A comment on under 18 staff members from and experienced mod.

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Real women don't call each other 'girl', like that.
not as far as I know, anyway.
I don’t but as stated above others do. But then again we had a now banned male who implied/suggested that real girls/women don’t use chat rooms and most don’t even use the internet.

Registered males in girls chat really seem to have their fingers on the pulse in regards to what girls think, know and do.
 
I completely understand. See why I value open dialogue?

It’s important that you share your perspective here too, so people can realize this situation isn’t as simple as it may seem. As an Admin and an experienced, long-time member of the community, you have much more insight on this than most people here.

It’s easy for someone to judge you for having underage moderators without trying to understand why you actually need them — or realizing that even as an Admin, you don’t have superpowers. Everything has its reasons and context.

From what I’ve understood so far, it’s important for younger members to have moderators close to their age, because they feel more comfortable with them. Likewise, adult moderators are also essential, because adult users feel more at ease talking to someone older.

So what’s the real issue here? The risk of minors being exposed to CP? That’s a valid discussion, because it’s a real and serious problem. But after hearing your explanation, I don’t see it as your fault — just as I don’t see anything wrong with people wanting to debate this dilemma in a respectful way.
In the end, maybe it really is a problem without a clear solution.
It's not only the risk of being exposed to CP, it's the risk of being exposed to anything the site already supposedly tries to protect them from. It's bad enough they may see it in chat but then they have to do a report on it? CP, Pedophelia, bestiality etc are all things we try to protect them from and now they get to SS it and make a report about it?
 
It's not only the risk of being exposed to CP, it's the risk of being exposed to anything the site already supposedly tries to protect them from. It's bad enough they may see it in chat but then they have to do a report on it? CP, Pedophelia, bestiality etc are all things we try to protect them from and now they get to SS it and make a report about it?
We rarely if ever see such images in girls chat, especially with the new system that makes even posting normal pics harder. We do not screen shot such images either, taking a ss of such an image risks legal action for anyone. The risks of such things for a mod is pretty much the same as risks when just chatting so its pretty much not an a thing that would stop hiring a teen in girls chat.

As i have stated before I was underaged when i was 1st on staff in girls chat.. The benefits of me being the age i was way out did the difficulties. I say this as someone who was the victim of some of the most vicious criminal attacks in Girls Chat.

The backing we all give each other counters all the crap.
 
It's not only the risk of being exposed to CP, it's the risk of being exposed to anything the site already supposedly tries to protect them from. It's bad enough they may see it in chat but then they have to do a report on it? CP, Pedophelia, bestiality etc are all things we try to protect them from and now they get to SS it and make a report about it?
Right?! And you know what’s even more bizarre? Seeing that on a site full of people claiming to be Admins and Moderators — supposedly to keep the place clean and safe — only you and @Ken_Kaneki (ex staffs) handled this issue with the seriousness and respect it truly deserves. The rest turned it into a joke about burgers, pizza, and pineapple.

And to think I was kicked out of the lesbian room multiple times just for saying “Free Palestine,” because it was considered a “sensitive topic” for the Nazis in the room… I mean, the Zionists.

But back to the point: if an admin makes a poor decision out of scientific ignorance, fine — that’s understandable. Not everyone spends 14 hours a day sitting in a chair reading about history, geopolitics, science, watching lectures, solving math problems, and melting their brain with knowledge they find useful. I don’t judge that. But as adults, I believe we must be able to discern when our decisions put children at risk.

A lot of people claim it’s “exaggeration” when we talk about the long-term harm of exposing children to inappropriate content, but science disagrees. According to scientific studies, the prefrontal cortex of a Homo sapiens only finishes developing between the ages of 23 and 25. That means everything a child is exposed to during this process will deeply shape the adult they become.

Long-term exposure to violent or inappropriate content can lead to adults who struggle to make important life decisions — like leaving an abusive relationship, quitting a toxic job, or controlling their impulses. These people are more likely to suffer from binge eating, obesity, generalized anxiety, and addictions to alcohol, drugs, or cigarettes.

That’s why age ratings exist for video games, movies, TV shows, and even platforms like Y0uTvbe Kids. Because the kind of content a child is exposed to throughout their life will shape the adult they grow into.

For example, children exposed too early to violence may become apathetic, insensitive, egocentric, antisocial, sociopathic — even psychopathic. Just look at Dexter’s dad, who thought it was a great idea to take his child hunting and dissecting animals. That kind of desensitization to violence is common among kids exposed to violent games — which is exactly why those games are restricted to adults.

