Sophies Sanctuary [Gay Chat]

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Inkandtatts said:
@nsmnc you’re having quite the day. Blocked from a side room in Gay Chat and issues in Boys Chat too.

I can’t add any more to what @emileh has said. If you’re not wanted in a user-created side room then I can’t overrule that.

If you don’t want to use an email provider that’s acceptable to Chat Avenue for you to register and make your own room, I can’t help with that either.

Maybe try the quiz room. Quizbot is shirtless but he’s not too offensive.
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I typically prefer lurking on more decentralized platforms (such as Lemmy), but given the nature of my work, I am isolated many hours of the day and was starved for some connection. It's on me for forgetting what the world is like.
 
nsmnc said:
I typically prefer lurking on more decentralized platforms (such as Lemmy), but given the nature of my work, I am isolated many hours of the day and was starved for some connection. It's on me for forgetting what the world is like.
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I’ll let Sophie know you stopped by
 
nsmnc said:
Unfortunately, I avoid using Microsoft products whenever possible due to ethical and privacy related reasons. Thanks anyway.
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I too avoid using Microsoft products and the other major ad companies. However, I DO have an Outlook account, specifically for this site. There's nothing to track since there's nothing to find on that account - just an online alias with a VPN accessing it. If you do that, then you won't have any issues. Don't hide behind security and privacy, there are plenty of ways to do this without compromising security or privacy.

As staff at Chat Avenue, we do not control what private users do or don't do. Side room staff are NOT Chat Avenue staff; we can't control them. Creating a side room is a feature they paid for, with real-world money, and it's a feature they use with their own authority. How would you feel if you paid twenty US dollars to make a side room, and then the owners of that site said "Look, this guy, he really doesn't trust Microsoft or ad companies, it's not his fault he seems sketchy, and uses guest accounts, he just wants some PG real-world interaction, pretty-please let him in?"

Now imagine if the owners of that site said "Let him in or we take the privileges that you paid for away"

You want us to do the second one, and something tells me, based on how you compose yourself about cyber-privacy and security, you would flip the can if you paid for a feature that was forced away from you because a centralized company decided you "abused" that feature.

Trust me, I flipped the can when they took away our ability to change our usernames for free (before I was staff, which means we can't change our usernames anyway).

By the way, there's a really cool company called Tuta, they do mail, and last I checked you can use their email service. They are privacy-focused and free, it wouldn't hurt to make an email with them specifically for this if you object to Outlook or the infamous ad company's data-hoarding platforms. I've also heard good things about Onionmail, but that may not work given the ease-of-account-creation (since most users here would use those services to spam or evade detection for illegal activities, trust us, we've figured that out the hard way)
 
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I may have made a comment under another disgruntled user's post talking about abuse of power, but I was one hundred percent referring to Sophies Sanctuary when I made it. That said, it was undoubtedly an abuse of power. I apologize if my comment offended you, but the above reply was wholly unnecessary.

I've already decided not to use this platform anymore and have since requested termination of my forum account due to the deviancy, toxicity, and overall negativity (from users and mods alike).

I would like to make my departure in peace.
 
TheEridianNinja said:
I too avoid using Microsoft products and the other major ad companies. However, I DO have an Outlook account, specifically for this site. There's nothing to track since there's nothing to find on that account - just an online alias with a VPN accessing it. If you do that, then you won't have any issues. Don't hide behind security and privacy, there are plenty of ways to do this without compromising security or privacy.

As staff at Chat Avenue, we do not control what private users do or don't do. Side room staff are NOT Chat Avenue staff; we can't control them. Creating a side room is a feature they paid for, with real-world money, and it's a feature they use with their own authority. How would you feel if you paid twenty US dollars to make a side room, and then the owners of that site said "Look, this guy, he really doesn't trust Microsoft or ad companies, it's not his fault he seems sketchy, and uses guest accounts, he just wants some PG real-world interaction, pretty-please let him in?"

Now imagine if the owners of that site said "Let him in or we take the privileges that you paid for away"

You want us to do the second one, and something tells me, based on how you compose yourself about cyber-privacy and security, you would flip the can if you paid for a feature that was forced away from you because a centralized company decided you "abused" that feature.

