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I have a suggestion @DynamicDylan to maybe help lessen the wrongful/unjustified actions...
Make the mods that are found to be unjustly muting/kicking people to apologize, not just in PMs but in main as well. Humble themselves. I bet after knowing that could be an option they'll think twice before getting action happy. And if they're apologizing too often to take their badge away.. Even if you're just taking it away for a day or two. But they need discipline/punishment as well.


I remember in gen when there was a mod doing this type of behavior. HR had been a semi new admin and with complaints he watched the room and found that one of his mods was doing similar to what Chaos_NoPMs and UFC Fan do. I was max kicked. I don't know how quickly it was but the kick was reversed and the mod demoted. Along with him dealing with other mods similarly.

I have had disagreements with a few mods when they first became mods. I've even went as far as to tell @Audrey and @ShyOne that they shouldn't be mods and whatnot. Why, because we're so used to the mods in singles coming on as mods for all the wrong reasons. Both these mods didn't kick for mod abuse (which they could have, especially with what mods claim as #15 mod abuse) but explained to Me what was going on. I was corrected and apologized for it... Annnnnd, guess what. They didn't hold a grudge and hate me for the duration of chat. They both modded me and I would/will heed their warnings and authority with no problems.
This is just an example as to how the bad modding has made ******** with even the few mods who are actually there for the right reasons.

Bring back @ShyOne absolute bitch & @Baresy and get rid of @NoFeels @Chaos_NoPMs @ufcfan

LET'S MAKE SINGLES CHAT GREAT AGAIN ❣️❣️
 
Nothing to add here that hasn't been said already. I just want to add +1 to this legitimate thread. Mods are delusional I'm their power trip that's completely out of control. Admin should really do something about it or let someone who actually cares about singles room to try and fix it. It's easy to go to another room, I just don't see what's the point of all this. Everyone telling you what's going on, no one likes it there any more. You are just drinking and laughing about it? It's getting worse every day and it will not get better until things are done. Just my two cents.
 
XRosalinaX said:
Johnny, *****, and more previous admins were demoted. Who’s next once you get caught? It’s better to keep yourself clean and deal with issues rather than asking for closure and don’t tell me to, “shut up” when you can’t get others complaints dealt with. It’s dismissed and that’s why there’s complaints over and over. I think you should think about if you are really ready to become an administrator.
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***** was a psychopath who claimed he's a sexual but would hit on women in VGC. He banned so many in boys chat on suspicion of pedophilia and then created a chat room where he made a known pedo an ADMIN.
 
Max82 said:
Nothing to add here that hasn't been said already. I just want to add +1 to this legitimate thread. Mods are delusional I'm their power trip that's completely out of control. Admin should really do something about it or let someone who actually cares about singles room to try and fix it. It's easy to go to another room, I just don't see what's the point of all this. Everyone telling you what's going on, no one likes it there any more. You are just drinking and laughing about it? It's getting worse every day and it will not get better until things are done. Just my two cents.
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Thank you and you and I used to go at it (granted, HB convinced me to) but were civil now and I have no problems with you.

There's so many ******** in there who hold grudges and target people buy if they're friends with a certain mod, they can do whatever they want as long as it's not them doxxing or posting their nudes.

I see Liam aka Ryan Go's going at people all the time and then spamming the same gifs over and over again. If a certain mod is on (UFC Fan) she ignores it and tells people to use ignore. It's like calling the cops because some dude is outside your window, leaving fog prints and the cops tell you to close your blinds.

Then there's this guy UFC Fan protects who has yet to make a post that isn't a direct insult to another user or him tagging other users to try and get them to talk about the user he's obsessed with.

It's hard to believe we all enjoyed the room with only two mods and no admin. Dylan demanded @Absolut Bitch simply because she kept kicking the known spammer who used to frequent the room but he'll keep mods who tell everything to their friends about kicks, mod chat, biased modding and using the Admin Panel glitch thar puts them invisible letting them kick from a guest account. He allows double browsing which makes as much sense as William Hung starting a music career and let's UFC Fan sit in side rooms that are locked so you cannot communicate with her about issues in the room. Two years ago, @Chatmaster made a rule that didnt allow mods to go to side rooms, but Dylan doesn't care.