But of course, many will deny science to justify the admin’s poor decision. After all, no one wants to make enemies with the so-called kings and queens of this place, right?

Just like some people deny vaccines, claim the Earth is flat, or that climate change doesn’t exist — just to defend their leaders in power — it’s no different here. Science is wrong; they’re always right.

And since people around here love to say “this isn’t real life, it’s just a website,” then fine — I’ll speak their language. Maybe then they’ll understand me.

Even in fiction, true queens know how to rule justly for the good of their people. Rhaenyra Targaryen said: “Hello.”

On the other hand, we have the Cersei Lannisters — corrupt queens who prefer to close their eyes to injustice for their own benefit, but love to project power onto the weak to protect their own ego and vanity. I call this kind of leadership a Paper Queen.

A Paper Queen will never admit she was wrong. She’d rather watch the people of King’s Landing burn while she hides like a coward inside her castle.
For those who truly understand the subject, a single image is enough.
 
And to think I was kicked out of the lesbian room multiple times just for saying “Free Palestine,” because it was considered a “sensitive topic” for the Nazis in the room… I mean, the Zionists.
I’d say being kicked for being a pedo (to “bait” the admin- your words) supersedes any “Free Palestine”.

Nice trying to project and deflect. The thread is about a then minors views. At least she didn’t post this unlike you.

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Fuk up, Serascum.
 
I’d say being kicked for being a pedo (to “bait” the admin- your words) supersedes any “Free Palestine”.

Nice trying to project and deflect. The thread is about a then minors views. At least she didn’t post this unlike you.

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Fuk up, Serascum.
Although my way of rebelling, provoking, and protesting was foolish, the lesbian chat room is 18+. No minors were there — my mood it was an inappropriate protest, but it was exposed only to adults. Psychopathic stalker.
 
Although my way of rebelling, provoking, and protesting was foolish, the lesbian chat room is 18+. No minors were there — my mood it was an inappropriate protest, but it was exposed only to adults. Psychopathic stalker.
How do you know minors weren’t present!? Or another one of your filthy, grooming kind?
People lie about their age all the time and then complain they get banned because they’re terrified the police has been informed.

You know, lies? Like what you did for attention and “comedic” purposes- or so you say.

I’d rather be known as psychopathic than a self confessed child molester for attention. 😂

Are you safe here? Disgusting filth.
 
How do you know minors weren’t present!? Or another one of your filthy, grooming kind?
People lie about their age all the time and then complain they get banned because they’re terrified the police has been informed.

You know, lies? Like what you did for attention and “comedic” purposes- or so you say.

I’d rather be known as psychopathic than a self confessed child molester for attention. 😂

Are you safe here? Disgusting filth.
Fuk up, Serascum.
Stay on topic, this is an important matter. I'm not going to waste any more of my time arguing with a psychopathic stalker who didn't come here to contribute or engage in constructive debate, but only to troll. Also, don’t use profanity in this thread — it belongs to the 13+ girls' room.
 
Correct it is important. Important so that our younger members are aware of users like you. You may not have participated in posting illegal content, but you are the epitome of what you don’t want underage mods to see.

Posting political views is frowned upon in any room - hence why you were kicked from LC (so you say). I only commented on your hypocrisy, to which you agreed with when you admitted your “foolishness”
 
Mods Threat

I'm with anyone whose decent
I despise the putrescent
Personalities who defile
To you I'm hostile
Id suggest you steer clear
In me you should fear
I demand you abdicate
Leave your crown of self hate
Failure to comply
To this world it will be goodbye
This is no idle threat
I have history I'm a chat vet

wrote this as a mod when i was a minor
 
Can we have a separate thread for men explaining what real women are?

of course. -- And can we have a separate thread for transvestite males who dress up and pretend to be women (and are simply, frankly, delusional), for explaining what it feels like to be a woman, too?
Not you - I dont know you. - just a general point.
Some actual women call each other 'girls' - like, "you go girl". --- That is true.
I still feel cringe at most of what Seraphim says, whatever that creatures sex/gender, or orientation.

@ZombiUnicornis true, yes, different societies and sub-cultures.
 
Right?! And you know what’s even more bizarre? Seeing that on a site full of people claiming to be Admins and Moderators — supposedly to keep the place clean and safe — only you and @Ken_Kaneki (ex staffs) handled this issue with the seriousness and respect it truly deserves. The rest turned it into a joke about burgers, pizza, and pineapple.

