neither...i'm not sure i'll marry again...not because i'm bitter about marriage or afraid of commitment...but because i don't think it's a requirement for a relationship...but to move to another country and facilitate staying there for the relationship....maybe
would you move for someone or expect them to move to you?
go with out. Adoption is such an unethical system for a lot of the ways that it's done these days. i have friends that have adopted and regretted it...not because of the children but because they were foster kids that should have had better options and resources for their parents than have to go through the system and placed with someone else.
would you rather finish second or third...in a race