NorCal said:
Asexual LMFAO - I doubt he'd ever hit on women - he's as queer as they come - trust me I got the video
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He has hit on various women in VGC and when it was brought up, he claims he's a sexual. I don't care what your sexuality is, just don't be harassing people and be creepy. That's like if I hit on a female who rejected me and I'm like "I LOVE MEN WITH BIG GRENADE LAUNCHERS! I NEVER WANTED YOU!"

XRosalinaX said:
Video? 🤔 ? That’s a little weird 🤔 ?
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He probably fell off a flamingo float.

@DynamicDylan sitting in a club, by himself sitting down drinking an "Old fashion" with half of a pineapple in his glass. He pans the club full of people having a good time with friends. Suddenly this song comes on
which offends him because despite his status as a chat room dictator, it hasn't gotten him man-buns. He stands up and takes one more sip of his syrup infused lady drink, puts his back pack on one shoulder and storms out the club looking to flag down an Uber driver, but he is so intoxicated, he forgets where he lives and gives directions to Big Ben.
 
One issue I’d like to bring to attention is I see a lot of posts about users feeling like Mods are on a power trip and I think given the state of this room it’s understandable they feel this way. I want to say as a former mod there always users who we see and they are automatic warning bells so sometimes you just watch them a lot heavier, my experience is adult chat so of course there the problems are very different. I mentioned several times there has to be some kind of way to bridge the gap between staff and the ********, I think it would make the environment in this room improve a lot. I had someone tag me yesterday in the main room asking if I was keeping Dylan hostage, I then asked who is Dylan and they said Admin, then I replied idk why you’d ask me I don’t have anything to do with him. This user then makes a post and says he’s a player, the second that popped up the user was kicked and i looked to see who the mod was and there was no mod listed, I closed the list and went back to the room and then see a user wishing sexual assault on another user and their mom all within a one minute time span and the person wishing sexual assault was never kicked until a good 10 minutes later when the room was in an uproar.

I could make a list a mile long of issues and potential solutions, and have one tried to do so but was met with issues of silence. It’s well past time for everyone to talk in a healthy way about how to fix the issues. This room has a wonderful group of people, I don’t think the staff is evil and the ******** aren’t evil. I do hope for everyone this problems are addressed.
 
Oh one thing to add or recommend, These are ******** complaining about staff being heavy handed and I’m already seeing staff from other rooms who probably never visit this room questioning posts or stories, I’ve seen posts in the past where staff from other rooms argue with the ******** in this room, threads get closed even when they are peaceful and it proves the point the ******** are making. Let the ******** and the staff from this room try and work this own on their own. We have to try different things to see if it works to help staff and the ******** ❤️
 
Hiraeth said:
One issue I’d like to bring to attention is I see a lot of posts about users feeling like Mods are on a power trip and I think given the state of this room it’s understandable they feel this way. I want to say as a former mod there always users who we see and they are automatic warning bells so sometimes you just watch them a lot heavier, my experience is adult chat so of course there the problems are very different. I mentioned several times there has to be some kind of way to bridge the gap between staff and the ********, I think it would make the environment in this room improve a lot. I had someone tag me yesterday in the main room asking if I was keeping Dylan hostage, I then asked who is Dylan and they said Admin, then I replied idk why you’d ask me I don’t have anything to do with him. This user then makes a post and says he’s a player, the second that popped up the user was kicked and i looked to see who the mod was and there was no mod listed, I closed the list and went back to the room and then see a user wishing sexual assault on another user and their mom all within a one minute time span and the person wishing sexual assault was never kicked until a good 10 minutes later when the room was in an uproar.

I could make a list a mile long of issues and potential solutions, and have one tried to do so but was met with issues of silence. It’s well past time for everyone to talk in a healthy way about how to fix the issues. This room has a wonderful group of people, I don’t think the staff is evil and the ******** aren’t evil. I do hope for everyone this problems are addressed.
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I knew you'd get demanded for speaking out on this room, but it was too late when I read your post. As a mod you cannot call out bs on other mods or admins. People like Samwise/HR has tried to get mods fired for calling out him or his mods abuse. This website is run poorly, no problems get addressed unless it's a guest profile. VIP members who engage in pedophilia and illegal activity get kicked but never banned because the owner needs their munayz. The fact Chatmaster approved a member who is a white supremacist in Adult Chat known as @WhitePrideGuy to remain goes to show you how dysfunctional this site is. I believed in their propaganda at 15, so I know exactly what they'll say. I called the user out for their forum complaint about being kicked for racism. Within a few replies (as predicted) he brought up "race replacement theory" and felt we needed a "white America" and to "deport non whites". Those posts and mine were deleted in his thread that HR/Samwise let go on for like 7 pages.