Trust me, I flipped the can when they took away our ability to change our usernames for free (before I was staff, which means we can't change our usernames anyway).

By the way, there's a really cool company called Tuta, they do mail, and last I checked you can use their email service. They are privacy-focused and free, it wouldn't hurt to make an email with them specifically for this if you object to Outlook or the infamous ad company's data-hoarding platforms. I've also heard good things about Onionmail, but that may not work given the ease-of-account-creation (since most users here would use those services to spam or evade detection for illegal activities, trust us, we've figured that out the hard way)
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At this point I do not care about the fact that I was unwanted in the room. I care primarily about the attitude and the lack of human decency displayed by this individual. As I said, I was a new user here, and this was a terrible first impression. If that matters to you, great. If not, no skin off my back. I'm done here.
 
Also (despite being a minimalist in addition to being a privacy enthusiast), perhaps if my experience were a little better and I were to have found some value in the service here today, I would have been more receptive to the idea of generating an account with whatever the **** email provider for its continued use. That did not happen. I won't sit here and say that I don't understand and appreciate the point you're trying to make about the privileges of paid users, but again this was about the attitude and the name calling and the overall immaturity of it all. Regardless of how it seems, I most certainly would have handled things differently if the roles were reversed.
nsmnc said:
I would like to make my departure in peace.
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I'm genuinely done here. I do not want to dwell on this for a minute longer. I just want my termination request fulfilled.
 
You were acting completely disrespectful and childish throughout the entire situation. Not only were you being arrogant, but you also interrupted ongoing conversations, completely disregarding the flow of the room. You attempted to come back multiple times after being rightfully kicked, showing clear signs of ban evasion. Your yelling was disruptive and showed a complete lack of consideration for others. Instead of handling the issue in a mature, private manner, you chose to make a scene in the public room, which was incredibly inconsiderate. Your actions displayed a lack of decency, maturity, and respect for others, which is simply unacceptable
 
And this is exactly what I'm talking about. I have clearly stated that I just want to put this behind me, and people are still pressing the issue.

But since we're talking about it again, I would like to once again point out that I was new here.

I did nothing wrong.

There happened to be a miscommunication, and I was rashly kicked for it. I only continued to come back because I felt I deserved a chance to explain myself. And I genuinely believed I would find stimulating conversation that didn't revolve around penis pictures and handle exchanges; another perfectly legitimate reason (is that logic not sound?). But I was repeatedly removed before I could get a word in edgewise.

The first or second time it happened, I could (maybe) understand kicking me due to my phrasing... but everything else was pettiness, pure and simple.

If someone had taken the time to speak to me like a human being and explain that I was disrupting the flow of conversation—for which I apologize—perhaps I would have been able to adjust my own behavior accordingly. But I didn't start the insulting; it began when I was referred to as unhinged. And I did suggest the moderator was being childish (after the fact), but truth be told, telling someone to seriously reflect on the way they treat other people doesn't constitute an insult.

Feel free to believe what you want, but I will not be gaslit into believing that I am in the wrong here.
 
You came into my room and implied that you were underage, which there is zero tolerance for and is why you were kicked out. Then you came back ban evading, being rude and disrespectful. You had to be removed a further eight times, then you post here and cry victim after name calling, being disruptive and wishing ill on me. The people that know me, know that I am fair and kind. Please do not come back to my room and leave me alone, Thank you.
 
SophieCD said:
You came into my room and implied that you were underage, which there is zero tolerance for and is why you were kicked out. Then you came back ban evading, being rude and disrespectful. You had to be removed a further eight times, then you post here and cry victim after name calling, being disruptive and wishing ill on me. The people that know me, know that I am fair and kind. Please do not come back to my room and leave me alone, Thank you.
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Hai girlfriannd
 
@nsmnc as the OP you can ask for this thread to be closed.
@SophieCD as the thread is about you, you can also ask for it to be closed.

UMs, there's nothing for me to assist with here. It's not a kick/ban complaint. It's a complaint about being blocked from a side room with a huge amount of verbiage thrown in. Feel free to do whatever you see fit. @Apollo @Ness_eb @TheLeigh Thank you
 
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