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he broke the chances he was given repeatedly, following the same pattern of behavior as past chances. Now we see peoples true colours in how this resolves.
 
Hi everyone,

Look I’m not really one for creating waves or complaining all too much about things in chat. I go there for laughs and to spend time with the people that matter to me, I don’t want backlash or anything from this but I’m concerned about where GC is headed. The mods have all done a great job in dealing with all the spam as best they can and I can’t praise them all enough, but to find out the spammer has just been given free reign in there is a joke, some of my closest friends don’t feel safe in there anymore because of this, is this what you want to drive regular, decent ******** away to please someone that just comes there to make it awful for everyone? By allowing him this you’re going to drive the core of what makes GC such a great room away. He breaks every fucking rule (sorry for the language) and still just gets to be there every single day, it’s a joke. Let’s face it my opinion probably won’t matter or make any difference, but I still think it should be heard. Some of the choices made in GC recently aren’t done for the right reasons or with the best interests of the ******** in mind, you don’t care about any of us although you pretend you do.

Sorry for the rant but things need to change or you’re going to lose what makes it so great.
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Actually making him stop spamming is beneficial for the room not the opposite and its safer. Now mods can concentrate more on predators, pedos, and trolls now instead of kicking him out over and over again for spamming. If you don't like him, it's simple put him on ignore.
You really need to remember you asked for him the other day, and then told him you were glad he was there. I would point out this is not trolling just reminding you of what you said.
 
I will say despite some of other postings, and on reflection, I do believe amaisey has done what she feels is best for the room, watching people who have been friendly with her for so long turn against her isn’t nice and we can do better. That said I do still think it’s a bad decision which will end in the predictable way.

But I am just a chat lurker, who deleted their chat account way back. I might register again but not right now,
Well chat could always benefit from a cutting insight or retort.
 
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Some important safety tips to remember, Allowed Does not mean welcome, no one is under any requirement to respond to them. You all know what you know.

Be careful of guest accounts active around the same times.

People that talk to people despite everything they've done are throwing up massive warning signs, don't ignore them signs. Many of these people have as suspicious a history/googled pics/other red flags of their own. Use their willingness to engage with people with that kind of history as a huge warning and think again what you think about that person.

Just cos someone doesn't have a flag you may expect them to have, doesn't mean anything, it also doesn't mean they are on a VPN. There is alot of stuff we cannot detect or trace initially. So just cos they are in the room, does not mean they are safe to chat to , just cos they aren't kicked, doesn't mean they are allowed either.

People can set location, and be double logged in ways that are more difficult to pick up on. If you suspect anything or are suspicious of anything report it with a PM to a mod. Certain people like to use 1 name to get familiar, and another name to use that information to get further.

If anyone over 18 is pming you and you are under 18, even if you feel safe, report this activity, see the previous point and expand it with this. These people have been doing these kind of things longer than some of you have even been ********, they are very adept at pushing their luck without you even realizing. They have no reason to be PMing you, and altho you might not be hurt, some people are much more vulnerable, and your early action and reporting may help someone else further down the line.

These are weird and strange times we are in now, you have to watch out for yourselves and each other more than ever before.
allowed does not mean welcome, and not kicked does not mean safe. Watch each others back and help each other.
 
Hi everyone,

Look I’m not really one for creating waves or complaining all too much about things in chat. I go there for laughs and to spend time with the people that matter to me, I don’t want backlash or anything from this but I’m concerned about where GC is headed. The mods have all done a great job in dealing with all the spam as best they can and I can’t praise them all enough, but to find out the spammer has just been given free reign in there is a joke, some of my closest friends don’t feel safe in there anymore because of this, is this what you want to drive regular, decent ******** away to please someone that just comes there to make it awful for everyone? By allowing him this you’re going to drive the core of what makes GC such a great room away. He breaks every fucking rule (sorry for the language) and still just gets to be there every single day, it’s a joke. Let’s face it my opinion probably won’t matter or make any difference, but I still think it should be heard. Some of the choices made in GC recently aren’t done for the right reasons or with the best interests of the ******** in mind, you don’t care about any of us although you pretend you do.

Sorry for the rant but things need to change or you’re going to lose what makes it so great.
Do I gotta read all of that 😐
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oh haha, I realized this is for concerns-
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Cuddles really is a good guy, when he pays attention to the room, he's a good mod. But he tends to put his name up, and go and do other things. So you see him in the room, but he's not really there. Like I said, he's pretty good, i've known him since the old java script girls chat room. He's always taken good care of us.
 
Considering that @Amaisey replied but deleted the message I’d say perhaps PM her with this concern. If you don’t think enough is being done you’re free to pm @Chatmaster for further action. Cheers!
 
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