And to think I was kicked out of the lesbian room multiple times just for saying “Free Palestine,” because it was considered a “sensitive topic” for the Nazis in the room… I mean, the Zionists.

But back to the point: if an admin makes a poor decision out of scientific ignorance, fine — that’s understandable. Not everyone spends 14 hours a day sitting in a chair reading about history, geopolitics, science, watching lectures, solving math problems, and melting their brain with knowledge they find useful. I don’t judge that. But as adults, I believe we must be able to discern when our decisions put children at risk.

A lot of people claim it’s “exaggeration” when we talk about the long-term harm of exposing children to inappropriate content, but science disagrees. According to scientific studies, the prefrontal cortex of a Homo sapiens only finishes developing between the ages of 23 and 25. That means everything a child is exposed to during this process will deeply shape the adult they become.

Long-term exposure to violent or inappropriate content can lead to adults who struggle to make important life decisions — like leaving an abusive relationship, quitting a toxic job, or controlling their impulses. These people are more likely to suffer from binge eating, obesity, generalized anxiety, and addictions to alcohol, drugs, or cigarettes.

That’s why age ratings exist for video games, movies, TV shows, and even platforms like Y0uTvbe Kids. Because the kind of content a child is exposed to throughout their life will shape the adult they grow into.

For example, children exposed too early to violence may become apathetic, insensitive, egocentric, antisocial, sociopathic — even psychopathic. Just look at Dexter’s dad, who thought it was a great idea to take his child hunting and dissecting animals. That kind of desensitization to violence is common among kids exposed to violent games — which is exactly why those games are restricted to adults.

But of course, many will deny science to justify the admin’s poor decision. After all, no one wants to make enemies with the so-called kings and queens of this place, right?

Just like some people deny vaccines, claim the Earth is flat, or that climate change doesn’t exist — just to defend their leaders in power — it’s no different here. Science is wrong; they’re always right.

And since people around here love to say “this isn’t real life, it’s just a website,” then fine — I’ll speak their language. Maybe then they’ll understand me.

Even in fiction, true queens know how to rule justly for the good of their people. Rhaenyra Targaryen said: “Hello.”

On the other hand, we have the Cersei Lannisters — corrupt queens who prefer to close their eyes to injustice for their own benefit, but love to project power onto the weak to protect their own ego and vanity. I call this kind of leadership a Paper Queen.

A Paper Queen will never admit she was wrong. She’d rather watch the people of King’s Landing burn while she hides like a coward inside her castle.
For those who truly understand the subject, a single image is enough.


More essays from sera. --- Can anyone be bothered to read these essays littered with BOLD TYPE?
I certainly cant be arsed. for the most part.

@Kita30

@ChloeAus


you are both right. And I should not assume I know what it's like to be female - I have no idea xd.
And anyway, we are all just Humans in the Universe, pretty much.
People are all different, for sure.
 
Mods Threat

I'm with anyone whose decent
I despise the putrescent
Personalities who defile
To you I'm hostile
Id suggest you steer clear
In me you should fear
I demand you abdicate
Leave your crown of self hate
Failure to comply
To this world it will be goodbye
This is no idle threat
I have history I'm a chat vet

wrote this as a mod when i was a minor

You are a poet;
and don't you know it.
Playing with words;
we're all absurd.

We can't go wrong
if we try to get along.

...
Some people are very strange and political and say things like "free palestine", and they hate Israel, and are total moronic trolls though. (here's lookin' at you, sera).
I had to end my poem early. I couldnt think of any words which rhyme with strange or weird.
 
Dexter’s dad,
*Jeffrey Dahmer
actual ****
I was told that you became a moderator at a very young age and that you're still underage — something I found hard to believe because of the way you communicate. You sound very mature, although sometimes your communication is inappropriate for someone your age. That’s why I assumed you were around 20 years old.

But that’s exactly what’s so striking about this phenomenon: young people have their behavior shaped so gradually and subtly by the environment they’re in that they don’t even notice it. A good example is this comment you made — and it’s not the first time I’ve seen you express yourself in a similar way. You probably didn’t even realize it, because it already feels natural to you.

The same goes for another underage moderator, who laughed at a comment that referenced violence, even if sarcastically. And that’s how the normalization of violence happens — little by little — until it becomes trivialized.

That’s why I shared that image. Any clearer than that, only the edges of crystals.
 
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