4th pregnancy scare

Inkandtatts said:
Options (in no particular order):

Continue doing it but with zero risk of getting up the duff:

1. Anal
2. Oral
3. Sterilisation

Minimise the risk:

4. Condoms
5. Coil
6. Pill
7. Diaphragm
8. Implant
9. Injections
10. Patch
...or a mixture of all the above.

I remember the sex talk at school where we were shown something like a cucumber with a male condom on and a cup with a female condom in it. Maybe try that. It'll be like two plastic bags having sex but you never know, you might like it...or it might be so repulsive it kills the idea of having sex in the first place.
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Thats a good idea idk if they would even steralize me?
so he wears a condom i insert a female condom. I have seen them but never tried them. My sister said no sex at all. Would tjat combo kill our sex drives though.??
 
JennaB99 said:
Thats a good idea idk if they would even steralize me?
so he wears a condom i insert a female condom. I have seen them but never tried them. My sister said no sex at all. Would tjat combo kill our sex drives though.??
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Which age bracket do you fall into?
 
A contraceptive implant is 99% effective and lasts three years. Plenty of time for you to get your life sorted out and find a place of your own.
 
Inkandtatts said:
Options (in no particular order):

Continue doing it but with zero risk of getting up the duff:

1. Anal
2. Oral
3. Sterilisation

Minimise the risk:

4. Condoms
5. Coil
6. Pill
7. Diaphragm
8. Implant
9. Injections
10. Patch
...or a mixture of all the above.

I remember the sex talk at school where we were shown something like a cucumber with a male condom on and a cup with a female condom in it. Maybe try that. It'll be like two plastic bags having sex but you never know, you might like it...or it might be so repulsive it kills the idea of having sex in the first place.
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Finally the obvious answer and that is B.J.
 
actual real life consequences for actions on display here.

pregnancy isnt scary...

what is scary:
1. your body rejecting the fertilized egg... many times referred to as miscarriage.
2. your egg not in the correct place during fertilization.... many times referred to as etopic pregnancy
3. chromosomes that over or under develop causing irreparable damage... many times referred to as a birth defect.
4. having your Dr come to your visit and tell you your human you are growing is no longer viable and needs extraction.... many times referred to as a D&C.... in many places it goes hand in hand with...you guessed it... abortion.
5. getting almost all the way through your pregnancy to go to a scan and find a full term baby with no heartbeat. instead of going home to eat a tub of ice cream and netflix and chillin. your headed off to the hospital to be medicated and deliver a baby you will never take home... many times referred to as a stillborn baby.

if you cannot wrap your head around these 5, chances are you cant wrap your head around the 1000's more issues and that means your sister is right, and you should keep your legs closed.
 
purplerose said:
actual real life consequences for actions on display here.

pregnancy isnt scary...

what is scary:
1. your body rejecting the fertilized egg... many times referred to as miscarriage.
2. your egg not in the correct place during fertilization.... many times referred to as etopic pregnancy
3. chromosomes that over or under develop causing irreparable damage... many times referred to as a birth defect.
4. having your Dr come to your visit and tell you your human you are growing is no longer viable and needs extraction.... many times referred to as a D&C.... in many places it goes hand in hand with...you guessed it... abortion.
5. getting almost all the way through your pregnancy to go to a scan and find a full term baby with no heartbeat. instead of going home to eat a tub of ice cream and netflix and chillin. your headed off to the hospital to be medicated and deliver a baby you will never take home... many times referred to as a stillborn baby.

if you cannot wrap your head around these 5, chances are you cant wrap your head around the 1000's more issues and that means your sister is right, and you should keep your legs closed.
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Let's also not forget that depending on the state you live in...YOU...could be charged for murder for any of the above despite it having nothing to do with anything you did.
 
StubleU said:
Let's also not forget that depending on the state you live in...YOU...could be charged for murder for any of the above despite it having nothing to do with anything you did.
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sad part of all of it... NONE of it is pain free. all of it requires some level and type of pain. jail requires monetary pain, the rest is emotional, mental and physical.



so glad i live where thats not an issue.
 
Miss Mushroom said:
It's trashy to have sex with your husband?? O__o We do not know the circumstances of their unemployment so I wouldn't come out swinging insults.
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It is trashy to be having sex with your husband while youre living under your sisters roof, not paying any bills. The fact that its the 4th "scare" whatever that means, only aids to irresponsible trashy behavior.

JennaB99 said:
she told us we are in no position for a baby which we are not but still behave this way. She said until we prove otherwise sex is off the table or move out. She knows we have no where to go either.
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The OP agrees they are irresponsible, but still chooses not to be responsible.

She is using her sisters sentiment/good grace and biting the hand that feeds her, by not following her households rules.
Which is trashy.
 
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