That was the realization for me that CM and the owner doesn't give a f*ck about anything as long as they make money.

People literally got banned and fired for calling out CM for his inability to ban a known pedophile known as Sthcalguy simply because he bought multiple VIP membership for himself and his victims. The only person to lick his boots was @Samwise who then asked us (I was a mod at the time) in a group message to pretty much defend him from the entire site going at him or be fired.
 
Boba Fett said:
I knew you'd get demanded for speaking out on this room, but it was too late when I read your post. As a mod you cannot call out bs on other mods or admins. People like Samwise/HR has tried to get mods fired for calling out him or his mods abuse. This website is run poorly, no problems get addressed unless it's a guest profile. VIP members who engage in pedophilia and illegal activity get kicked but never banned because the owner needs their munayz. The fact Chatmaster approved a member who is a white supremacist in Adult Chat known as @WhitePrideGuy to remain goes to show you how dysfunctional this site is. I believed in their propaganda at 15, so I know exactly what they'll say. I called the user out for their forum complaint about being kicked for racism. Within a few replies (as predicted) he brought up "race replacement theory" and felt we needed a "white America" and to "deport non whites". Those posts and mine were deleted in his thread that HR/Samwise let go on for like 7 pages.

That was the realization for me that CM and the owner doesn't give a f*ck about anything as long as they make money.
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I was lucky enough to have not be demoted, I later did resign for a bit with hopes to return back mid June. I really am not trying to step on toes of anyone and as I said I’m not saying any staff is fully at fault at all. I would never ever be able to not say something when I see something is wrong. That might make me a trouble maker or less of a teammate to some on here but I’m willing to go down in a negative way if it helps in some kind of way. I’ve not been on chat Ave for to long so my history and knowledge is much different then most of you. But I do wish well for everyone in some kind of way.
 
Kim said:
my time here i swear i have never seen so many complaint
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Lol -- Because it's actual regs coming out and speaking up. I've been going there years and never have I seen it like this. Equally, though, when the room admin comes to forums and openly says he has no time to admin and doesn't care because he's going out -- It should be a sign of him not giving a damn for the room, and only caring for the title (that he paid for, might I add)


SanDruh said:
Anyways this is just one of my complaints and prob the last bc it's becoming where I nor do the other regular vips want to keep chatting here. I mean how many ******** have already made their own chat rooms and recruited chat ave ********?? Notice how most if not all of those ******** were from singles.
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Yeah, I know a few of the regs have gone to another site, I've been asked to go. I don't blame them, either. The room is a cess pit every time I log in. I don't even stay now. I read the screen and you can almost guarantee it will be a **** show of doxxing, drama, and trolling no matter the time of day. Even with mods on the list.

Boba Fett said:
A major problem is some of the mods will zero in on some users they do not like and immediately kick them if they retaliate against known sh*t talkers. Grow a spine, calling someone a "moron" isn't worthy of a two hour kick. We're mostly adults in there and unless the insulting has been going on for a bit and a mod warned both users, why should someone be kicked automatically?
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I know it's just a chat room, but many people have formed close friendships with other users over the years, so why should they just stop going to the room instead of addressing issues to fix the room?
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That's the point, the level headed regs are being driven away by the amount of trolls that are being let to run free. It's sad because there used to be a great vibe in there with all the regs and mods who were part of that vibe and kicking the spammers/trolls. Now there's no kicking
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Look at times at the top. Literally a mod was in the room above the post. And two online watching me LIKE A STARVING VULTURE. And 20 mins later it's still there. (the post) I blurred it out because I'm no e snitch 😂

