How to " Date " online

Ken_Kaneki said:
I want to date online if I meet a good man and see how far the distance is
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OriginalScreenName said:
Or your thoughts about dating a complete stranger you have not met in real life, on a chat site, and for simplicity let us just say here on chat ave.

Feel free to quote and answer what ya want.

Would you date anyone on this website, why or why not.?

Would it make sense to set a straight-up deadline on when to meet in person, in that, ( and let us just say it is a heterosexual relationship) it is on the guy to visit the woman he is interested in first, and within a minimum of three months.

Should the woman do her due diligence and do a thorough background check on the guy? Or is it perfectly sane to just say oh we talk all the time and on cam so I trust him.

Also, would it be fair to say, if you advertise in any of the chat rooms in here that you are internet dating someone, who a lot of people would agree is a fucking tool, that you, in turn, open yourself up for getting ripped on.

And isn't it rather, juvenile as an adult, to advertise on your profile, that you are so and sos' " man " or " wife "; how insecure do people have to be that they have to literally advertise in that manner. Or is the thought, omg so cute. ?

Lastly, at what point does either person in the internet relationship in a chat room that is not a dating website, say, okay it has been almost a year now, and this person has not visited me in person, and or expects me to visit him or her first.

So those are my questions if anyone wants to take a stab at them.

For me it is all rhetorical, this is in no way shape, or form for me.

This is for the absolute clueless.

Help them out.

Have you had a successful internet relationship from a website not meant to be a dating website, share it, had a horrible experience and never did it again, share it too. Who knows ya might help someone.





( side note, I am not naming names, but I absolutely promise, there is one person on this website who just can not stand not reading my forum posts and is going to respond in a moronic manner, the second the person sees this. notice I didn't even put in the gender of the person. literally for me to not make this person cry all the person has to do is just ignore this post. I am literally not trying to bait this person, but the person will think I am. and in turn either post an emoji, a gif, or respond, thus exposing themself for everyone to see how much of a tool the person is. I have been over-feeding this person lately so when; not if, but when the person shows up, I am just going to let said person prove my point and leave it.)
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Online relationship sucks 😭😭😭
 
OriginalScreenName said:
Would you date anyone on this website, why or why not.?
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Why wouldnt you
OriginalScreenName said:
Would it make sense to set a straight-up deadline on when to meet in person, in that, ( and let us just say it is a heterosexual relationship) it is on the guy to visit the woman he is interested in first, and within a minimum of three months.
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thats stupid no one can bond tht much with a person in less than 3 months unless you are easy.
OriginalScreenName said:
Should the woman do her due diligence and do a thorough background check on the guy? Or is it perfectly sane to just say oh we talk all the time and on cam so I trust him.
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Do they perform background checks on the rest of the guys SMASHIN, it is reasonable for her to have the choice to that. It is unreasonable to do that to every person you want to smash.
OriginalScreenName said:
Also, would it be fair to say, if you advertise in any of the chat rooms in here that you are internet dating someone, who a lot of people would agree is a fucking tool, that you, in turn, open yourself up for getting ripped on.
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that is stupid and childish to mistreat someone based on who they are dating or talking to. Individuals should be treated as such.
OriginalScreenName said:
And isn't it rather, juvenile as an adult, to advertise on your profile, that you are so and sos' " man " or " wife "; how insecure do people have to be that they have to literally advertise in that manner. Or is the thought, omg so cute. ?
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No thats what everyone does when they are relationships why should an e-lationship be different
OriginalScreenName said:
Lastly, at what point does either person in the internet relationship in a chat room that is not a dating website, say, okay it has been almost a year now, and this person has not visited me in person, and or expects me to visit him or her first.
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You are conflating a chatroom relationship with a long distance relationship. The relationship doesnt have to exist within the confines of a chatroom. There are no time periods each individual knows when the time is right.
 
Bread. said:
Why wouldnt you

thats stupid no one can bond tht much with a person in less than 3 months unless you are easy.

Do they perform background checks on the rest of the guys SMASHIN, it is reasonable for her to have the choice to that. It is unreasonable to do that to every person you want to smash.

that is stupid and childish to mistreat someone based on who they are dating or talking to. Individuals should be treated as such.

No thats what everyone does when they are relationships why should an e-lationship be different

You are conflating a chatroom relationship with a long distance relationship. The relationship doesnt have to exist within the confines of a chatroom. There are no time periods each individual knows when the time is right.
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Chatroom relationship sucks! All men are shitty!
 
Bread. said:
Why wouldnt you

thats stupid no one can bond tht much with a person in less than 3 months unless you are easy.

Do they perform background checks on the rest of the guys SMASHIN, it is reasonable for her to have the choice to that. It is unreasonable to do that to every person you want to smash.

that is stupid and childish to mistreat someone based on who they are dating or talking to. Individuals should be treated as such.

No thats what everyone does when they are relationships why should an e-lationship be different

You are conflating a chatroom relationship with a long distance relationship. The relationship doesnt have to exist within the confines of a chatroom. There are no time periods each individual knows when the time is right.
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I think ya helped me at the end there, i think I have may indeed been conflating a chatroom relationship with an actual real life long distance relationship that was started either in real life or through a dating website.
 
Online dating can be a great way to meet people, but it’s all about finding the right approach. Start by choosing a platform that aligns with what you’re looking for—whether it’s casual connections or something more serious. Be honest and genuine in your profile, and don’t be afraid to let your personality shine through. When you start chatting, take your time to get to know the person before making any decisions. Also, always prioritize safety by keeping your personal information private until you feel comfortable. I’ve also noticed platforms like chaturbate get mentioned in reviews for their unique approach to connecting people—it shows there’s a wide variety of ways to engage online depending on your interests.
 
Online dating is all well and good if it starts off that way, but its pointless if you're not gonna progress to real life and future plans for cementing it as something more viable. Keeping it strictly online seems it wud be unfulfilling to me.
 
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