxxing me and nothing happened but you cried cause I posted a goose that had NOTHING to do with you, you just assumed it did.
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I never once said the goose was about me lol that was what the mods assumed. And yes I doxxed ur ass bc u talked **** about my kids 👌🏻 deal with it. It was in the past and we both have stopped. I'd say we've matured better than some. Good day to u Jenn
 
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