Annnnd... Since I'm here. What's up with all the doxxing? Basically what I've gathered is if you brown nose mods and admin you can blatantly break rules with no real repercussions. @FairyxStar_oOo has been doxxing numerous people for months now. Myself included. Spamming the room even when the users she's doxxing isn't even online. @Snoogles does this as well. Even nudes/pornographic claiming they're ********. (he's a liar), (he's paved the doxxing way). They get a little kick and be on their way. Fairy acting like the victim when she literally has pictures of ME ON HER FB. She's been doxxing me for at least 6 weeks. I get a 2 hour kick for sharing a picture she posted in the room and telling her that she looked prettier in that picture (her hair was combed). No biggie, I broke a rule. Buuuut, this nonstop doxxing is RIDICULOUS. And she has the audacity to ask for someone else to be banned. Check the days. Some are older.. But I decide against taking it to admin. I mean what's the point... I'm not liked so it's whatever 🤷🏻‍♀️
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There is no order in this room.. Even with mods. They seem to actually do more harm than good. With a few exceptions
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Mods sitting there whilst vile stuff like those screenshots show I've posted about myself - The fact there's multiple examples from different people (who don't even talk in the room, might I add) including the same mod should make alarm bells ring for any admin. He's clearly fucking incompetent and his mods being as incompetent is no surprise, though.


Max82 said:
Admin should really do something about it or let someone who actually cares about singles room to try and fix it. It's easy to go to another room, I just don't see what's the point of all this. Everyone telling you what's going on, no one likes it there any more. You are just drinking and laughing about it? It's getting worse every day and it will not get better until things are done. Just my two cents.
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This. Let someone who has time for the room actually be admin... Then when you do have time, don't be seen in other rooms whilst ignoring your own room and multiple complaints.

Boba Fett said:
It's hard to believe we all enjoyed the room with only two mods and no admin. Dylan demanded @Absolut Bitch simply because she kept kicking the known spammer who used to frequent the room but he'll keep mods who tell everything to their friends about kicks, mod chat, biased modding and using the Admin Panel glitch thar puts them invisible letting them kick from a guest account. He allows double browsing which makes as much sense as William Hung starting a music career and let's UFC Fan sit in side rooms that are locked so you cannot communicate with her about issues in the room. Two years ago, @Chatmaster made a rule that didnt allow mods to go to side rooms, but Dylan doesn't care.
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Exactly, how did Screem and Ab carry the room without an admin and still have less complaints. They themselves were kicking and actually modding. They were kicking the same people who are now complaining, but people don't complain when the kicks are justified because most respect it when it's not favouritism or uncalled kicks. It's a mutual respect for each other.

I know a few people have made a mockery out of it with the threads lately, but there are genuinely people who care about that room and want to enjoy it like they did and are hating seeing what it's become now. Those are the people that are frustrated at being ignored and their issues not being addressed. You can't blame them. Purple had none of these issues, Screem/Ab when they were essentially covering the room just them two had none of these issues... In fact, going back as far as digichat I can't remember the room ever being as complained about as this is now.
 
Hiraeth said:
I was lucky enough to have not be demoted, I later did resign for a bit with hopes to return back mid June. I really am not trying to step on toes of anyone and as I said I’m not saying any staff is fully at fault at all. I would never ever be able to not say something when I see something is wrong. That might make me a trouble maker or less of a teammate to some on here but I’m willing to go down in a negative way if it helps in some kind of way. I’ve not been on chat Ave for to long so my history and knowledge is much different then most of you. But I do wish well for everyone in some kind of way.
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If you step on toes, you're done. It's honestly a dictatorship on here because of the owner. All of this money and they can't even update the rooms. You can only upload a 1mb pic and can't successfully ban vpns. This sh*t is ghetto. But I honestly like a lot of people on here. I feel like it's a concentration camp full of bright, intelligent good people afraid to speak out.
 
Louize said:
Exactly, how did Screem and Ab carry the room without an admin and still have less complaints. They themselves were kicking and actually modding. They were kicking the same people who are now complaining, but people don't complain when the kicks are justified because most respect it when it's not favouritism or uncalled kicks. It's a mutual respect for each other.

I know a few people have made a mockery out of it with the threads lately, but there are genuinely people who care about that room and want to enjoy it like they did and are hating seeing what it's become now. Those are the people that are frustrated at being ignored and their issues not being addressed. You can't blame them. Purple had none of these issues, Screem/Ab when they were essentially covering the room just them two had none of these issues... In fact, going back as far as digichat I can't remember the room ever being as complained about as this is now.
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He let go the best mod of the room for personal reasons. Screem hated him, quit and talked **** on him but Dylan has no back bone and rehired him. No offense to Screem, I like him and he spoke the truth but Dylan got chucked by him. No matter what we say, nothing will get done because Dylan paid for his position and as much as he hates the room (off site screenshots) he doesn't want to give up on an investment. Think of it, why would a teen be given admin of an adult room? He's admitted to people he bought it. ***** said CM or the owner is related to him which I don't believe.
 
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